One of the more
troubling statistics in the world is the rise in teenage pregnancy. More
and more girls are becoming pregnant in their high school years, as well
as younger. Moral positions aside, this is a trend that suffers from a
multitude of causes, so it’s in everyone’s best interest to examine
teenage pregnancy more closely to find answers.
What is causing this influx of
teenage pregnancy? Some
believe that it’s a matter of a lack of sexual education. Perhaps it’s
just that the girls aren’t sure about how to protect themselves from
pregnancy. Many women today still think that they can protect themselves
from pregnancy by doing certain things (douching after sex, the pull out
method), but these thoughts are inaccurate. With proper instruction as to
how to prevent pregnancy, it may be possible to start reducing the rate of
pregnancy.
But there is also concern that these teenage girls are
placing themselves into situations that they are not emotionally ready
for. Perhaps they are heading into relationships thinking that they have
to have sex in order to please their partner and feel loved. Maybe they’re
not getting enough attention at home and they find that being in a
sexual
relationship can provide that attention that they need and crave.
In any case, teenage pregnancy is something that
affects everyone. Many of these new moms are unable to hold down jobs and
may require social assistance to help with their medical bills – instead
of being in a position where they can support themselves as well as their
new child. Likewise, many of these girls are unable to return to school,
leaving them without the education that could afford them a better paying
job in the future. And that affects us all.
Preventing teenage pregnancy isn’t as simple as giving
out condoms or talking about the birth control pill. In the interest of
reducing the rates of teenage pregnancy, a multi-faceted approach seems to
be the best solution. By combining education with an available supply of
birth control, teenage girls can empower themselves to make decisions that
will keep them from a pregnancy that they can not physically and
emotionally support at their age.
This is not to say that all
teenaged mothers are unfit
or unable to become a parent. And this is also not an invitation for these
girls to continue to have sex at such a young age. However, by equipping
girls to make the right decision for their health as well as their life,
as a society we can show that we are supporting the choices that they do
make. Because, in the end, these women have to live with whatever outcome
occurs.
These girls do have choices in their pregnancy. Many
will choose to hide the pregnancy, giving birth to a child that hasn’t had
the proper prenatal care or attention. Others will choose to have the
child in hopes that the father will support the new family and care for
her – but in many cases, the father is not ready for the responsibility as
well.
Teenage mothers can opt to carry their children to term
in order to offer the new baby up for adoption. This is a very complicated
process, but one that can give her child a new life that might be better
supported because of the financial abilities of the new family or the
older age.
Still other pregnant teens opt for spontaneous
miscarriage, or abortion of their child. This is a difficult decision that
can not be taken lightly by the mother. There is a limited time in which
the procedure can be performed, as well as the need for parental consent
at certain ages. The emotional ramifications can be just as difficult for
the girl as having the baby.
What a teenage mom needs to know is that she does have
choices, but in the end, it’s what will work best for her that matters. It
is a good idea to consider the work that it will take to raise the child
that they give birth to as well as the financial responsibility of taking
care of a family. She will also want to consider the fact that her life
will change for the next eighteen years. If these aren’t things that she
feels she can handle, she may want to consider her alternative options.
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