Does masturbation affects the mental health in anyway? Is is harmful?
Masturbation does affect mental health of a person in an adverse way. Although most doctors believe it does not but I myself being affected with premature ejaculation problem (because of masturbation) and because of knowledge from my friends I do believe that it does affect mental health in in way or another. The affect is not a direct consequence of masturbation. It is important to know that masturbation alone does not harm anything. But the thinking associated with, the guilt and doing it again and again diverts your attention from important things in life toward something unimportant. It is slightly kind of psychology effect because of masturbation. The follworing are the areas where masturabtion plays its negative role on a person's health.
Decrease in Memory Power
Your memory power is affected. You tend to loose your memory power. It becomes difficult for you to remember peoples name, places names and telephone numbers and dates. In a conversation you want to refer to a person but you memory does not support you. It strikes you right when you need it. This is one problem that is caused my masturabion (or i should say by frequent masturbation).
Uncertainity
Along with memory reduction you develop something called uncertainity. You are not sure if you have locked the main door or not before going to bed. Many things become uncertain in your mind. You do not remember a clear picture of what happened. You hardly notice it but it is happening slowly and you only come to realize it when it has taken you from all sides.
Although the above two are the main affects on your mental health but the worse is yet to come. The above are something you have naturilly afflicted with if you have this problem of premature ejaculation. The other more serious problem which i have not discussed yet is thinking about your future and yourself. I will discuss them in points.
Phsycological Problems
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Addmitting that you are not a complete man
Nowing that you are affected with premature ejaculation problem and that your penis has already been deformed. It reduced in size and erection. It has lost the stiffness what females are looking for, you seem to be isolated from people and even friends. YOu feel shy when it comes to sex talk among friends. You can not experess your self. You know you have some weakness that you can not tell to any one even your bes friend. You like a girl and you want to talk to her but you can not because deep in your mind you know that you are not enough for her. You can not satisfy her. This has has great impact on your life. You are just out of your natural way of living. You are always thinking about yourself, your problem and your future. You just avoid main things that you need to give time too. You studies, your relationship and your friends. This makes your life a lot more difficult.
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I cannot marry in my life
Most of such sufferrers are told that we cannot marry and we need a some kind of medicine to boost of sexual power and health so that we can satisfy our wives. Though this might seem to be just a short sentence, it really is a big big problem for those who are suffering from premtaure ejacuation and in specially in those areas where there is no sex educaton. You think that you are not enough for a girl and thus you can not marry. Even if you marry, she will not be happy with you and sooner or later will ask for divorce which will brough shame to me. These are problem that we suffer with all the time. Although the world does not know and they may not feel to them for those sufferer it is a matter of their life. These thinking just further deteriorate their brain power and distract their brain from important things to unimportant things.
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Extreme Frustration
These conditon may lead to extreme frustration. The thinking that i can not have sex in my life is just too strong. A man can revert to things that are not natural. He will look for some type of intertainment other than sex with a woman to satisfy his lust which will eventually push him to go into wrong doing that that are againt etiquite and against nature.
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