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Everybody wants to know about the Horrors of finding Love On The Net but trying to get people to tell their Horror Stories is another thing entirely. Many of these stories are written by me about the things I've seen, not by the victims and certainly not by the people who victimize others. The names have been changed to protect me from the guilty . The intention of this section is not to make people look bad, it is to protect the innocent. A heads up to people who don't deserve to be abused. If you take offense to this, I certainly wouldn't be admitting it. |
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Ms. Leukemia |
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This was the first incident like this I had ever seen. "Marcia" was a regular to the room I had just started frequenting. She seemed very sweet and caring, had a beautiful and very real looking profile pic, and was well liked by all of us there. She had been involved with "Bobby" for a few months in an on line romance. Well I guess she felt like she was losing "Bobby" so she told him and everyone else that she had Leukemia. I was very innocent to concept that people would lie about such a horrble thing and spent a long time talking to her about her incurable disease and alternative medical treatments. After talking to her about it for a few days things about her story sarted nagging at me a bit. Things about her illness and treatments just didn't seem to add up right. She said she was going to Canada to under go a radical new form of treatment, which I tried to research and never found a thing about it. While she was gone, someone claiming to be a close friend of hers came into the room on a regular basis to keep us posted. People began to get suspicious of her for reasons of their own.
After her return she said she was all cured. By then many people doubted her, including "Bobby". After she realized people were on to her and she had lost "Bobby" She killed herself off by way of her close friend coming in the room to tell us she had died. Well like most crazy people on the net she just couldn't stay gone and she couldn't handle not being recognized or acknowledged in he room so she contacted some people through PM and told them she was alive and that it was all a lie. Turns out she wasn't even the girl in the profile pic, she was phony from start to finish. She still comes in the room on occasion and I myself keep her on ignore. Terminal Illness is not a light subject to be used for gain and I will not forgive that... |
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"T" Stands For (Emotional) Terrorist |
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This could be a very hazardous story for me to tell. The subject of this story is " T"., who is, in my opinion, a very malicious woman. She has, in my opinion, been hurting people in chat continually for many years and revenge is her game. Not one of her victims would write their story themselves. They are all too embarrassed, hurt, or in fear of being stalked by her to want to rehash things. Hell she's already after me for doing this, could it be from guilt? Nah, not her, she's the "victim" here, in her mind, or game, anyway. My view is that it needs to be told so that other people will not get taken by her and others like her. I don't know how she does it but she gets men to fall in love with her quite easily. She uses a fake pic of a woman in a bathingsuit that looks to be about mid thirties, yet "T" claims she is only 28. For some reason she makes these men lose their common sense. Most have heard the Horror Stories about her but for some reason they believe she won't do it to them. One of the ways she dumps a man is the cruelest part of her game. She usually tells them she is coming to see them, sometimes going as far as to give them a flight number and arrival time, then, of course, she never shows. She seems to enjoy destroying a man's friendships with others while she brings him down as well. She seems to be very good at playing the victim and making men feel like she needs to be protected from all the "mean" people that call her on her game. She's even done it to women, under the guise of friendship. If you are new to a chat room and your new friend is hated by the majority of people there take a good look at your friend and don't be suckered. I'm betting this will not be all we hear about "T", someone is bound to have the courage to tell their own story some day, because i doubt she'll ever stop. |
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Ms. Guided & Mr. X |
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This was about 5 years ago. I met Ms. Guided in a chat room. She came across very sultry in her chat style, so I was drawn to her. We had an immediate connection. We chatted for hours that first night. The very first night we also exchanged phone numbers and started a phone relationship. We talked every night as well as chatted daily. I even spoke to her daughter on the phone. A couple of months into itI felt that I was falling in love with her. She didn't seem psychotic at the time. Then after three months we decided to meet. And around that time she started getting hard to reach by phone and would disappear for days at a time. She would always have some strange dramatic excuse for her absence. Then she told me she had booked a flight to come out and see me. and we scheduled to meet. I booked a night at a bed & breakfast and had made other plans for the weekend as well. Iwent to the airport to pick her up and I could not find her flight anywhere at that airline. I figured she was just confused and had given me the wrong flight number. As it turned out there never was not a flight. I went home and I tried to call her at home and on her cell phone and got no answer. The next day I decided to book a flight to her and get to the bottom of what was going on. Right after I had booked my flight she called me. She told me she had missed her flight and that she had been so upset that she just drove around in her car all night and said her cell wasn't working She begged me not to fly out. Telling me to save my money. We kind of patched things up. She knew I was mad at her, and beginning not to trust her. We planned another weekend. Her exhusband was supposed to pick up her daughter for the weekend. She called me the day before she was supposed to leave and we got into some drama about her exhusband disappearing and her thinking he was dead. She didn't show up again. At that point I decided that she had some issues and broke things off. A month later we got back together and I found that nothing had really changed and only stayed for about a month. I was a sucker and I fell hook line and sinker for her crazy stories. I had exchanged many pics with her but they were at least 4-5 yrs old based on her daughters age in the pictures. Needless to say this put me off of chat relationships for a while, but eventually I started using an on line dating site where I met my wife. |
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