Intimacies - Tips and Advice for Couples

Glossary of Intimate Positions

Preference
Different couples have different things they like to do. Some have a standard way of intimacy. Some experiment every way they can. Here are some ideas you may consider. In the position diagrams below the blue figure is the man and the purple is the woman.

Position	Example	Description
Missionary		Man lays on woman or woman lays on man with woman's legs spread and man inserted in her vagina. If man is on top he thrusts. If woman is on top she will stroke him up and down. The couple can kiss and touch.
Modified Missionary		Woman lays on man with her back to him. Woman spreads her legs and man is inserted in her vagina. The mans hands can roam all over her torso while both partners participate in the thrust.
Reverse Modified Missionary		Woman lays on tummy and man on top of her. He inserts into her vagina from the rear and thrusts.
Bed Side		Woman lays on bed with her bottom on the edge of the bed and her legs spread. Man enters her vaginally and helps hold her legs.
Lady on Top		The man lays on his back. The woman perches herself over him, legs spread and at a 90 degree angle. The man massages the breasts while she moves up and down on him.
Doggy Style		The woman is on hands and knees and the man inserts vaginally from the rear. Both may take part in the thrust.
Oral (man)		Man sits, lays, kneels, stands in any position while woman massages his manhood with her hand and mouth. Be careful not to suck too hard or rub him with the teeth.
Oral (woman)		Woman sits, lays, kneels, stands in any position that makes her vagina accessible. Man uses lips and tongue to massage her vagina. Usually done best just after a shower or bath.
69		Man and woman lay on each other with their face over the other's genitalia and perform oral sex (see the two oral categories above).
Breasts		A woman's breasts (a man's also) are very sensitive. They can be massaged, gently sucked, or nibbled.
Sitting		Man sits on bed with woman facing him strattling him with his penis inserted in her vagina.
Side		The man and woman spoon. The man inserts vaginally from the rear. Great for a tired couple.
Modified Side		The man and woman spoon. The man inserts vaginally from the rear. The man lifts the woman's upper leg in the air.
Twisted		Man lays on his side while woman lays on her back next to him. The woman puts the leg close to the man over his hip while the man places his upper leg over the leg farthest from him. The man inserts vaginally and massages breast and kisses her..
Bang		Woman lays or sits or kneels in any position and the man fingers her. Make sure to make proper use of the clitoris, the landing, and the opening. One of the best ways to help a woman reach her climax.
Chair Sex		The man sits on the chair (it needs to be a soft chair or couch preferably with arms). The woman strattles him.
Modified Chair Sex		The man sits on the chair (it needs to be a soft chair or couch preferably with arms). The woman lays on him with her back facing him. She props up the legs by putting feet on a table or desk and he inserts vaginally.
Anal		The woman is on hands and knees and the man inserts vaginally from the rear. Both may take part in the thrust. Make sure the man is very lubed and the woman has been loosened up.