My story about eating in Korea
Some people have the luck of being born with a "cast iron
stomach". I used to think I did until a few years ago when
(back in Canada) I found certain foods...disagreed
with me.
Since coming to Korea, I have encountered many more foods that I
cannot digest Korean without becoming sick. All Korean vegetables
give me "indigestion" to put it politely, or as I sometimes say,
"King Sejong's Revenge" (similar to Montezuma's).
As bad as that is for me, soy products are even worse: nausea,
vomiting, dizziness, hives, and in one instance,
a seizure. Whether or not I have an allergy to soy products,
I don't know because I have never been tested. Regardless, I don't
have to be told if food has any soy content in it. I know because
my body reacts to it immediately. Even soy sauce means trouble.
Since I know what soy products will do to me, it should be obvious
that I avoid them and try to ensure my food doesn't contain any.
That's just common sense and self-preservation, not rudeness or an
insult to Korean culture. Right? Right?!?!
Unfortunately, many don't see it that way. Some have called me a
bigot or a racist for not eating Korean food. Many people I meet
over here, westerner or Korean, are either stupid or just don't pay
attention. I tell them "I can't eat Korean food,".
The modal verb can means ability, not choice, yet these people
won't listen. (The modal verb will means choice,
not ability.)
I either get one of two responses: "Why don't you like it?"
or "You just haven't tried it." I have been here since July
2001, nearly three years as I write, and have eaten roughly 200
Korean meals in that time. I don't need some twerp who has never
met me telling me that I "just haven't tried it", and I certainly
have no patience for people who don't listen, who think I choose to
vomit this stuff. It annoys me no end to be called "rude"
for something I cannot control.
Since foreigners are a minority here, that obviously means that most
of those who insist I eat Korean food are Koreans. Some of them will
go so far as to lie and tell my what they are serving doesn't
contain foods that will make me sick.
Yes, I said a few Koreans are liars. How do I know? Because back
when I was willing to trust Koreans with food, I would eat what they
offered and became sick, and then they would be offended
that I became nauseous. Some would say "I thought you were lying!"
But worst of all, some would say (paraphrasing), "You're in
Korea, you should be eating Korean food!" This happens even
after they have already seen me get sick from the same food.
I am still willing to be friends and socialize with Koreans, but I
do not trust them at all when it comes to food. Their
expectation that I should capitulate to Korean rules causes some
friction, but I will not do something that puts my health at risk,
and I will not apologize for refusing to.
What I find the most galling about this is that some Koreans are
lactose intolerant, that many of the very same people who expect me
to eat indigestible food will become angry if anyone offers them milk
products. I don't want to call them hypocrites, but....