This is an education web site designed for young teenagers as a source of sex education. I will address different topics here regarding sex education, your sex organs, premature ejaculation and how to deal with it

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If you are a parent and reading this page, you must bear in mind that it is your reponsibility to educate your child. I have mentioned in my website how i got into t he problem of premature ejaulation. I never got educated by any one. When i attained puberty, i expected my father to guide me if there were something wrong ( like i already started masturbation) Since they didn't say anything and i really liked it , so i continued with it and eventually i was in this problem of premature ejaculation. In my case it was probably because of one of the reason that i was a little bit kept isolated and i never got chance to talk to my parents on this subject myself. But eventually i did and by that time the water was already above my head. It did help me relieve much of the pressure on my mind but the problem can never get solved.

Please remember do not take premature ejaculation (or masturbation) as a general act and do not just believe that your child will do it and quit it himself. The case can be severe like me. I spend my adulthood from age 16 to 30 in this problem. I know the pain of this problem. The moments of joy are just shut down on you. You cannot talk to a girl whome you like. You alway think you are not enough for a girl and will never be able to marry. You loose those mainly habits like being agressive. You are ashamed in your friends cirlce when it comes to talking to girls. You are just living an ortificial life and worst of it, no one knows about you. You are the only one fighting with it. These leas to shear furstration which can be reason that you child have become homosexual or have unappriate company.

Please keep notice of that

• If your son is never agressive [he might be coping with his frustration by masturbation very often], you are supposed to talk to him abou it.
• Keep a check on your son especially at home. Talk to him about people and general so that he is able to say his problems to you.
• Do not discrimate among childern. All of them are same for you.
• Do not put that much retrictions for a long period of time on your adult child that he is not able to sustain.
• Talk to him about girls to make him happy.
• Always develop a friendly relationship with your child within the limits.
• Talk to him about marriages and remind him that he has to marry at say 22 so that he becomes reponsible.
• Do not just ignore the adolescence of your youg boy.
• While most girls get educated from their moms when they reach menstruation, most boys do not get any education at all.
• If you are reluctant to talk to him about these issue, talk to his teacher and device some way to educate them. That can be even better way to educate them.
• Keep any eye of your sons friends. Do not make restriction on him but do tell him about a person which you thihk is not good.
• Education is the best way not restriction. Every one has common sense. Sompe boys may act offensive but you have to deal with it.
• By dong so your son will have better sex life and a better life in general. He can talk to girls in confidence. He does not have any worry about how he will perform in bed with a girl. He would be someone whome people will enjoy in company. He will be loved by peaple and he will give love to others. He will be your proud son.

What is the best age to talk to your child about sex?

I believe you can talk to your son about sex education at an early age as 12. He does not know anything (or very little about sexuallity in that age). It is better to educate an uneducated person rather than a half educated one. Once he gets wrong ideas from his friends, it will be difficult from him to change it. I believe is is more confortalbe for 12 year old boy to talk to rather than a 15 year old who has already been going though it and a certain amount of hesitancy already exists.

What can you talk about to him in the first place ?

There are many things you can talk to him about. The most important that i want you to talk to him is that

• He will experience some changes in his body because he is becomming an adult. Now for the first time only this sentence is enough and you dont' even need to talk anything else for weaks or even months. You have just broke the silence.
• Talk to him about night discharge and tell him that it is the sign of adulthood. Tell him it is normal to have it.
• Next you can talk to him that he will develope pubic hairs and he is supposed to cut it to make yourself clean.
• Next you can tell him that he will develop hairs in the armbits. He has to clearn it with razor.
• What about masturbation? Yes you can talk to him about masturbation and tell him that although it is good once in a while but he should not do it often. You do not need to go in great depth at this stage. If he has queries you can answer them in a polite and friendly manner. Alway keep respect of the relationship that you are having with him. So do not make such conversaion long unnecessarily. If he is asking too much quesion, cut him down.
• Also talk to you child about the way he takes bath. Tell him how to clean himself in a good manner while in toilet or bath. He might not know the correct way to clean himself.
• Once you have talked to him about all that, avoid repeating it without any pupose. You can remind it after an year or two but do not repeat it often.
• make him behave like an adult person who is taking responsibility.
• I have not talked about all issues here, like your son might be having some kind of sexual problem. You have to talk to him about that and you can advise him to go to doctor for help.
• Please do not hesitate to get our son naked, if you want to do it. He is not supposed to complain. He he does just do not force him to do that.

• Molestation. What is molestain. If someone puts his hand around him, it could be molestaion.
• Talking dirty lanquage can be molestation.
• Showing someone his genital is molestaion.
• Talking about sex with elders can be aproblem.
• If an elder give you something free for nothing, he might have soem intentions of developing friendship with you. So do not accept it.