| Why does the female species do this? This is a question many men have asked over the years. Why don�t they just give us a straight answer or walk up and say, �Hey I really like you, do you want to go out sometime?� I am here to give the answer to this puzzling question. Having personal experience with the question I pose, I will give you what I think to be right. Women think men will get their very subtle hints they give to us. When a woman is saying something to you, from my experience, it usually has a double meaning to it. When a girl who likes you says, �Hey you look nice today.� they usually have an underlying meaning to it. She might actually be saying, �Hey I really like you.� Us as men though do not get these small clues they give us. However, because women usually do this they also think men do this to them. I am here to tell you that men do not care enough to do this.
When we say hello to you we usually mean it as just that. Hello. Women apparently have a misinterpretation that men are as tricky and subtle in showing they like someone as women are. However, if a man likes a woman, the women will know it. Then when the men figure out that the women likes him (usually figured out by one of her close friends telling the man this information,) the man is then stupid enough to tell the women that her friend had to help him figure out she liked him. The woman then goes on a rampage saying that she gave many hints hints. The man then gets confused and tells the woman she did not give any hints that he saw. This makes the woman even madder so that she might not even date the man she was giving subtle hints to because he did not see the hints. For the record, subtle, strong, and obvious hints do not work with men. Women should know it is not our fault. It is in fact yours. Since you did not give the man, more obvious hints he did not realize it and thought you were just being friendly. We men were not born with the ability to sense subtle hints that women may like us. Some men may get the ability by lots and lots of practice, but there are very few men who have the mastery of subtle hinting. Women however were born with the ability to not only detect subtle hints but to create them as well. So men are always wondering, �Does that girl like me, I don�t know I can�t really tell,� Only to find out later that she really did like him and he was right with his gut feeling. Therefore, women, do not put out too subtle of hints or else we men may never be able to find out the truth. Therefore, men, never underestimate their gestures. They might be trying to say something other then �Hi, How are you today?� |
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| Here are some communication secrets: What a man means when he says... I'm hungry=I'm hungry I'm sleepy=I'm sleepy I'm tired=I'm tired Nice dress!!!! =Nice cleavage! You look tense, let me give you a massage=I want to fondle you what is wrong=what stupid, self inflicted, psychological trauma is it now? Yes I like the way you cut your hair=I liked it better before l don't think that blouse and skirt go well together=I'm gay What a woman means when she says.... Yes=No No=Yes Maybe=No I'm sorry=You'll be sorry We need=I want It's your decision=Agree with me, or else Do what ever you want=You'll pay for this later We need to talk=I need to complain Sure go ahead=I don�t want you to I'm not upset=Of course I'm upset, you moron You're so manly=you need a shave and you sweat a lot Be romantic, turn off the lights=I have flabby thighs The kitchen is so inconvenient=I want a new house I want new curtains=and carpeting, and furniture and wallpaper I heard a noise=I noticed you were almost asleep Do you love me?=I'm going to ask for something expensive How much do you love me?=I did something you are going to hate I'll be ready a minute=Kick off your shoes and find a good game on TV You have to learn to communicate=just agree with me Are you listening to me?!?= [Too late you are dead] |
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