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drruth.com Singles Rule! George Michael sings: "Freedom! Freedom!" Aishah (not her real name) loves company. Tried to cram outings with friends, family and bf all at the same time several times. It backfired badly. Her bf was fuming becoz she always spend time with "other people" and not alone with him. Needless to say, Aishah have to sacrifice time with "other people" if she wants to be with him. Not having to answer to anyone is scary too - esp when u'd been dating since u were born and suddenly broke up or had just lost somebody special or cannot be with the person u love.. Let's face it, it's daunting on other days than Valentine's Day. It's just that it's harder on Valentine's Day coz people (well, some people, ok?) expect u to do sth with sb or u'r a ... let them spell it out: L.O.S.E.R. It could bring out the pessimistic, lonely and sadness in anyone! Suddenly u are wailing that u can't find any decent man/woman in this earth. All the good men/women are married, attached or gay/lesbian. Enough wailing! Humans like to be approved by peers. When the majority of ur gang has another person in tow, u'd wish u have 1 too when u are feeling lonely and have nothing better thing to do than to think "What if...?". The thing is, it's not only u who had thought of that. Your attached buddies are already scheming how to get u attach too. They probably mean well. They want you to be as happy as them. And as sorrowful too when they are crying their hearts out. Share, share! Some psychologists and scientists claim that women have this hard wired program to match-make. Look at the all the matchmaking services that pop up on the Net! Your soulmate is just a click away. Well, in reality, it's more like a thousand plus clicks.
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