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Being a DL I think can be viewed as part of a larger personality type. Personally, I have always been attracted to
"cute" girls more than "sexy" girls. I have always said that "cute" is totally underrated. I love wearing cute pajamas at
night. I am also a very cuddly person. I love to snuggle. My wife loves to snuggle. We snuggle a lot. We also spend
time being intimate on a more carnal level, but to both of us "snuggle time" is as important as "doink time". I think it is
safe to say that most people out there have a "softer side". When we get into bed with someone we care about and we
snuggle, or cuddle, or whatever you want to call it, we are in many ways acting just like a little child with thier parents.
Baby sounds are pretty common during times like this. In my opinion, being a DL, or even an AB for that matter, is a
logical extension of this type of action/behaviour. For me, this feeling/emotional need has always been there. I have
always loved snuggling. The way I see it, wearing a diaper and snuggling are fruit from the same tree. I happen to like
them both.

I have been through the entire spectrum of feelings about wanting to wear diapers: shame, guilt, confusion, fear,
understanding, acceptance and even pride. I think the hardest thing for most DLs to do is to accept themselves for who
they are. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I wanted to wear diapers. When I was younger, I was
always very embarresed and ashamed of my desires. I have since grown up and changed my thinking.

There is nothing "wrong" with wanting to wear diapers. There is nothing wrong with wearing them. When we are
younger, we are so concerned with "fitting in" and being accepted. I was no different, and as such I never dreampt of
telling anyone, or actually allowing myself to do something like this. But as I grew older, there were a couple of things that
helped me to realize that it was OK to be myself. One of my personal favorites comes straight from the declaration of
Independence (I studied political science) "...and amoung these rights are life, liberty and the persuit of happiness". Well,
wearing diapers makes me happy, and it is certainly not infringing on anyone elses rights, so why the heck shouldn't I wear
them?

I have come to realize that being a DL and wearing diapers is not nearly as big of a deal as I used to think. If it
makes you happy do it, that is my advice (so long as you are not hurting yourself or others in your actions). People don't
even notice that I wear diapers. About a year ago I made the decision to let myself do what I always wanted to do: wear
diapers all the time. I am glad I made that decision, and I have never looked back.

So all the DLs out there, what are you waiting for? Go ahead and let yourself be happy. You wont regret it.