MAY 21, 2000 The online support group that I belong to gets together twice a month. Once for dinner before the San Antonio Staple Mates meeting (second Wed. of the month) and towards the end of the month in Buda, TX. This second meeting is so more of the Austin folks can attend. We meet at Patty's house so it is very informal and relaxed. We can just talk and get to know each other. It is a wonderful opportunity for us pre-ops to ask questions of those that have been there and done that, if you know what I mean. This meeting or gathering is also a great place for us to express any concerns and fears we have. This month we talked a lot about Pulmonary Embolisms. We just recently lost a very dear member of our little group to a PE. I wish everyone considering this surgery had a support group like this one. These are the kindest and most understanding people that I have every meet. I know there are nice people in this world, but these folks are more then just nice, they truly care.
MAY 25, 2000 Last night was a very bad night. I couldn't get to sleep because I felt so bad, I hurt all over. I had been getting depressed, it had been two week since I saw Doctor S. and still no word from the insurance. I guess I am a little impatient. This waiting is killing me. I decided I would be aggressive and call the insurance rep again in the morning. I get to work at 6AM, I was just dreading the call to the insurance rep, I was so gloomy I just knew it would be bad news. I finally called and guess what?
I AM APPROVED!!!
I screamed! Yes, I really screamed and loud! My boss knew immediately what was up. I guess subconsciously I was afraid they would deny me, even with all the medical co-morbidities. And then where would I be? My heart was racing more then usual. I can not express the relief I felt. I will now have a chance at a real life, a healthy life. I called the Doctors office and talked to Toni, she does the scheduling. She said she needed a copy of the approval before they could schedule a date. She called the insurance company and they said the letter had already been mailed. Toni should have it by Tuesday. Believe me, I'll be calling first thing in the morning.
