This is a list of ideas for works of charity you can do to help someone who
is ill or disabled.
Physical Body:
Help person bathe, wash up.
Assist them with brushing teeth, combing hair.
Help them dress.
Do their laundry.
Provide a meal.
Actually help them eat if they need this help.
Do the dishes.
Do their grocery shopping. (Bring food; many people hesitate to tell you
their needs.)
Do other shopping -- people do need things from department
stores, etc., which are needs that go unnoticed and unmentioned.
Social:
Talk, about whatever the person wants to talk
about that day.
Laugh. Share good times.
Help
them go outside into fresh air and sunshine.
Take the person
for a car trip, like through a local park.
Offer to take them
to doctor appointments, even if you can only do it once a month or less
often.
Take them shopping if they are physically able to go
with you.
Read to them.
Write letters for
them.
Buy greeting cards and stamps, so the person can send
cards to friends or family if they want.
Unspoken
needs:
Look for things the person needs that would help
solve a problem they have in living well. For example, someone might
have trouble opening numerous bottles of medicines; you could buy a
medication tray for a few dollars that holds a week's worth of daily
meds. A simple plastic napkin-holder can be used to hold the current
mail or that month's bills. A multi-pocket holder can fit over the arm
of a recliner chair to hold the remote, TV listings, and items the person
uses everyday.
Is the person using an old or outdated item
simply because they cannot afford a new one or cannot go out to buy another
similar item? For example, a man's hair comb may be missing teeth but
he continues using it because he cannot get out to purchase a new one.
Maybe the person's pots and pans are bent and eroded from 30years of use,
but they've never had money for new ones (but you have a set you aren't
using, or can find a set at a local thrift shop).
Once
you know the person well, you may even learn that the socks and underwear
they own is ragged or full of holes -- simply because the person has been
unable to go shopping.
House
needs:
Look for what is broken and replace those items
(lamp, clock, toaster, fan, or other small items). Ask if appliances
work okay, like washer and dryer, refrigerator and stove.
Look
at the house itself - is there something broken or in bad repair that you
could fix? It doesn't need to be a big project! There are many
small things that can go wrong or get broken in someone's home.
Who
cuts the grass? Who prunes the bushes? Is there weeding that
needs done?
Are stairs and railings safe?
Are
there things that need washed or dry cleaned? For example, spring
cleaning is usual in most people's homes when "extra things" are
done, but an ill or disabled person might not be able to do those
tasks. Could throw pillows use a good cleaning? Could you take
down curtains, clean them and re-hang them?
Could you vacuum
and steam clean carpets?
Pets and their
needs:
Could the pet use a new collar?
Offer
to walk the dog - or to play with the pet outside.
Offer to
clean the cat's litter box. Buy a box of new litter.
Buy
a bag of food (make sure it is the same brand used now, because pets can get
sick when their diet is changed).
Offer to take their pet to
a vet for a health exam and routine vaccines.
Offer to take a
dog to the groomer if needed (and offer to pay the bill).
And
when you visit, take time to wash water bowls and re-fill them, or put out
fresh food for the pet.
These
are just *some* ideas for you to consider in planning HOW to help an ill or
disabled person.
| Be alert for needs that go unmentioned by the
person. What things would help them to live easier, live
better? |
Invest your charity as Christ would do.