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MY  LIFE / My Horror Story,  PART  ONE  
   MY  Wife     (from the Wife)
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I and others alike are in a different world, for lack of a better word..We are an out cast, by the world and population in general. Our Family is against us (most of the time) or at least for a while.., Most of us are loners.. or we are forced to BECOME LONERS, Depression sets in.. we then become Alcoholics, Drug Adicts, have Suicide Attempts, go through Physical Abuse, Mental Abuse, Hate, Fatigue, we tend to put our selfs and others through different forms of Sexual abuse, or even become abusive our selves. We each share our own types of Night Mares. Any of this sound familiar to you ??? It should be said; I or my Wife are not Doctors; But, I have been there!! and so has she!!
Facts About Being a CD
   AS   ROXY  SEES   IT
The Question section below, on asking yourself if your partner is a CD, came from my own LIFE experiences. Not all CDs fit  into this. For other things may or may not be going on in the persons life.. but remember that SOMETHING is STILL GOING on...However you handle it, after YOU first handle your own feelings, you must be sensitive to the CD in your LIFE..! For A CD needs prompt to talk about his / HER inside, because the HER inside is still a YOUNG  LADY !!!
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Last updated 07-26-06
This Site was developed in hopes of opening the doors of the silence, in hopes of showing that being a CD doesn't mean you can't really be happy and be in love .. That Some One is out there that will understand, be with you for who you are..You don't have to hide in the Box..And for the Family member, the Loved one, the Friend that is tring to figure things out..we hope this too will reach them.
1. When your  partner is in NORMAL DRESS, is your Partner VERY hard to get along with ?
2. When your partner is watching television;  does he / she seem very far away?
     (
Almost Like they are thinking of SOMEONE  or Something else? )
4. When you ask your Partner / Friend / Loved one what they are thinking..Do they tend to say,
    " I'm not thinking of just any one thing..", or they say, " I just have something on my mind."
5. Does your son or daughter do well in school -then all of a sudden, do VERY poorly, get into trouble, seems  very  LONELY
    or DEPRESSED; Is a loner, then just like a flipping a switch..goes back to getting good grades again... like a cycle?
   
Sometimes they just might not be on drugs !! or Running in the wrong group!!
3. Have you left your partner because of them not showing enough attention to your needs?  ONLY thinking of them selves?
  
When you say to them, " You act like you don't care about my wants and needs, like you don't love me? You don't seem to hear
    me?  Do they say,
" BUT.. Honey I do Love you , I am listening to you! , I  do hear you! " ( it's not  always domestic
    violence- or neglect- or the person having an affair on you !!!) 
Sometimes; it's because they are thinking  what the quote;
   right thing to do is! (
they are VERY Confused )
6. Does your Partner or teenage CHILD DRINK alot? , Does HE / She do drugs?,  Does he or She CRY alot? Have you found
    yourself looking  or viewing the HISTORY part of your computer? (
you have a feeling something is wrong.. You just don't
    know what  it  is?
)  DID you find Porno sites listed in that HISTORY of the computer? Did you find Clothing stores listed
    that you don't shop from?  Have you went to get clothing and find that it has been moved around? Or find a rip or a stain
    that you know you didn't do?
7. Does your Male Partner  watch Musicals? ;  Does HE watch Love stories? ; Would your male partner be more happy staying
    home and doing laundry or washing the dishes while you go out and work? ;  Does your FEMALE partner enjoy football or
    racing  more than you? ;  Does your Girl Friend like tools more than you? ;  Is she found in the Hardware department more
    than you? ;  Does  your Male partner just happen to find himself in the FEMALE part of the DEPARTMENT store often?
   
So much often that he's there  when you aren't?

8. When you happen to need your male partner to run to the store for personals for you.. Does it bother him..or  does he do it
    with a smile .OR  is he more than happy to purchase them or  pick up the tampons when he's shopping?


9.. MOMS>>> How does your son act when you ask him to go shopping for you? ..Does it seem not to bother him at ALL...?

10.
DADS>>> Who spends more time with your Son?;  Who spends more time with your daughter?;  Does the daughter seem to
      want to  get oil all over her -want to be outside doing boys things..without being asked to do so? Do you find your self telling
      your 7 year  old son, stop whinning like your sister? ;  Does your son play with dolls over trucks? ;  Does your daughter play
      with trucks over Dolls?
12. HOWS the SEX ?;  No FEELING behind it ? ; Sometimes it's great right? When it was great..did he seem  unhappy before
      hand..you  know before you left for the weekend, and left him alone at home? You returned and  it was great. !!!
    .( MAYBE he isn't having that  affair with your neighbor or his secretary like you thought) or maybe it's not prostate
      problems.!!. ) ; Does he seem to get more aroused if you wear silk or panty hose? <
YOU would really be able to tell the
     difference!!> : )
15. Does your partner take off on weekend trips..(ALONE)..but seems to be packing more, or seems to be taking more bags;
      or clothing  MORE than he should ? , EXTRA shavers, extra shampoo, lotions, nail clippers, nail files, candels, oils ?
      STAYS  CLEAN SHAVEN EXTRA CLOSE~, looks at his arm pit hairs alot?, Keeps body hair shaved because says
      it's to hot, can't stand it, gets in the way with work?  ( HE really maybe isn't having that affair that you keep thinking he's
      having..)  YES..maybe he is with another woman..but it is
HIMSELF!!!!  When he is packing does he want your help?
     * Does he wear panty hose in the winter ..says he is really cold..?
14. When you first got together and started visiting his place..How was the decor ? Was his bed always made ?; Was that bed
       spread Flowers? Was the shower curtain flowers or ruffled?  Does or did he do his own cooking..?  Does he seem to enjoy
       cooking,  cleaning, doing the laundry , even now that you are married? Who is willing to do the dishes first you or him?
      Who enjoys the garden MORE ? Who plans the romanic evenings more?
11. Is your Partner having alot of MOOD CHANGES..that last for weeks, months or YEARS at a time? then..VERY HAPPY
      again..Sorta like the Flipping of the Lite Switch again..Is your partner, VERY SAD, or seem to have a BLACK SHADOW ?
13. When you want to go visit your Mom and Dad, or some friends, (Has he been his normal CRANKY Self before you LEFT);
       - You asked him to go but he said , " I don't feel like going, you go on and go..I'd rather stay home.. Don't worry about me; 
      stay   as long as you like..Call me on your way home if you can..
    
WHEN you RETURNED > >Was he in the shower when you came in, Was he smiling again watching TV, was he " VERY
     happy to see you..
you know what I mean",  Was he in a very Good mood...?
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