 | The other parent ASSUMES they know what goes on in your household? |
| The other parent tries to run your household? |
| The other parent tries to DEMAND things from you that they have no right
to anymore? |
| The ex lies to the kids about you. |
| The bio-parent of the same sex thinks you are trying to replace
them. Why would she think that and what makes her think I'd want her
kids (brats)? |
| You pay your support in full and on time consistently yet still receive
support arrearage notices because support enforcement departments can't keep their records
accurate and custodial parents won't lift a finger to help fix the problem
when they can do it easily. (This is a common problem...believe me!!!) |
| You become a "wallet" to your ex...good enough to provide
financial support but not good enough to be a positive influence in your child's life
emotionally, mentally, and physically. |
| You are the one who struggles and sacrifices to better yourself in your
job and the ex is the only one that benefits when she gets support raised because you've
worked and sacrificed for a better position? Be real...how much does it cost to
raise a child? BOTH parents need to be equally financially responsible for their
child. Any support that goes above the "half" of the non-custodial
parent's responsibility is nothing more than spousal support for the custodial adult and
not the child. As a woman, I would have more pride in myself and my abilities to
take care of myself rather than mooching off an ex. Where are these women's pride
and dignity? |
| You have to see your ex several times a month and act nice to them even
though you can't stand them? |
| Your ex acts so pathetic when you are there to pick up the kids? I'm
not there to see her, or play games with HER, I'm there for my kids and MY KIDS only!
Does she really think I'd ever have feelings for her again after what she's put me
and my kids through? |
| I hate it that my ex acted fine until the time I fell in love. After
that, it was all hell breaking loose with her trying to cause trouble and blaming my new
love for everything...even the end of our own relationship that had nothing to do with my
new love! |
| Both homes have two entirely different discipline policies? My
children's custodial parent doesn't know the meaning of the word "discipline".
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| The ex feels threatened by a step-parent? My ex feels threatened by
my wife and her relationship with the kids. Ex thinks that stepmom is trying to take
her place with the kids. My wife loves my kids, but she doesn't WANT my kids for
herself. She likes it when they go back to their mother's house. If the ex
would get over herself and her own bitterness, perhaps she'd see things more clearly,
she'd quit acting like a spoiled child and try to get along. If she did, she'd be
surprised at how wrong she's been all these years. |
| I just hate my husband's ex period...she is a controlling, bitter, frigid
witch who has nothing better to do in her life than be vindictive. She has no life
at all! My husband, who is a very nice, fair person calls her "psycho".
(I think that speaks clearly on how he feels about her character and actions). |
| As a new step-parent you are expected to know all of the "rules"
, yet no one can actually tell you what they are? |
| The ex-wife says to you ( the new wife) "if it wasn't
for you, me and my ex would still be friends (together, happy, etc.) even
when you had nothing to do with their divorce? |
| Ex- wife says" my son/daughter doesn't need anything
from you" to new wife. |
| Don't you hate it when the ex uses your
child support payments to buy new expensive things for herself and drops the
kids off at your home wearing clothes that are 2 sizes to small, wearing
boots that belong to their mother and when you ask them if there getting new
clothes for the winter they respond with," well mom said you aren't
paying your support so we have to go without", even though your child
support comes off of your paycheque automatically. |
