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When you first bring your joey home they will be scared. They will probably crab at you and may even lunge. Let them get used to their new enviroment for three days. During those three days you can sit by their cage and talk softly to them so they will get used to you and your voice. Offer them treats. They may be too afraid to take the treat from you. That's ok. Let them go at their own pace. Wear pieces of fleece on you for 24hr. and place them in their pouch. That way everything that makes them feel safe smells like you.  You can also sleep in a t-shirt and hang it on their cage. After the three days you can start carrying them around in a bonding pouch. Make sure that your pouch is closed. You don't want anything to scare them and make them run away. Chasing them around will set you back. Gently rub the outside of their pouch.  They will probably crab the first couple times.  Just keep petting them from the outside.  If they ever stand up while crabing and put their hand up as if to say, "Stop" you need to take things slower. 
Now is a good time to start "licky treats".  This will help them to trust your hands by associating them with good things.  Yogurt works the best but, you can also use honey.  Just put a spoonful in a bowl and dip your finger in it.  Offer it to them. If they don't start licking right away put a little on their mouth. They usually start licking right away.  Only allow a few licks at a time.  Gliders will naturally pierce your finger to try to get more stuff to come out. Much like they do in the wild.  Redipping your finger often will teach them that licking gets them more.
You know that you are making good progress when you can put you hand inside their pouch and pet them while they sleep. I like to keep my hand in their pouch during bonding time.  Bonding can be a long process.  Some bond right away and others can take weeks, months, or even years in some cases.   Just remember that they have very tender hearts and don't like to be yelled at or punished.  They do not understand these methods.  This will make them lose their trust in you and set you back in the bonding process.
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I recommend at least 2 hrs. of bonding time and 1 hr. of play time.
The best thing to use for play time is a tent.  Yes, that's right a tent.  Go to your local Wal-Mart and buy a small junior pop-up tent for under $20.  You can put it up right in your living room.  Zip yourself and your gliders inside.  Bring a book with you or watch tv.  Coax them out of the pouch with some treats and then hide their pouch under you.  Just act like you are ignoring them and they will come over to you and check you out.  They'll have a blast climbing all over you.  If you're lucky you may even get a face hug!

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