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How Should We Then Live?            [view feedback blog]

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Can anyone tell me how all the pieces fit together?

Just like the little man in the cartoon above, I have been searching for a long time as to what life really looks like, so that I can get on with living it to the full! I have realized that all of life seems to fit into six areas.

Birth


Identity


Family life


Daily life


Talents


Leadership

Oh, so that's how it all fits

First of all (& obviously) we have to be born into this world.

We are then a part of a family, and we learn from them how to live with others, whether the example is a good one or a bad one.
In the context of our family our identities are fashioned.  We begin to learn consciously and subconsciously who we are as male or female, who we are as a "Kutschker" (in my case), or a "Meier", or whatever our surname is, and we learn how valued we are as individuals, and what we are valued for.

From within the context of our families we also start to learn how to relate to the wider world out there in our daily living; all the different people, different values, ideas, and so on. We begin to realize that the world is much bigger than just our own family.

In our youth, and especially through the education process, we also start to realize what our talents are, what we are good at, and therefore what type of job we might actually end up doing.

Then, through using the talents we have, we come into leadership. We become skilled, others learn from our example, and we also teach others many things. Even being a parent is being a leader, because you are responsible for bringing up children, leading them into how they should be living their lives in the world.


Now whilst the above provides an overview of life, I have found that it also helps us to categorize all the problems we see in our world today:

Although we are physically alive, for many people there still seems to be something missing inside of them - they can't seem to find happiness, peace, or joy; it's as if there is a hole in their hearts; people can be at a party and still be lonely.

Family life is becoming less and less stable. There are so many divorces, broken homes, and children born out of wedlock. Home is often a hell for many. Family bonds have been eroded, and our peer groups often become more important than our homes and families. Elderly citizens are left alone in their own flats, or shunted away to retirement villages and isolated from their families.

Many people have a low self-esteem due to real or perceived experiences of rejection. So, we often do anything to try and feel good about ourselves and find acceptance and security. For some, they try cigarettes; others try alcohol, or gambling. Some become sports fanatics. Others try to find their identity in their car, work, fashion, drugs, or sex, etc.  And this is often done in the context of a group of peers who are struggling with the same problems of rejection.

The world in which we live is being polluted & trashed. People are being abused instead of respected.  There are wars, crimes, rapes, pornography, fights, religious arguments, anarchy, refugees, dog-eat-dog in the business world, etc. People rip each other off, and couldn't care less about anyone else.

People's abilities to express their talents are stifled, or they have never been given an opportunity to flourish, especially if their family is poor or is very dysfunctional. And when talents are expressed, it is often for selfish ends.

We see dictatorship and oppressive leadership. We see power politics, and people still treated like slaves or pawns in a game of chess. We see leaders who don't really know what they are doing.

This being said, is there any hope? Is there a solution?


In all of my thinking, study, reading, research, & talking with people, I am convinced that although we are born physically, the solution lies in also being born spiritually. We need enlightenment. As Jesus said: "You must be born again" in order to experience life as God always intended it.

We need to open up our lives to Jesus Christ and become spiritually born, and then allow the Spirit of God to affect every realm of our existence.  I have discovered that when we do, life becomes fulfilling, meaningful, and alive!

New birth


Identity in Christ


Family of God


Daily life God's way


Gifts &Talents


Servant Leadership

When the Spirit of God comes to live within you and has full control, no longer is there an inner emptiness, but rather a wholeness, peace, and joy beyond understanding!

Whereas your "human family" may be beyond "repair", you are now embraced to be a part of God's family: He becomes your Father, Jesus is not ashamed to call you His brother / sister, and every other believer in Jesus is now your spiritual "sibling". You are never alone, because God is now with you in a very real way, and He always cares for you!

Your identity is no longer defined by the negative experiences you have been through in life, but rather by who you are „in Christ": you realize that you truly are significant from God's perspective, totally accepted, completely forgiven, highly valued, of great worth, and very special in His eyes! You no longer have to prove yourself to anyone!  You begin to experience inner healing!

In your daily life you come to understand that the spiritual reality is the fundamental reality, much greater than the physical universe. You begin to see the earth as a place to be respected, not raped & trashed. You begin to treat other people with dignity & kindness, showing mercy and exercising forgiveness. Your work becomes something you do for the glory of God and blessing of other people, not a purely selfish and greedy enterprise. You begin to honour those in authority over you, from parents to governments. And beyond religion, you are able to see evidence of the grace of God at work in other people's lives, even if they are not yet following Jesus.

When the Spirit of God comes into you, not only does He equip you with spiritual gifts & talents to bless other people, but often unlocked potential within you is released, just like Spring causes flowers in bud to bloom.

And leadership becomes seen as a responsibility to serve others to bring out their best.



Does this sound good to you? Well it sounds good to me! And I am experiencing it. You can, too. But to experience it, as I said before, you need to become born again. Would you like to become born again? Allow me to ask you a few simple questions to help you:

Do you believe that there is a God who created the universe? (yes / no)

God created us as human beings because He loves us, and He wants us to experience a great and wonderful life now and for eternity as we obey Him. 
Do you understand this? (yes / no)

Unfortunately we have all done wrong and sinned against God - that's why the world and our lives are and have been in such a mess. 
Do you admit that you are a sinner? (yes / no)

But because God loves us so much, He sent His own Son Jesus Christ to die on the cross as the penalty for our sins, and rise again so that we could have this abundant eternal life again as we follow Jesus. 
Do you believe that Jesus died for your sins and can give you eternal life as you follow Him? (yes / no)

We now need to receive Jesus Christ as our Lord and master, and then we will enter into the abundant life that God always wanted for us to have.  Do you desire to turn away from your sins, turn back to God, ask Him for forgiveness, and bow to Jesus to make Him the Lord and master of your life and begin following Him? (yes / no)

If you have answered "yes" to all these questions, you are ready to be born again! It is appropriate that you now pray a prayer like this:

A prayer for salvation to become born again:

Dear God,
thank you that you love me
thank you that you sent Jesus to die for my sins
I am so sorry for my sins (
name them here)
please forgive me
I don't want to sin any more
I believe that Jesus died for me
I believe that Jesus rose from the dead again.
And Lord Jesus, I want You to be the Lord of my life
and I want to follow You
Please help me.
Thankyou Lord God
in Jesus name I pray,
Amen.

If you have now prayed the above prayer from your heart, please let us know - we would be overjoyed, and would love to help you further grow in your new-found spiritual life! (Being born again is only the beginning!)  If you would like to know more, or would like further help in having your own spiritual birth, please contact us or any other born-again believer.

We encourage you now to talk with God regularly in prayer, read the Bible every day, obey God moment by moment, worship in a local church regularly, tell others about Jesus Christ, and let the Holy Spirit direct your life.  You may wish to read our little booklet „Building a better life: a pocket-guide for Christian living" for more information.

God Bless you!

Peter Kutschker
pkutschker@ifcc.tk

Now I can  start to really live!

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