From me

Besides enumerated in Dr. Chapman's book peculiarities which help spouses to love and to be loved, there are a lot of other details, which help to keep one's love permanent. And I'd like to share with you some of my observations that I've made during my life in marriage. I don't have pretensions to the title of a professional in this area, because I doubt that it's possible to be the one there. And what is more I'm sure that each family has it's own peculiarities which can be examined, understood and decided by the Lord our God alone and no one else, even if it is not true, that believers' families don't have conflicts and are always filled with peace and love. In many respects everything depends of our trust in God and our attitude to the family. Nothing good is going to happen without our effort. Look at the natural world for example. If you build a house and then leave it for a few years it won't become better. It even won't stay the same. Even if it was empty it'll need cleaning and repairing, and try to imagine what it would be like if somebody lived there but never spent his time and energy to keep it in order. I bet it'll need a lot of cleaning and repairing. Sometimes christians sincerely believe that family is not as spiritual and important for God as ministry for example. So when they have to choose where to spend their time, with their family or ministering to somebody, very often they'll choose ministry. Sometimes devoted believers feel themselves guilty spending time with their families, because they consider this time useless and not pleasing to God. I want to say you that it is a very crafty satan's trick, and many got caught it's help.

Your ministry will never be successful if you neglect your family. It is written "------"1 mesto pisaniya. And family relationships will never be successful by themselves, without your effort. And a devoted believer must first of all ministry to his family because God has trusted them to ??? relatives clothest: a spouse, children, parents, brothers or sisters, his or her care. And it is spiritual and important to spend time, money and effort on your family members.

You can ask me: why do you suppose, that your experience is interesting to me? And I will answer you: you are on my site now and that means that you are interested. I think there are other reasons. So read:

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