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Does Size Matter?!?

If you're asking this you probably know the answer because it has already affected you. But for the hell of it, let me just answer it. YES!! Is it the only factor that determines that your relationship will work or not? NO (at least it shouldn't be), but it certainly factors in. Someone tell you otherwise? LIES! Complete bloody LIES I tell you.

The importance of penis size varies from woman to woman. In the case where she has said "I think your size is fine, besides size isn't that important." It's probably because regardless of the size she enjoys having sex with you or loves you enough to deal.

Somehow guys have super paranoia about their size that us females just don't get. The measuring your penis thing really throws us for a loop. The G-spot is about one to two inches inside the vagina. So length isn't really that big of a deal. Just find the G-spot and get to be its best friend.

But hey, we all like it differently. And even if a woman likes a relatively small to medium sized penis, every now and then she may want it deep and hard which is a little easier to accomplish with a larger penis. That isn't to say you are completely unable to satisfy her.

When women suggest that they like 10-inches they don't likely mean a 10-inch pencil. This brings us the true consensus of what is important to most women - GIRTH (and longevity). But in all cases, a woman can only take but so much. No point trying to blow up an ant with an A-bomb when a grenade would more than do the job.

If you think your size is preventing you from satisfying your partner and this is extremely important to you, you must utilize all the ways necessary to complete the task. It takes communication. You have to be willing to put in the work to compensate. If you happen to find a partner who doesn't want to have sex anyway, an orgasm probably means very little and intercourse is not likely to be enough. She may want more of the connection or intimacy than physical stimulation and you should work toward that.

Find out what your lover enjoys most about being intimate with you. Whether that be _____ (fill in the blank, e.g. kissing, cuddling, caressing, massaging, etc). Then incorporate that as much as possible into intercourse, foreplay and afterplay. Yes, even after you orgasm, do the ______ (fill in the blank...) even more. Don't just roll over and die. Your partner will really appreciate it and won't be tempted to slice your penis off. And never underestimate the power of sex toys. You may think you are king kong lover but you can't begin to compare to that many strokes or licks a minute. Just trust me on this one.

Key in mind a healthy sexual relationship takes much more than a penis and a vagina. It includes love, respect, trust, compatibility, tolerance, and a willingness to help the other partner feel good, to name a few. When these ingredients are not present a good relationship simply can not exist, regardless of size.

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