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They say first impressions always last. Would you want to be remembered as that person who made the lamest joke, or who has bad breath or the clumsy guy who spilled drinks on the floor? Do you want to be remembered as the person who stuttered a lot or who turned red up to his ears? Women have less pressure in making first impressions. It is the men who are too pressured that they often mess it up just by uttering a stuttered "hello". Men often mess up their first impression because they fear too much of what the woman might think of them. She gets to be so calm, collected and relaxed because she is not the one being judged, but she is the one evaluating your first impression. All this makes a guy feel nervous and eventually throws him off track and off his best game. This makes guys mess up. So, what can guys do to leave a good first impression? All you have to remember is to keep cool and composed. Do not let her know that you are all sweaty and nervous just walking up to her. Also, keep in mind that you are a good catch and that she should even consider herself lucky that you want to talk to her. Learn how to be comfortable in your own skin. And making a few small mistakes is forgivable, remember that. Nobody is perfect. Try to keep things simple. The more you complicate things, the harder it would be for you to open a conversation and break the ice. Win her trust by proving to her that you do not just want to get into bed with her. And that you want to get to know her better because you find her beautiful and interesting. Remember that women always like to be appreciated. One good tip when you decide to walk up to someone is that you should use statements as your opening line, instead of a question. Something like "I was just here with my ex-girlfriend two months ago..." so that she would not feel that she is being chased, and that she can respond to your statement freely and without the feeling of being harassed. Remember that women are just human beings like you. Do not try too hard to talk to her. Remember that you would not have her, if you don't try. Use PlanJam.com to find additional dating advice and date ideas. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ron_Zvagelsky |