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Q. I heard about your site and when I knew a couple of students were running it, I thought that I should take a suggestion from you people, my problem is a bit complex well I have been studying with this girl for 4 years now ... I like her I proposed her two years back and she refused, but our friendship remained but we call each other brother and sister, I still like her but you know I am scared to tell her that ... what should I do?

Kashif - Karachi

Ans. Nice to hear from you Kashif, well if the girl still talks to you after the proposal may be she's having a soft corner for you in her heart, so go directly and tell her or ask your friend to do it for you, I mean its better to die in a day then to long for something forever, right ... If she refuses then its fine, since according to Islam these sort of relationships are not allowed so be matured and concentrate on your studies.
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Q. Well this is a problem with my brother, he was in this affair with a girl at the age of 14, well he didn't exactly like her but you know that girl was a very good friend of his, now he is 19 but the still lives with her memory and he proposes every other girl he meets what should I do?

Saima - Lahore

Ans. Frankly speaking your brother's problem is quite strange, but I will say that he should try to follow our religion and should go to a psychiatrist, he should also try to talk with you or your mom, actually as far as I understand he still has the memory of hers and whenever somebody with similar features to her comes in his front he proposes her.

Q. Hi !! well its quite strange but I would like to share this porblem with you I have a girlfriend ok, she is a divorcee, you know but I still like her, but there's one problem somebody told me ke there was a boyfriend of hers when she was married because her husband used to beat her but she replied in negative ... I have this doubt why isn't she telling me the truth and will I be the third one she'll leave ?

Asif - Canada

Ans. Well, Asif your problem is a bit new for us, we can't give any suggestions but we can advice you something first of all I believe that she likes you and moreover she isn't telling the truth because she's afraid that you relationship might end, secondly as far as the second boyfriend is concerned may be he tried to give her sympathy and she took it in the wrong way so try to take a positive view, on the other hand we also thin g that the girl should tell you each and everything so that such matters are clarified earlier.



Q. I am telling you this because you are like my brothers and sisters, I am suffering from brain tumor, I am an only child my parents don't know this I won't to support them the doctors have told me that if they do an operation then it'll be risky .... should I take any dangerous step tp support the family ?

Anonymous

Ans. Not at all !!!! you know when God provides food to an ant how did you suppose that your parents will remain hungry ? Its just a matter of believe just be sensible talk to your parents and find a way out ... so that you won't regret after wards.

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