.
Part 5d: For Special Dietary Needs
"Diet is 'die' with a 't'." - Garfield
Part 5: Break My Fast on Honeydew

Special sections:

5a: A Guide To Real Food In Korea

5b: A Guide For The Culinarily Inept

5c: A Guide To Eating Out In Korea

5d: For Special Dietary Needs

To Start, Press Any Key:
Introduction: New World Man
Part 1: Pack Up All Those Phantoms
Part 2: Fly By Night
Part 3: Lost In The Limitless Rise
Part 4: Subdivisions
Part 5: Break My Fast on Honeydew
Part 6: Working Man
Part 7: Steal Away In The Night
Part 8: Circumstances
Part 9: Stick It Out
Extra: A Passage To Bangkok
Linked to one another
Feedback

My story about eating in Korea Warnings to any and all new recruits

This page is a little different from the rest because it is in the form of an essay rather than a point by point explanation of various issues. I will begin by telling you about my personal problems with Korean food. There is a good reason to do so, so please bear with me.

I would implore recruiters reading this to inform your recruits. To send people to Korea without warning them of potential problems is grossly unfair to some, and in a few rare cases, it might endanger their lives. You would do everyone, including yourselves, a great service by admitting the concerns I raise on this page.


My story about eating in Korea

Some people have the luck of being born with a "cast iron stomach". I used to think I did until a few years ago when (back in Canada) I found certain foods...disagreed with me.

Since coming to Korea, I have encountered many more foods that I cannot digest Korean without becoming sick. All Korean vegetables give me "indigestion" to put it politely, or as I sometimes say, "King Sejong's Revenge" (similar to Montezuma's).

As bad as that is for me, soy products are even worse: nausea, vomiting, dizziness, hives, and in one instance, a seizure. Whether or not I have an allergy to soy products, I don't know because I have never been tested. Regardless, I don't have to be told if food has any soy content in it. I know because my body reacts to it immediately. Even soy sauce means trouble.

Since I know what soy products will do to me, it should be obvious that I avoid them and try to ensure my food doesn't contain any. That's just common sense and self-preservation, not rudeness or an insult to Korean culture. Right? Right?!?!

Unfortunately, many don't see it that way. Some have called me a bigot or a racist for not eating Korean food. Many people I meet over here, westerner or Korean, are either stupid or just don't pay attention. I tell them "I can't eat Korean food,". The modal verb can means ability, not choice, yet these people won't listen. (The modal verb will means choice, not ability.)

I either get one of two responses: "Why don't you like it?" or "You just haven't tried it." I have been here since July 2001, nearly three years as I write, and have eaten roughly 200 Korean meals in that time. I don't need some twerp who has never met me telling me that I "just haven't tried it", and I certainly have no patience for people who don't listen, who think I choose to vomit this stuff. It annoys me no end to be called "rude" for something I cannot control.

Since foreigners are a minority here, that obviously means that most of those who insist I eat Korean food are Koreans. Some of them will go so far as to lie and tell my what they are serving doesn't contain foods that will make me sick.

Yes, I said a few Koreans are liars. How do I know? Because back when I was willing to trust Koreans with food, I would eat what they offered and became sick, and then they would be offended that I became nauseous. Some would say "I thought you were lying!" But worst of all, some would say (paraphrasing), "You're in Korea, you should be eating Korean food!" This happens even after they have already seen me get sick from the same food.

I am still willing to be friends and socialize with Koreans, but I do not trust them at all when it comes to food. Their expectation that I should capitulate to Korean rules causes some friction, but I will not do something that puts my health at risk, and I will not apologize for refusing to.

What I find the most galling about this is that some Koreans are lactose intolerant, that many of the very same people who expect me to eat indigestible food will become angry if anyone offers them milk products. I don't want to call them hypocrites, but....

This is how I feel about Korean food
Doesn't it just make you sick?


Warnings to any and all new recruits

Now that you've read this, you can see why I focus so much on food. It's a daily concern.

Vegetarians
Religious concerns
Allergies
Diabetes and health concerns

Koreans do have cast-iron stomachs and will eat anything. (Or those who can't eat anyway and vomit it out later. Read Part 9d: The Abnormal Korean Societal Norms for more on this.) And most westerners who come here can eat Korean food without any problems. If you can, enjoy, and more power to you.

But for those who can't eat just anything, whether through lifestyle choice or from medical necessity, people coming to Korea need to be aware and informed of the facts. Korean society is one of capitulation to the group, and Koreans expect foreigners who come to Korea to live as Koreans do, and to eat what Koreans eat. And for some people, that's just not possible.



In Closing

If any readers have similar problems with food - what they cannot eat, how Koreans have responded, or concerns I haven't addressed - feel free contact me via my Feedback page. I am more than happy to help people who have health or personal reasons for eating specific things.

(With one caveat: don't attempt to proselytize to me, whether religion or vegetarianism. I respect your views and I am willing to help you, but don't ask me to join you.)

Back to the top of this page
Back to the previous page
Back to the front page

Hosted by www.Geocities.ws

1