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The
importance of the human bear is that it is not an exclusion
based section of the community, but one that is willing to embrace
the whole human spirit into a community that will be diverse
and integrated.
There
are many descriptions for a bear, but the majority of the community
seem to be bearded, and or hirsuite. Many are "bigger"
men, and some are slim (sometimes called otters).
The
concept of "elder" to "youngster" relationships
are embodied in the daddy-bear to cub. These may be
relationships that are between an older (daddy) man and a younger
(cub) man, but the roles may be reversed, with a young daddy.
This aspect is based on attitudes to life, and sometimes the
strength of personality.
For
some the bear is a deeply spiritual person who rests, thinks
and acts upon what he feels is right. Other bears are driven
by urgency and the desire to be with others.
There
is a sense of companionship within the bear commnity that will
help each other when they are down, and take joy in making fun
of each other when in need of a laugh.
Bears
can be serious people, who desire correctness, but often these
people are the ones who have crazy senses of humour, and are
prone to joke at the most strange of times.
The
bear is a strong personality that is willing to support others,
be there for other bears, and for the community. They have strong
senses of what is right and wrong, and they feel strongly about
their community.
Bears
are loving and passionate. They desire companionship, some with
a single partner, others with a diverse group who each satisfy
different aspects of themselves.
The
bear is a state of mind, body and spirit, that can only be seen
if you look closely at its social interactions, its loves, its
desires, and its naturalness.
To use
a phrase from a famous show, modified to suit the place:
"Send
in the bears."
Written
by Adrian Gould in 1997
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