Henry Sisley BIRCH married Elizabeth HODGES

Henry Sisley BIRCH (Born 29th April 1897 the Forge, Aldington, died 4th January 1967 at Eastchurch, Isle of Sheppey,) Married 5th April 1926, at the Wesleyan Methodist Church, Ashford Road, Sellindge, Elizabeth HODGES (Born 9th March 1894 at Rose Cottages ?, Sellindge, Died 30th October 1989 at Minster General Hospital, Isle of Sheppey) Witnesses at the marriage were Albert James HODGES and Richard John BIRCH

Elizabeth HODGES (born 9th March 1894 Sellindge, Hythe, Kent, died 30th October1989) married (i) Edward James PUNCHARD on 13th January 1920 at Elham Registry Office, then married 5th April 1926, at the Wesleyan Methodist Church, Ashford Road, Sellindge, (ii) Henry Sisley BIRCH (born 29th April 1897 died 4th January 1967).

(i) children

Albert James PUNCHARD

(ii) children

Kathleen Ruth BIRCH (b. 12 January 1927 at Grange Cottage, Sellinge, Kent)

Freda Rachel BIRCH (b. 29 Sept 1929)

Lorna Mavis BIRCH (b. 17 August 1944) (adopted)

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Henry Sisley Birch's Medals for being a Special Constable and Defending as part of the Home Guard.

 
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Marriage of Henry Sisley BIRCH and Elizabeth HODGES Group photograph, Married 5th April 1926, at the Wesleyan Methodist Church, Ashford Road, Sellindge,

Marriage Henry S. Birch and Elizabeth HodgesThose standing from left to right : unknown man with cap, unknown woman in flowerpot hat, Robert Edward BIRCH, unknown, Nance BIRCH, unknown woman, Richard Verrier BIRCH, unknown woman, Cecily HENNEKER ( who was bridesmaid) unknown woman with visible hatpin, Richard Henry BIRCH, Robert COCHRANE, unknown woman, Eliza HENNEKER, Alice HODGES (nee AMOS), James HODGES.

Those seated from left to right : Kate WATSON (nee HODGES), Mavis WATSON flower girl, Ruth HODGES (nee MERCER), Henry Sisley BIRCH, Elizabeth BIRCH (nee HODGES), Albert James HODGES, Alice HODGES (nee BIRCH), Audrey WATSON flower girl, Rachel COCHRANE (nee HODGES).

seated crossed legged on the ground : left Arthur Edward COCHRANE & right Albert James (Jim) PUNCHARD

Birch is a location surname meaning 'dweller by the birch tree or trees'

My mother told me that my grandfather Henry Sisley BIRCH inherrited a family bible, with genealogy details, in the front of it. My grandmother Elizabeth BIRCH (nee HODGES) was so horrified, by what she discovered, they resolved to destroy it. Knowing how religious (Methodist) my gran was, the disposing of the bible must have seemed a sacriligous act to them.

My Aunt Freda JORDAN (nee BIRCH) has recently suggested, that the destroyed Bible was a MERCER heirloom, which both my grandmother and her sister destroyed.

Apparently my grandmother, a rather pragmatic individual, who believed in her Methodist teachings absolutely, was almost inconsolable, when the first cosmonaut, reached space and failed to discover Heaven. She confided her doubts to my mother, who just laughed. But it's funny how from her perspective, it was almost a reason to lose her faith.

Taken about 1908 I guess.

From left to right : Elizabeth HODGES (born 9th March 1894 Sellindge, Hythe, Kent, died 30th Oct 1989(aged 95)), Ruth HODGES (Born Jan/Mar 1883. Died aged 34 in 1917 lived Sittingbourne), Rachel HODGES, (Born 8th February 1890. Died aged 86 in 1976.), Kate HODGES (Born 11th March 1892. Died 17th August 1989 (aged 97), sitting down Marion HODGES (Born Apr/June 1887.died 3rd October 1906, aged 19) and James HODGES(Born June 1899. Died aged 80 1979). Marion HODGES had a damaged leg, which is why she is sitting, she later died of tuberclerosis.

A FEW THINGS I REMEMBER OF MY TIME IN INDIA

ELIZABETH BIRCH (FORMERLY HODGES, LATE PUNCHARD)

In 1922 India was under British Rule when I travelled there from England with my baby son Albert James PUNCHARD to join my husband Edward James PUNCHARD who was a Farrier Sergeant in the Brtitish army. I left Southampton during the latter part of a really very, very hot summer in England with a water shortage and I thought it could not be much hotter anywhere else. However I soon found out my mistake after being in India a short time.

We had a very interesting voyage out just stopping at two ports, Malta and Aden where the boat was almost overrun by Arabs selling beads, trinkets and fruit. Then we travelled on through the Arabian Sea until we reached Bombay - India at last. We disembarked the next morning and I have often asked myself what I expected India to be like? Certainly not what I saw. Bombay seemed quite a fine city. The main streets were very wide with trees growing each side like our own avenues, and there were large hotels, houses and shops. I saw native women walking along with large baskets of fruit on their heads and one especially caught my eye for she saw an object on the ground, what it was I could not see, but without bending her back a little bit she reached out her foot and picked the object up with her toes and then raised it and took with her hand what she had picked up. I was to see many women do the same thing whilst I was out there.

I noticed the only transport there was a sort of carriage called a Garry. It held two people at the back and just the driver in front. There was also a hood to put up over the passengers when it rained. These garries were very comfortable to ride in and we did all our sight seeing in Bombay in one of these.

The next day we started on our journey from Victoria Station in Bombay to Meerut staying a short while at Agra and Delhi but as it was quite dark by the time we reached Delhi we saw nothing of the place only the natives running to each carriage trying to sell their sweets which were be made in the shape of animals and houses and all sorts of things. Two Sikhs came into our carriage at Delhi (as our stop came almost the next station we were no longer in a reserved carriage) and took the top berths where they got themselves ready for bed by taking off their turbans, combing out their long hair and then began to say their prayers which they were still doing when we left the train at Meerut. I could not help thinking that if we said more prayers and were as devoted as they were we should be better Christians and not so often in doubt.

We stepped out into a very bright moonlit night, so bright one could have read a book. We hired a tonga, which is a sort cart in which two sit at the front and two at the back with only a piece of wood to keep the back passengers from falling out.

Our quarters were large with high pitched rooms lit by electric light. Fans kept the rooms cool and we had a lovely garden of flowers - I never saw such vivid colours and the man who attended to them brought me a lovely bunch of them and I bought them for 3 Annas not knowing they came from my own garden. One grew to be very careful of the wiles of some of the natives.

Meerut is a lovely little place with beautiful wide avenues, nice shops and the one place of most interest was the Church. It was a grand building and the Rector was a fine man. We used to attend services there for I never found a Wesleyan Chapel as they were called then. The Church still showed signs of the Indian Mutiny. The outside was pock-marked with bullet holes which the Rector was very proud to show us.

It was rather hot during the day but very cold during the night and we were glad to have a big fire in the evening. All the cooking was done on charcoal fires by an Indian cook and it was really wonderful how very good it all was. The man was a high caste Hindu which was a good thing really as, because there were so many things he was not supposed to touch with his hands he kept a bowl of water and a cloth near him and was continually washing his hands.

One evening we saw some women coming along chanting some tune and carrying little chatties. They went up to a tomb which lay not many yards from our quarters where they each put something into a bigger chattie on the tomb. When we asked the bearer what it was all about he said it was food for the soul of the dead man for he was a great man. But we said it was not true the birds ate the grain but he said , "But Mem Sahib, his soul is a bird," and no amount of talking would make him change his mind. The natives are very strong in their beliefs. One sees what a hard task a missionary has to try to make them see differently.

We would have liked to stay longer in Meerut - it was such a lovely place, but one day we were sent for and told we must get ready straight away to go up to a place called Dera Ismail Khan where a farrier sergeant had died suddenly and my husband was to take his place. We were only to be there a few weeks and then we were all to go to Jubbulpore. There was very little to notice on that 3 day journey. We reached Dera Khan station at 1 o'clock in the morning and spent the rest of the night in large armchairs. We woke in the morning to a terrible noise and smell and when we looked out saw quite a herd of camels being loaded with supplies to be taken 15 miles across the desert to the place we were going to, Dera Ismail Khan. It was very interesting watching the camels as they lowered themselves by bending their front knees and waiting patiently until they were loaded and then in such a slow majestic style they each rose up ready to start their journey across the desert. I don't know how long they took, we left at 11 o'clock and we never passed them on our way.

The road we travelled on was made with sticks and branches laid on sand and it was certainly an experience I am not eager to ever try again. There seemed miles of it and such bumps as one never thought possible. I held my little son who was a year old as tight as possible to save him being shaken too much. We passed herds of camels, large and small being driven along as you would sheep. We also saw some lovely large cactus - it made me think of the desert blossoming like a rose - they looked so green it seemed impossible that they could live and grow so big with almost no water. We also went over bridges made from boats which was not very comfortable either. What they were for I didn't know - there was no water in the dykes, but of course there is a reason for everything.

India carriage

We spent five weeks at Dera Ismail Khan living in a Fort which was like a little village inside and except for anything very big there was no reason to go outside. The kitchens were made of mud with a mud stove on which our native cook always managed to cook some good meals. The natives there were Pathans and seemed very tall compared with the Hindus. We spent Christmas there and we had a little carol service and at the close the Natives brought flower garlands for us to wear. After lunch we went for a litle walk but the sand got into our shoes so that we were glad to get home again. The evening we spent around the fire eating nuts and oranges etc sent from the canteen to every family.

Then the day came for us all to leave our sandy village and prepare for our journey to Jubbulpore crossing the desert once again to Dera Khan station where a special carriage was waiting for us. It took four days to get there and as we travelled along we stopped at quite a number of small stations and in the evening watched the people get out of their carriages which at that time were not much more than trucks and were as crowded as they could possibly be. One wonders they did not all fall out when the train stopped. I saw women with huge bundles on their heads and most of them with a small baby tied on their backs and often a child hanging on to their Saris whilst the men walked along carrying nothing. I hope and pray that the women's lot may be easier now, it was heart breaking to see them working in the fields with their babies strapped to their backs.

I saw more at Jubbulpore than anywhere else. We used to go to the market early in the morning before the sun got too hot and buy all we needed there. The shopkeeper would be sitting on the ground with all his goods around him - fruits, vegetables, meat (such as it was) and lovely materials, silks, muslin and voile and beautiful lace. The vendor would ask "What Mem Sahib want?" then the bargaining would begin. It is often difficult for newcomers to the country to enter into the spirit of bargaining.

It became very hot and we were beginning to feel it very much also the creeping things began to show themselves - the tarantula spider, the scorpion, chameleons, twig insects and tree rats who would nip in the house and eat cakes or anything they could see. But there was one great joy, we discovered the little Methodist, or rather, Wesleyan Church. The minister was the Rev. Tom Sheriff and we used to attend evening service there as much as possible. The one thing I remember most was the Sunday School Anniversary when the children sang their special hymns and said their recitations. It took my thoughts back to home and childhood days and I little thought I should be going home so soon.

There was so much to see - the grand processions when we saw the Rajah on his elephant all dressed up in gay coloured robes sparkling with shining jewels sitting on a purple rug with all his retinue coming along behind him. It was a wonderful sight, what money must have been spent on it all. Then we saw the poorer people having their dances and, it seemed, nearly going mad, shouting themselves hoarse so that the Ayahs could hardly speak next day and all were much too tired to work.

I could write so many things but time has dimmed my memory a great deal. Our Bearer was a wonderful man who could speak English very well and I remember once talking to him about our God and he said, "Mem-Sahib, my God says I must not steal, I must not lie or kill and I must always help everyone I can and yours does the same - so what is the difference, Mem-Sahib?" and I could not find anything more to argue about.

My husband's death brought my stay in India to an end except for a further five weeks when I had a room at the home of the Major and his wife where the monkeys came to visit us and stole all the mangoes.

During my last few weeks in India the Rev. Sheriff was a great help to me and through him I saw God's hand in everything and realised that God was just as close to me in India as he was at home in England. God never leaves you alone and He brought me home Safely to England and happiness once more.

P.S. I wish I had thought to ask my Mother in what vehicle they crossed the desert. KRH.

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