Sexual Issues

Are you having sexual difficulties?
Worried about your sexuality?
Not sure of your orientation or gender?

Whatever issues you are dealing with I can help you (whatever your gender or orientation) to make healthy choices within your sexual realationships.

Having trained with the UKAHPP on breakdown within sexual realtionships, I am able to help and work with anyone relating to these issues very successfully.

My work and understanding within issues relating to sexual abuse and domestic violence have been ongoing for more than 10 years and includes working with drug and alcohol issues, and ongoing training within young adult organisations.

When we look at sexual issues we get all sorts of feelings, judgements, self judgments, and many little voices in our heads...

We can experince the 'fight. flight or freeze' reaction, with feelings of fear and shame - so many emotions and sensations race around the body.

We don't know what to do with the and in our society we are encouraged to control or suppress then, and certainly not to speak about them.

Where do we begin?

The basic needs of human beings are: food, water, breath, shelter and sex. So many outside influences effect us through conditioning,religious beliefs, family traditions, economic factors, state intervention, and the family area in which we grow up. All these factors contribute to your state of mind - and the list can go on and on...

We can only have peace when we accept ourselves completely, including our sexuality.

My experience within this field include:

The family is the arena in which most of us in western culture gain a sense of our individual sexual needs and identities. Along with this are economic and social organisation, social regulation and cultural influences.