Guide to What Every Submissive Should Have In His/Her Toybag

Ms Leslie

What are some of the very essentials a submissive should have in his/her toy bag? While each person varies in interests and taste, there are some areas that are mandatory for every last toy bag. This is over and beyond the pleasure toys such as dildos, butt plugs, whips, floggers, vibrators, beads, etc. Everyone will have their own unique preferences as to the pleasure end, but below you will find what are the very MUSTS of your toy bag.

First Aid Kits: This is an absolute must have. You can find the basic first aid kits at most stores - but there are things over and above the basics that I would add in. These are :

EMT Scissors - These heavy-duty scissors can be found in uniform shops and pharmacies, as well as BDSM catalogs and shops. They range in price from $9.99 to $20.00, depending on the handle color and design. They are capable of cutting thick rope, leather, canvas, and other heavy and dense materials. These scissors are a must have when playing.

Panic Snaps - They are sold primarily by BDSM retailers and distributors, but you can also find them in equestrian shops. The snaps are useful in over the head bondage, but can be used in any bondage situation where the submissive has been attached to a piece of furniture, etc. When the person's body is pulled in a downward effect, the snaps open the upper clasp and allow the person to be freed immediately from where they were bound. They are essential to have due to medical emergencies, and are trust worthy for even the unconscious person, as well as when a submissive needs to be released quickly for other reasons.

Bolt Cutters - These can be purchased at any hardware store or home improvent store such as Lowe's and Home Depot and should be kept in the toy bag for instances those scenes involving chains, pad locks and handcuffs. One will never know when they will need this tool, despite the efforts in safety.

Flashlight - You never know when that power outtage will come. Always keep a functioning flashlight as well as a fresh pack of batteries on hand for it, in the event you need to be released from bondage in the dark.

Keys - My recomendation for this would be to have at least two to three spare sets available and on hand at all times and clearly tagged for which key goes to which shackle, cuff, lock, etc. You never know when a key can break or misfire failing to trip the release mechanism.

Disposable Rubber/Latex Gloves - These can be purchased in any drug store, come in latex or vinyl and come in a variety of sizes to fit you hands. Most have powder in them for easy insertion of your fingers, however, if you are allergic to the powder, they are available without it. Rubber gloves should be worn whenever your hands and fingers will be in contact with bodily secretions. Use only professional medical quality gloves that meet ASTM standards. Store them in a cool, dark, dry place. Be Aware: Like condoms, rubber gloves that are old are prone to breaking. Replace your box of rubber gloves if they seem stiff and brittle or if they are sticking to one another.

Lubricants - Invest in some good WATER BASED lube for both condoms and rubber gloves. Some good ones on the market include ID, Astroglide, and Slippery Stuff. These can be purchased at any adult shop and through BDSM retail distributors. If you cannot find these, good old fashioned K-Y jelly does the trick. It can be found in your local drugstore. Oil based lubes (such as Vaseline) will destroy condoms, rubber and latex gloves, and dental dams and should be avoided!

Anti-bacterial Hand Wipes - In the event that you are sceneing someplace without access to soap and water; it is a good idea to carry a small container of anti-bacterial wipes. Wipes can be used in place of washing toys in soap and water before disinfecting them. Wipes are also good in event of medical emergencies if a wound needs cleaning.

Bleach Solution - This solution is excellent for cleaning toys, gags, etc. Unlike Isopropyl Alcohol, this solution kills ALL germs. It is the preferred method for cleaning toys that have been inserted within the body. Mix 1 part bleach to 9 parts water. Toys may be sprayed with the solution after cleaning with soap and water, however, if they can be inserted in the solution, it is better.

Isopropyl Alcohol (Rubbing Alcohol) - This rubbing alcohol is used for cleaning toys, gags, etc., after they have been washed with warm soap and water. It is also an effective germ killer in the event of cuts, scrapes or any small opening to the skin. Isopropyl kills many common germs.

To prevent the spread of diseases from person to person, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND having a collection of internal toys (dildos, vibrators, anal beads, etc.) and gags that are yours and yours alone. As always, these toys should be cleaned and disinfected after each use. Sharing toys that have not been properly cleaned is one of the leading ways to catch STDs and bacterial infections.

Accidents happen � everything from strained joints and pulled muscles to cuts, fainting, and hyperventilating. A basic first aid course can teach you how to manage most small emergencies as well as teach to how to keep an injured person from going into shock as you wait for an ambulance. It is my personal feeling that EVERYONE involved in the scene be certified in basic first aid! If you add leather, make sure you take the steps to find the proper leather cleaners

It is my personal belief that EVERYONE involved in the scene should be trained in CPR! CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation) is especially important if you are playing with an older partner or a partner who has heart disease (history of heart attacks, implanted pacemakers or defibrillators), epilepsy, or respiratory problems (such as asthma). Once the heart stops pumping, if CPR is not performed, there is a three minute window before brain damage occurs. If you are able to perform CPR while an ambulance is on route, you may very well save a life. Usually a standard adult CPR class will suffice for BDSM related activities, however, if you prefer to take a full course, you will learn infant, and child CPR as well as the Heimlich Maneuver for choking victims. CPR certification should be renewed every year.

-- Foot Note-- It is imperative that everyone has a list of their medical health, allergies, doctor names and phone numbers, and any health issues they may have. Posting it somewhere, where another person can get to it fast to call for help if an emergency arises

Copy the following into word and print it.

MEDICAL INFORMATION TO KNOW IN CASE OF AN EMERGENCY

NAME:

AGE:

DATE OF BIRTH:

ADDRESS:

TELEPHONE NO.:

SOCIAL SECURITY NO.:

PRIMARY CARE PHYSICIAN:

NAME:

PHONE:

OTHER PHYSICIAN:

NAME:

PHONE:

OTHER PHYSICIAN:

NAME:

PHONE:

HOSPITAL TO BE USED:

PHONE NO:

PHARMACY:

NAME:

PHONE NO:

PRIMARY MEDICAL INSURANCE:

INSURED NAME

GROUP ID NO.:

PERSON NO.:

SECONDARY MEDICAL INSURANCE:

INSURED NAME:

GROUP ID NO:

PERSON NO:

MEDICATION:

NAME:

DOSAGE:

REASON FOR USE:

NAME:

DOSAGE:

REASON FOR USE:

NAME:

DOSAGE:

REASON FOR USE:

ALLERGIES:

MEDICATION:

OTHER:

MEDICATION SENSITIVITES:

PERSONAL MEDICAL HISTORY (ILLNESSES AND CONDITIONS FOR SELF):

HOSPITALIZATIONS, SURGERIES, ETC.:

FAMILY MEDICAL HISTORY:

CONTACT PHONE NUMBERS: GIVE NAME, ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBERS

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