It is important to have an effective outlook on what life is all about and how to get the most of your experience on Earth. Your philosophy toward the life you lead should be positive and constructive. There is a need for people with a positive and well-defined philosophy toward life, because they are the ones who will lead the way. These topics will give some ideas on what life is all about and what we all should consider as important in our own lives. These perspectives will guide you through your efforts to become a champion.

BODY LANGUAGE

& RELATIONSHIP SPECIAL

Eyes: A lot of guys either find it difficult to make eye contact with women, or tend to stare. Both are no-nos. Girls trust men with a direct, open gaze – it shows sincerity and honesty. So look deep into her eyes and win her heart

Touch: Now here's a tricky one - to be able to touch a woman without making her feel that you are making a pass. But used right (with gentleness and a light hand!), it can communicate caring, tenderness, attentiveness and of course attraction. Some good “touches” are holding her arm while crossing a street, guiding her through a doorway with a touch on her shoulder/back…

Walk: Don't strut your stuff – unless you are the Lone Ranger (And even he doesn't!) The way you walk says a lot about you, so if you don't want her to think that you are a stud, cut out the swagger. (Flashing chest hair sends similar signals.)

Smile: An entire language in itself, you can say everything from “You're looking great” to “I love you” with just one smile. A smile also shows how confident/ comfortable you are in your environment. So smile your way to her heart!

That tender gesture of affection is underrated and overlooked these days. There is so much that can be said by just holding hands - so much emotion that can be expressed. From care, to concern, to affection, to love, the simple act of handholding holds a special message for everyone!

The handholding technique you adopt depends very much on the emotion you want to convey. Here are a few:

The 'let me help you across the road' hold

This is that simple gesture that often happens inadvertently when you're with a girl that's a friend, but on the other hand it may be the first electrifying physical contact with the girl of your dreams - that moment you agonized about for days! What's most important to know is that this is something that just kind of happens spontaneously. It looks obvious and artificial if you make a grab for her hand every time the two of you have to get across the road.

Read the signs: If she grabs hold of your hand while crossing the road, she likes being protected and mollycoddled.

The casual hold

This is the kind of thing for those long together walks. Once you've made sure she's comfortable with you first, this is the ideal way to show her that you care and that you really like her for the person that she is. Simply put, you just slip your hand into hers and make sure it feels comfortable. It's all about physical contact.

Read the signs: If she reaches out for your hand casually, she's telling you she's ready to take your relationship to another level.

Fingers Interlaced

That firm reassuring hold, when you interlock your fingers with hers, that tells her that you love her, and that simple togetherness is what gets you high. This definitely indicates that there are romantic overtones. But then this is the real thing. Again, it's important that she approves and she's comfortable. This is ideal for new lovers or for seasoned veterans, and works almost anywhere - from local trains to movie halls to quiet walks in the rain.

Read the signs: Interlocked fingers signal commitment. If she locks fingers with you, she's telling you you're the only special guy in her life.

People who hold their index finger right up to the middle of their cheek not only appear self-opinionated, they are exactly that! This gesture also conveys strictness.

The most complex people are those who twist their hands. This can be deduced by the way they hold their palms together as if trying to hide something. It also indicates a difficult emotional life.

Have you noticed that some people wrap their legs around the legs of their chair? This suggests inflexibility or strong inner tension. People who do this feel uncomfortable in the presence of others.

Women who touch their hair a lot indicate a desire for contact and men who play with their ties are wondering if they are attractive!

Our glasses betray you

Very often we see people who play with their glasses. It’s quite amusing to find out what their gestures mean

People who take them off suddenly signal that they are under pressure.

Putting the earpiece into the mouth signals not wanting to make spontaneous remarks.

Putting the glasses on again means the wearer would like to start afresh or reconsider a point of view,

Moving the glasses to the front of the nose shows disapproval.

Those who clean their glasses are not interested at all.

Folding the glasses up indicate a desire to end the conversation

Eyes: A woman's eyes can be her most potent language of communication…or weapon! Indian women, especially, are known for their beautiful expressive eyes. So deck them up with a dash of kajal or liner and start “talking!”

Eyelashes: It is not without reason that someone invented false eyelashes and mascara. So use your eyelashes to “talk”! Bat them to beckon that cute guy, peep from under them shyly when he asks you your name, flutter them when he compliments you.

(Caution: Eyelash batting is a fine art and should be used with care, so practice in front on a mirror first if necessary.

Hair: Having longer hair of course helps – you can retreat behind it in emergencies! But playing with your hair, whatever length maybe, is a great way to flirt.

Smile: You can say everything from “Yes!” to “you are the man of my dreams”, with just one smile. So use it, it is the sweetest alphabet of body language.

Walk: Actresses spend hours perfecting their walk. That's because a walk is worth a thousand words and makes a statement about you. Sexy, confident, fun-loving, easy going - and a slouch may say that you aren't too confident about yourself. So work on your walk to help you “talk."

You like him, you trust him, and he’s your friend and confidante, the love of your life. So how long would it take you to tell him all this? And how could you tell him without feeling shy, and maybe a little bit silly? It's easy. Don't say anything - just reach out and take his hand.

You might want to try one of these handholding strategies, depending on the message you want to convey:

The 'help me across the road' hold

This simple gesture often happens when you're with a guy that's a friend. You reach out for his hand instinctively, knowing him well enough to trust him with your safety, and, in a small way, your life. However, if you do this every time you cross the road, no matter whom you're with, it probably just means that you're a scared cat.

Read the signs: If he holds your hand while crossing the road, he's telling you he's concerned about your well being. If you feel the current

The casual hold

This is the kind of thing for those long together walks. If you want to show him you're ready to take your relationship to another level, slip your hand into his. If it feels right, and he doesn't pull away, he's telling you he's ready too.

Read the signs: If he casually takes hold of your hand, he's telling you he cares about you, and feels comfortable with you.

Fingers Interlaced

When you reach for his hand, and weave your fingers through his, it tells him that you love him, and only him. You're also comfortable in the knowledge that he feels the same way about you. It is an indication that you need no words to understand each other.

Read the signs: When he interlaces his fingers with yours, he's telling you he loves you, and just being with you makes him happy.

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