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ONWARD ~ and
~ UPWARD
Judith Florian,
R.N.
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Featuring articles and
discussion of diverse topics and issues, including:
Disabilities, Home
Health Care, Sexual Abuse of Children, and Advocacy
The Impact of Churches
in Chronic Illness and Disability
The Development of Community Outreach Programs
Invest Your Charity
Do unto
others as you would have them do unto you.
Societies never hide what they value. Museums are
built to house famous and local artwork, with invitations to dignitaries to
visit at least annually for open house. Music is celebrated and taught
through symphony orchestras. Playwriters and the arts are publicly
displayed through each performance, from the community level all the way down
to high school and grade school programs. Fields are built for
baseball, softball, football... and stadiums with bleachers reaching high into
the air. Monuments are erected to remember events and participants, and
even parks and new buildings proudly display plaques to celebrate major
contributors and historical dates.
Communities notoriously hide imperfections. Town
"Visitor and Tourism Bureaus" make glossy photos of what is the most
attractive sights of the area, and draw attention to only the most positive
aspects of what their town has to offer - even when it requires the use of
blinders about very obvious flaws. Praise is heaped on the
excellent education the community offers, while ignoring the fact that the
school structures are deteriorating. Attention is brought to newly
built industry or shopping malls, but brochures never mention that the
community otherwise has become stagnant. Even hospitals (the structures
mostly) are celebrated for new state-of-the-art equipment and services, with
wings named for prominent persons. And, as a national trend, youth and
health have the most attention while illness, disease, and infirmities of old
age are hidden, down-played, and ignored, along with the persons whose lives
are affected.
When is the last time communities held Old People's Day,
with visits from local officials and the famous to Open House celebrations at
nursing homes and long-term facilities? When have communities or schools
regularly required young people to give any kind of service to the
elderly, ill, infirm or invalids in the town? How many churches have
created ongoing programs to fulfill needs of whose illnesses or advancing age
prevents them from doing daily tasks for themselves? What does your
community - your church - value? And in what ways are these values
displayed?
Where is your church investing your charity?
Rather than regarding someone who is ill or disabled as a
"charity case," I think the word CHARITY could be defined as "To
show care and honor, with assistance and reassurance, as an Investment in the
ill or invalid - with Tolerance to young and old."
Charity
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Care
Honor
Assistance
Reassurance
Investment in the Ill / Invalid
Tolerance
Young and Old
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To show care and honor,
with Assistance,
and Reassurance,
as an Investment in the ill or invalid -
with tolerance
to young and old.
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Churches might set up a three-fold plan for community
outreach, such as this:
| Identify homebound persons |
A simple sentence could be added to advertising:
We invite you to call us if you are ill, disabled, or homebound.
Any denomination served. |
| Create a volunteer "workforce" |
Recruit volunteers for an on-going program of
one-on-one contacts, visits, and service to the ill and disabled in
their homes. |
| Establish schedules |
Establish schedules of regular, on-going contacts with
the homebound persons. |
Visits should focus on service rather than
evangelism - much can be communicated through action rather than by
proselytizing. Remember how great you feel when you just washed and
put on clean clothes, ate a lovely meal, or had a good conversation.
These are the things that will work messages into hearts of those whose
physical needs are great, far more than preaching words, just as the message
was greatest when Jesus washed the feet of the Disciples. Look
for the person's physical needs first, and the needs present in their
surroundings. Do you have the compassion and patience to help someone
get a bath or washed up? Can you brush their hair? Help them
dress? Read to them? Help them write a letter - or read one they
received? Does the person need help with housework? Does the
lawn need mowed? Is there a window that needs fixed? Would a fan
or air conditioner improve the person's daily life? What in the house
has fallen apart with the person's body being ill? You'll be
surprised at how much your time and attention can give to another person!
Invest your charity as Christ would do.
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Through Music... Coping
Through Dreams
Coping
Through Inspiration-1 (large photo)... Coping
Through Inspiration-2 (small pictures)..
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On-Rejection...
On-Encouragement...
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The title "Onward ~ and ~ Upward" is a
"motto" I used as a teenager and young adult --- then forgot about for
a number of years. I feel it is a fitting motto to strive for and a
fitting title for the topics of this website.
(c) Judith Ann Florian
159 E. Main St.
Girard, Ohio 44420
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