Personal experiences
Personally, I have visited Thailand and the Philippines.
My month in Thailand was wonderful. If you can find it, watch
Spalding Gray's film "Swimming To Cambodia" where he talks about the
time he spent in Thailand making the film "The Killing Fields". His
descriptions of the Thais are spot on. These people know how to live,
how to have fun, how to make things fun. The food was wonderful, the
language is beautiful to listen to, and the culture is charismatic as
are the women.
I'm not much of a skirt chaser, being mid-30s and unmarried, but Thai
women are fascinating. Despite the poor quality of education and
their lack of English skills, Thai women I met could hold my attention
in conversation for hours. I spent several afternoons just talking to
the women working in the restaurant next door to my villa, or to the
woman who ran the laundry shop, or the women in local restaurants. No
Korean woman - hell, no Canadian woman - I've ever met could speak as
intelligently or be as charming.
I also spent several weeks in the Philippines. After hearing "GI go
home!" far too often in Korea, I first reacted badly to the calls of
"Hey, Joe!" but soon learned that Philipinos use that phrase on any
caucasian, not just the GIs. The people were kind and easy to talk
to, plus so much of the country speaks English that you don't even need
a phrasebook. Philippine food isn't as nice as Thai and mainland food,
but it's mild and easy on the stomach.
Philipina women are just as nice as Thai women. They are easy to
talk to, but still very prim and proper. You can forget about sex
before marriage, but if you want to go out dancing, these ladies like
to have fun and can talk up a storm. After going there, I'm seriously
thinking about dating a Philipina friend I worked with in Korea.
After meeting the Philipinos, the Thais, some Vietnamese, and read
much about the Cambodians, I'm beginning to understand why south east
Asian countries aren't as wealthy as others: not because they don't
have the wealth to build wealth (although that's part of it) or that
they lack the knowledge (they are all very intelligent), but mostly
because they are satisfied to live with less "things". That's something
the west could stand to learn, or relearn, since we knew it once.
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