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On
Our First American Job Hunt
by
Svetlana and Leonid Burshteyn
Eight
years ago we came to this country with a couple of suitcases, a
little money, loads of enthusiasm and big hopes for the future.
We were very excited about being able to become part of this country
of opportunities and new beginnings. We were determined to make
it in America even though new beginnings are usually tough. Yes,
we did realize that. What we didn't realize was that 'new' quite
often means different. And different it was!
Our first attempts
of job hunting were, as we fully understand now, pitiful. Sure,
my husband and I are college-educated professionals, but knowing
how to search for (and obtain) a job seemed like a science in itself.
Add to this that it was summer of 1991; recession in Connecticut
was in full bloom. We felt lost and overwhelmed.
Lucky for us
Jewish Family Service of Greater Hartford, the non-profit organization
that welcomed us to the area, had a resettlement program for new
Americans, just like us. Vocational counseling was part of that
program. That's how we met wonderful lady, Pam Garry, who became
our guide in exploration of American life during those first months.
During our weekly
sessions with Pam we began learning skills of job hunting. Not only
Pam taught us how to write a resume and basic interview's do-s and
don't-s, she also went out of her way to set up appointments with
people who gave us valuable professional advice. She even managed
to set up some training interviews where we could 'test-drive' our
newly acquired interview skills, and later discuss what went well
and what didn't. Jewish Family Service gave us an opportunity to
take computer software courses: CADKEY for my husband, Lotus 123
for me. It was free of charge for us. From time to time, Pam managed
to get us real interviews, which seemed close to a miracle.
It was not easy.
Rejections kept piling up; at times it seemed hopeless. But Pam
was always there for us with her friendly advice and her understanding
and her patience. Somehow we could feel that she believed in us,
and that helped us to keep on believing in ourselves.
Eight years
have passed, hard to believe. Now we are looking back on those shaky
first steps of our new beginning with great deal of appreciation
for what was done for us. We are thankful for the Resettlement Program
at Jewish Family Service. What a noble idea to have an organization
like this! We can't thank enough our counselor and very first American
friend, Pam. Our new beginning off to a good start, we couldn't
have done it without her!
by
Svetlana and Leonid Burshteyn
7/30/99
Leonid
and Svetlana are U.S. citizens who emigrated to the U.S.A. in
1991.
Leonid is a Senior Engineer at The Torrington Co.
Svetlana
is a Software Developer at The Hartford. |
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