Chart of Dangerous Behaviors
Danger
Level
Physical Abuse
Emotional/ Psychological
Social/ Environmental
Sexual Abuse
Potentially Dangerous
  • Pinch-squeeze
  • Push
  • Shove
  • Restrain
  • Jerk
  • Pull
  • Shake
  • Slap
  • Bite
  • Pull hair, etc.
  • Ignores woman�s feelings
  • Withholds approval as punishment
  • Jokes about the roles of women
  • Denies victim her history, heritage
  • Looks at and makes jokes about women as sex objects
  • Jealousy may become extreme
  • Minimizes her feelings and needs regarding sex
  • Sexual criticism
Dangerous
  • Shaking, with bruises
  • Hit
  • Punch
  • Kick
  • Choking
  • Objects thrown
  • Targeted or repeated hitting as punishment
  • Threatens violence and/or retaliation
  • Puts down abilities as worker, mother,lover
  • Threatens her with abusing children or getting custody of children
  • Isolates victim by allowing no friends and/or repeated moves
  • Economic dependency (takes her money, gets her fired, etc.)
  • Threatens to hurt her family
  • Man stays isolated and demands control of environment
  • Forces victim to touch or look at genitalia
  • Withholds sex and affection
  • Forces victim to strip in front of others - maybe children
  • Forces victim to watch or have sex with others
Highly Dangerous
  • Uses household objects as weapons; restraining and hitting
  • Broken bones, internal injuries, medical treatment needed
  • Use of knives, guns, poisons for disabling or disfiguring
Provokes following reactions in victim:
  • Powerless (learned?)
  • Unpredictable consequences of actions.
  • Nervous breakdown, depression, mental illness
  • Hits, punches or kicks walls, not her
  • Deprives victim of food, sleep, medicine, medical attention, etc.
  • Destroys pets
  • Incest or child abuse
  • Man threatens suicide
  • Demands sex with threats
  • Forces uncomfortable sex
  • Forces uncomfortable sex after an emotional or physical battering
  • Sadism; sex for the purpose of hurting, uses objects and weapons
LETHAL
HOMICIDE
SUICIDE
DEATH
MURDER

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