I haven't been as forthright as I coulda been on this site, and I've probably cheapened my sordid confessions by making them a journal entry instead of listing this information on the "About Me" page. Well, at least I'm spilling it, eh? Cope. :)
1. I am actively polyamorous. My relationship with my partner, Erin, is based on honesty, particularly since we are both actively polyamorous. I've played around with boys, but have really only dated girls in the time I've been involved with Erin. I've been seeing this great chick named Kathy since May(ish). She lives in NYC, and being with her in NY allows me to enjoy the raver-club-kid-femme sex-positive part of my personality in a way that's totally relaxing and fun.
2. I'm a large person. I don't like the word "fat" because of the implication "...and lazy" that comes with it. I'm far from lazy. I'm strong, and I kick butt.
3. I am shrinking. See Resolution for a little more info on this. This is almost as hard for me to talk about as my size is, because I don't like the implication that I am losing size due to some deep-seated self hatred and I should learn to love myself as I am. I do love myself, and that's partly why I am shrinking.
4. I have battled depression, and I used SSRI drugs (specifically Paxil...this is the same drug category as Prozac) to help me through it. I'm in control of my life now, but that wasn't always true, and I know that it will take hard work to stay as healthy as I feel right now.
So there it is. Probably not as sordid as I made it sound. Phew.