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“A safe school is a place where students
can learn and teachers can teach
in a welcoming environment,
free
of intimidation and fear.”
-
Ronald D. Stephens -
CCONSEQUENCES
FOR UNSAFE BEHAVIOR
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All
states have provisions within their constitutions or laws that provide for the safety
of students and staff.
The
following provision is typical and is quoted from the California constitution:
Right to Safe Schools. All students and staff of public primary, elementary, junior high and senior high schools have the inalienable right to attend campuses that are safe, secure and peaceful.
It
is the responsibility of each of us to contribute to the general effort of
maintaining safe schools. The
fulfillment of this responsibility is consistent with establishing and abiding
by high personal values.
Therefore, you, as a student
and a person of good character, are responsible to control any personal actions
that might threaten school safety. It
is also important to know and understand that failure to obey safe school rules
can result in serious consequences for you and your family.
The
most common threats to the safety of students in school include:
Using hurtful words: threats, profanity,
etc., toward others.
Fighting: Even “play fighting” can cause
real fights when one person becomes angry.
Carrying of weapons: Knives, guns,
rocks, and other objects that can be used as weapons. Often just the presence of weapons is a threat to safety.
Possession, use, or distribution of illegal drugs or alcohol:
Drugs and alcohol are serious threats to the safety of all of us.
Wild behavior: Even though it may
not be your intention to cause injury, if your behavior is uncontrolled, safety
of others and yourself is certainly threatened. Think before you act!
Serious injury to yourself or to others.
Possible removal from school:
If you do cause a serious injury to another person, it is likely that
you will be removed from school through either the suspension
or expulsion process. This, of course, results in great
embarrassment to you and your family.
Financial loss: If you cause a
serious injury to another person, it could cost your parents thousands of
dollars. Most states make parents
financially liable for illegal actions of their
children.
Loss of educational opportunities:
Obviously, if you are out of school as a result of a suspension or
expulsion, you will be losing learning opportunities.
Damage to your character:
And finally,
but very important, is the fact that any action irresponsibly taken by you
which threaten the safety of others will damage the quality of your character. This, in turn, will damage your reputation
and make it more difficult to have trusting relationships with others.
Unsafe
behavior can be intentional or unintentional.
There are those people who intentionally try to injure other people.
Such
people of poor character include:
Gang members.
Drug dealers.
Other criminals who tend to be violent.
Other people, including students, who just
lose their temper, which causes a loss of self-control.
Often
such people, who have problems with their temper, are normally of good
character, but become dangerous when they become angry. Remember, angry people make bad decisions
that could result in serious injury to someone else, or themselves. Controlling “anger” is an essential part
of integrity.
Unintentional unsafe behavior is also a threat to everyone’s
safety. Often careless unsafe behavior
results in accidents. However, most of
these type of accidents can be prevented with reasonable caution.
Some unintentional acts cause injuries, but do not fall under
the definition of accidents. They
happen when a person does something dangerous, which is against the law, or
school rules, but do not intend to cause injury. If you break the law and this act hurts another person, you
are responsible! The fact that you
did not intend to hurt the other person is of little comfort to him/her.
Examples:
During the lunch period Allen
is throwing rocks at a can on the Soccer Field. Henry comes running by and gets hit in the eye by a
rock. Allen knows it is against school
rules to throw rocks, but he chose to do so anyway. Henry is injured. Allen
is sorry; he is also responsible for the injury.
Here is another example that could
involve adults, or students who drive. Joe
just graduated from high school. He
wants to celebrate and goes out “drinking” with some friends. Joe becomes “drunk” and loses control of his
automobile, striking and killing Martha, another young graduate. It is against the law to drink and
drive! Joe knows this, but he did it
anyway. Joe is guilty of a felony
called manslaughter.
We can sympathize with Allen and Joe
in the above two examples. They didn’t
mean to hurt anyone. However, they were
doing something very dangerous, and they both knew that it wasn’t permitted
because of the danger. They are
responsible!
What about Henry? Henry has to suffer the pain of an eye
injury, which could have permanent consequences. There may also be great cost to Henry’s family. They could, of course, sue Allen’s parents
for damages.
And then there’s Martha. Her hopes and dreams, her very life, have
been taken away. Undoubtedly there will
be great suffering in Martha’s family and friends. Joe and his parents are liable for damages.
Safety is everyone’s business. Your actions, intentional or not, can threaten the safety of others, as well as yourself. Be responsible!
Harassment is a continuing form of intimidation. It is wrong to harass
people. Taunting, insulting,
heckling, and making threats are common harassment tactics. Unfortunately, this happens too often in and
out of school.
Gang members and other criminals often harass people for
their own amusement and for profit.
In the real world though, harassment tactics are not limited
to criminals. Many others, using poor
judgment, participate in harassing activities.
Undoubtedly you are aware of people who are insensitive to the feelings
of others and act like bullies. Hopefully, you will think before you act in
such an irresponsible manner.
A bully is someone who enjoys harassing others who
he/she considers to be weaker. The
bully uses threats or violence to get others to respond.
Example: Barry hates to go to school because he is
repeatedly being harassed by Steve, who is about 6 inches taller and 50
pounds heavier. Steve often slaps Barry
on the back of the head, calls him “runt,” and forcibly borrows his
bicycle. Recently Steve has been
forcing Barry to give him $1 per week, or get beat up.
Steve is a bully; Barry is a victim. Steve is insensitive to Barry’s feelings and
rights. In addition to harassment,
Steve is also guilty of a felony called extortion and could be facing serious
punishment, including expulsion from school.
If Steve continues his present behavior, he will face even more serious
consequences in the future.
It is important to protect your right to be safe and free of
harassment. Your school officials will
help you, if you let them. Don’t
allow a bully to dominate your life, but be wise and use good judgment when
dealing with these situations.
Harassment on the basis of sex is against the law. Why?
Because it is offensive, insulting, and frightening to the victims,
often causing serious psychological and other health problems.
Sexual harassment can come in many forms:
boys harassing girls, men harassing women
girls harassing boys, women harassing men
boys harassing boys, men harassing men, girls harassing
girls, women harassing women
adults harassing children
Listed below are some types of behavior that could be
considered sexual harassment:
General statements related to sex that are insulting or
degrading. This would include obscene
jokes, graffiti, letters, etc.
Inappropriate sexual advances, especially when it is obvious
that the advances are unwanted.
Asking for a sexual favor in return for a promise or reward.
Demanding a sexual favor by threatening punishment.
Inappropriate touching, feeling, or grabbing.
What can you do if you are harassed? The first thing you should do is report it. The law requires school officials to
investigate your complaint, and take appropriate action. There are serious consequences for anyone
who is guilty of sexual harassment.
It is important to understand that you are not responsible
for the harassment. Let’s place
that responsibility where it belongs - on the harasser. Be firm and tell the harasser no thanks! Don’t keep it to yourself. If you do this, the harassment will
continue, and there will probably be other victims. Talk to the people who can help, your school officials.
You are not expected to act as a policeman or
policewoman. Let the real police and
school officials do this job.
Your first responsibility is to be sure that you are
not part of the problem. Concentrate
on making good decisions based on high personal values. The key is to think ahead before you
act. Every action you take in a violent
situation could have several different possible outcomes. Anticipate what might happen. Will the problem be better or worse as a
result of your action?
Example: Carlos is angry with Frank and
challenges him to meet after school for a fight. Frank says that he doesn’t want to fight. Carlos then calls Frank a coward and uses
some other bad language toward Frank.
This angers Frank, he shoves Carlos and uses very obscene language. Then, the fight begins.
Carlos is obviously way out of
line. However, let’s concentrate on how
Frank responded to Carlos.
At first Frank tried to do the right
thing. But then, he became angry. Remember, angry people make bad choices.
This is
exactly what happened. There is no easy
answer to this situation, but one thing is clear: shoving Carlos and using
profanity was the wrong thing to do. If
Frank had thought ahead, he would have realized that he was only making the
problem worse.
There is no one answer that will
work in all situations like this.
Possibly further talking to Carlos without profanity and name-calling
will work. If not, then Frank needs to
walk away, despite any name-calling or threats directed at him. He may need to seek help from a teacher,
counselor, or administrator.
Your second responsibility is to set a good example for others. This was mentioned in the chapter on building
trust, and it is just as important here.
You have greater influence on others than you might realize. Be sure that this influence is focused in
positive ways. If you truly respect
the right of everyone to be safe, then be sure that you do not encourage
others to commit acts that are dangerous.
Your third responsibility is to seek help when
it is obvious that a dangerous situation is beyond your control. Your school officials don’t expect you to
tell them about everything that happens with students. However, if you are aware of truly dangerous
activities such as drugs, violence, or harassment, then it is your duty to seek
help. In some situations this will take
courage, but it is important to the safety of people in your school. Consultation with school officials can be
done in private.
Directions: Complete the following
exercises. They are not tests, but
should be used as a learning tool to help you learn. You should think through a concept and complete the
exercise. Then you can immediately find
out if you have learned correctly by reviewing the answers at the end of the
exercise.
_____suspension |
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a. Legally bound or
responsible. |
_____expulsion |
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b. The condition of
being safe from risk or danger. |
_____anticipate |
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c. Someone who
enjoys harassing others weaker than himself/herself. |
_____liable |
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d. Removal from school
for a long period of time. |
_____safety |
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e. To repeatedly subject someone to unjustifiable
attacks. Such attacks could be
verbal, written, or physical. |
_____injury |
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f. To look ahead,
to realize in advance. |
_____bully |
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g. Removal from
school for a short time. |
_____harass |
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h. Physical impairment resulting from violence or accident. |
that is _____________.
a)
b)
c)
a)
b)
c)
a)
b)
c)
Answers: 1. g, d, f, a, b, h, c, e 2. safe 3. safety 4. Any of these: Use of hurtful words, threats, or profanity. Fighting. Carrying weapons. Possession, use, or distribution of drugs or alcohol. 5. Any of these: Cause serious injury. Be suspended or expelled. Your parents are liable for your acts. Possible loss of school time. Damage to your character. 6. Any of these: statements related to sex which are insulting or degrading; inappropriate sexual advances; asking for sexual favors in return for a promise or reward; demanding sexual favors using threats; inappropriate touching, feeling or grabbing. 7. Be sure that you are not part of the problem. 8. Set a good example for others.
To look ahead, to realize in advance.
Synonyms: forecast,
expect
Someone who enjoys
harassing others weaker than himself or herself.
Synonyms: tormentor,
oppressor
Removal from school
for long periods of time due to a serious violation
of the law or
school rules, usually for up to one year.
Synonyms: exclusion, dismissal
To repeatedly subject someone to unjustifiable
attacks. Such
attacks could be verbal, written, or physical.
Synonyms:
badger, hassle
Antonym: delight
Physical impairment resulting from violence or
accident.
Synonyms: harm,
damage
To influence someone with threats.
Synonyms:
coerce, bully
Antonym: bolster
Legally bound or responsible.
Synonyms: accountable, answerable
The condition of being safe from risk or danger.
Synonyms: security,
protection
Antonyms: hazard, peril
Removal from school for a short time due to a serious
violation of the
law or school rules, usually for one to five days.