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I met Hairy in Chat through a mutual friend, and she seemed pretty cool. We hit it off, got attached very quickly and began talking on the phone. We would send each other gifts and after about a month or two we decided to meet. I drove 600 miles to see her and boy was I surprised. You couldn't see her moustache in the pictures. Of course she SHAVED her moustache but it was quite hard to get over. So I eventually chalked it up to her just being a hairy wiccan chick and talked myself into believing that we had other things to base the relationship on. Things went well, I went home and we began to have a long distance relationship. She came to visit me and our mutual friend and everything was still ok, although I was starting to get creeped out by her moustache among other things. I was starting to rethink our relationship. While she was there I let her use my computer to chat. About a month after she left we were growing further apart and she came to visit our mutual friend and it was very uncomfortable for me being around her so I broke up with her. Then she started calling me and telling me she was having nightmares about another woman and that someone was going to kill me. Of course I blew her off and when that little plot of hers didn't work she hacked into my email account and started sending pornographic emails, and I don't mean just pictures, to my family and coworkers as if it was from me. Then she called me and said someone had hacked into her email and had left threatening messages. I was suspicious of her so I did a trace on the emails and of course they led back to her. I confronted her with that and threatened to call the police and made her send apology letters to everyone that she had sent the emails to. Then after I had met someone else and gotten married she started messaging me and telling me she has a venereal disease and wondering if she got it form me. Thank god my wife is understanding even though neither of us tested positive for any disease, it was still a hassle to have to go through. |
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I had not really ever used a computer before but they got me to use one at work so I invested in one myself for home. My friends told me AOL was a good isp so set up the comp and installed AOL. I saw they had a chat bit on there and had heard that chat was kinda a laugh, so being pretty out going I thought why not give it a go. So I downloaded AIM and searched through the catergories till I found one that seemed good. I read a profile of a guy who lived not really that far from me and seemed like a laugh so I sent him a message and said hi. He replied and we spent the whole evening chatting laughing and generally having a good time. We chatted through the net via voice and typing for bout 2 weeks and seemed that we were getting close. So being brave (or possibly stupid) I asked if he wanted to exchange mobile phone numbers and he said yes so we did. The next thing I know he called me and we chatted for a few hours. After another couple of weeks of talking on the phone and the net, as well as him sending me his pic. I didnt have any pics on my pc to send him but described myself as best as I could. He suggested meeting, to which I agreed to but I know the risks so I said in a public place and was going to bring a friend with me and he had no problem with that. I told the guys at work and they (we being all good friends) said to make him come to our town and they would be in the same pub,just in the back ground, watching. So I rang him that night and told him of the plan and he said that he didnt mind coming to my town and everything on my terms. Of course I didnt tell him about the watchful eyes that were going to be there. I was sitting at home one Sunday and he called me and told me he was in a pub in my town, not the one we had agreed to meet in and that was not the day we had agreed to either. He said he wanted to surprise me. Well I was excited, scared, apprehensive and flustered. The guy who I had been talking to these weeks had come to see me and couldnt wait till the agreed meeting time. I gave him directions to the pub that we had agreed on and said I would meet him there. I jumped into the shower and did everything in bout 20 mins what normally takes me to do in 2 hours. Hair make up the works all done and I had also called a couple of guys from work and told them the situation. Walking up to the pub that was 10 mins from me, my heart was in my throat. I was so nervous. I walked into the pub, straight up to the bar ordered a drink and looked around. There he was in the corner he waved and I waved back. I walked over to his table and did the normal `hi how are you, good thanks, you`, all the small talk and then I sat down. We just looked at each other and then I said with a smile `OK, 1st impression, come on then, be honest.` He laughed and said `Well I expected someone prettier.` Now those who know me know I am fairly blunt so my reply to that was `Well I guess you lucked out then.` I poured his pint over his head and left him sitting there as I walked out the pub, mumbling `loser` and smiling all the way home. I heard nothing from him for a few days then he rang me up , drunk, one night apologising for what he said and that he really did like me and wanted to make up for it among other things in his drunken babbling style. I told him I wasnt interested and hung up. Every night for 2 weeks he called me. Some I answered and everytime he was drunk. Then came the most laughable thing I have ever heard. One of his drunken calls he told me `I`m going to Spain on holiday so you need to get hold of me and have sex with me before the Spanish girls do.` Well I could barely hang up the phone for laughing. The following night I was on the net and he logged on. He IM`d me and asked me why I didnt want to talk to him. I kinda figured that he wouldnt leave me alone unless I spelled it out for him so I told him that he was a drunk and a loser and I was not going to waste my time on him. I didnt threaten him with the police or anything for the harrassment but told him straight I didnt want any contact with him. Well I had a few emails from him after that but they soon fizzled out. So thats it, my story, not as spectacular as some but that has taught me to be wary on the net. |
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