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| Finding Love in Chat Rooms | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Chat can come naturally to many people. It's a lot of fun connecting with people on a cerebral level and getting to know people from all over the world. I myself have been chatting for years and have made many friends from far away places. I know of approximately a dozen people who met in chat and got married, myself included. That might make it sound easy but if you consider that I've seen more chat relationships fizzle than sparkle you'll have a more realistic view... | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| The Advantages of Finding Love in Chat: | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| It's almost romantic coming into a chat room and coming across the person of your dreams and feeling that fate has brought you together. Having that person right there in front of their in front of their own computer while you sit in front of yours can make Net Love a warm experience. If you are romantic and believe in fate then this is the right method for you. Plus as I said earlier chat can be a lot of fun so if you should happen to hit it off with someone that's great. You can fall in love fast on the internet. Unlike dating in real life there is nothing to do but communicate. There are no distractions like there are in dating such as movies, waiters and countless other distractions. Here there is nothing to do but pour your heart out to the person on the screen. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| The Disadvantages of Finding Love in Chat: | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Well to put it bluntly there are a lot of crazy people in chat. There are people that seem to want to get revenge on the world and they seem to think that chat is the perfect place to do so. Some of these people use fake pictures and make up fictional lives and go from one victim to the next. I won't pretend to know exactly what makes them do it. The point here is that they do it. Another common chat problem is that some people seem to have trouble realizing that there is a living person, on the other side of that monitor that has feelings. I guess they think that the internet is a giant Sims game or something made purely for their enjoyment. Also there is that nasty thing called chat drama. Someone sees that you are happy and they just have to move in and try to steal that happiness away. I've seen this happen so many times it would be cruel not to mention it here. It seems that for every one normal person in chat there is two evil, stupid or just plain crazy people. some times you have to be thick skinned, smart and lucky to pull off a chat relationship. If you aren't thick skinned and feeling lucky then I would suggest you use a Dating Site to find love. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Tips and Pointers: | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Have some fun. People who are obviously enjoying themselves are the most attractive people in a chat room. Don't go into a chat room and automatically announce to the room that you are looking for love. To most people, even in a Romance room, that is a turn off. It sends the message that maybe there's something undesirable about you and you feel that you have to advertise yourself. Chat is a place to get to know people so take your time and don't launch an ad compaign. Use a Chat such as Yahoo! Chat that allows you to make a profile and actually fill out that profile. Don't put your real name on there but do take the time to fill out the rest, such as hobbies/interests. Put a picture of yourself on your profile so that people can see who they are talking to. NEVER EVER send a private message without getting to know the person you're interested in, in the open room and then asking if it's OK to do so first. Always ask to see more pictures of a person. Look out for fake profile pics, if it looks to good to be true then it is. Lighting is an excellent way to spot a fake pic how many people can afford a professional photographer to take their snap shot? . And finally, when at all possible, ask to view their web cam. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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