Specific tips on how to give a romantic compliment,
and keep the romance alive in your relationship with
your wife, girlfriend or partner.
in many ways (beyond the obvious physical differences!). Emotionally,
men and women often have different needs. Our challenges in
understanding the needs of the opposite sex have made books like
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus bestsellers. Lets take a
look, then, at a few things tips on how to successfully romance a
woman --- from a womans perspective.
*Compliments*
Compliments are a little like frosting too slick, and they slide right
off. Too thick, and They sickening. But a cake without frosting is a
little sad; and a woman without compliments may feel the same way. A
good compliment can make a woman feel truly appreciated and loved.
What then differentiates a good compliment from a bad one? Here are
a few factors.
Sincerity women like to know that they can trust a man. We like to
hear compliments that are clear and specific, that come from the
heart. Most women would rather receive one sincere compliment
rather than ten insincere ones. A single insincere compliment can
also serve to discredit you, and devalue your future compliments.
Specificity A vague compliment is like that frosting above, but you
forgot to add enough sugar. Its okay, but it is just kind of neutral.
Add a specific detail or two, though, and the compliment takes on new
value. Compare the impact of Thats a pretty dress with the more
specific I love your dress. It really brings out the blue in your eyes,
and really shows off your sexy body. Which one do you think is apt to
make your partner feel more appreciated?