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Remember when you went on your first date with a girl, your first phone conversation with

her? Your energy was high b/c you were nervous and you wanted them to like you. Now if

you knew what you were doing, you didn't telegraph your interest. But having a

slightly higher energy level than the woman you are going after is an attractive

thing. You want to give her something of value instead of take value from her.

The reason you had this high energy, was because you wanted her to like you.

You wanted to show how fun and interesting you were.

There's no difference in relationships. Let me ask you a question. Do you

think your girlfriend would be attracted to you, if she met you for the first time and

you acted exactly the same way you act around her now? I doubt it.

After a time, you lose the excitement that you had in the beginning. You

aren't excited to talk to her because you only talk about how her day was and

what you both are doing that night. So you just sit there on the phone and

basically moan and grunt your way through your conversations. And you rarely

say anything interesting or entertaining like you did when you first met. Then

when you do go out, you talk to other people and you aren't attentive to her.

You're not trying to impress her, in fact you rarely even consider what she thinks

about you.

So why are you confused when she loses attraction for you? If she

wouldn't be attracted to that type of person before she met you, she wont be

attracted to that type of person just because she has been with you for a couple

of months.

Once again it's worth a reminder that you should never be desperate for

her attention. Keeping your energy is about being a fun guy that keeps his

attractive qualities. There is a difference between being a person of value and

being so insecure that you will do whatever she wants because you are afraid of

losing her.

It's always a good idea to think back about how you were on the first few

dates. You put your best foot forward with good energy and that's what won her

over. Try and act like every date is your first.

Keep that intensity and that entertaining personality by keeping your

energy up and you will see your relationships prosper!

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