A friend of mind has a very amazing fish tank. Reefs and everything. I wanted one to. So here is my attempt at creating a dream fish tank. (We creat the words we speak.--- One day a little girl was looking at the gull and she said," see the gull". Hence the word seagull.)
Each day we dance with the moon, sun and the stars
With the melodies of the waves in flowing in our hearts.
And If One Day the Dance Stops, and We Walk Our Own Ways
The issue is not whether we can trust another person
again:
it's whether we can trust our own judgment again.
Many of us have trusted people who went on to deceive, abuse,
manipulate, or otherwise exploit us because we trusted them. We may have
found these people charming, kind, decent.
There may have been a small voice
that said, "No--something's wrong." Or we may have been comfortable with
trusting that person and shocked when we found our instincts were wrong.
The issue may then reverberate through our life for years. Our trust
in others may have been shaken, but our trust in ourselves may have been
shattered worse.
How could something feel so right, flow so good, and be such a total
mistake? We may wonder. How can I ever trust my selection
process again,
when it showed itself to be so faulty? We may never have the answers. I believe I needed
to make certain
learned. We cannot let our past interfere with our ability to trust
ourselves. We cannot afford to function with fear.
If we are always making the wrong decision in business or
in love, we
may need to learn why we insist on defeating ourselves.
But most of us do improve. We lean. We grow from our mistakes. Our business choices
improve.
Our decisions about how to handle situations with friends or
children improve.
We benefit from our past. And if we have made mistakes, we
needed to make them in order to learn along the way.
Today, I will let go of my fears about trusting myself because I have made
mistakes in the past.
I understand that these fears only serve to impair my
judgment today. I will give my past, even my mistakes, validity by accepting
and being grateful for it all.
I will strive to see what I've gained from my
mistakes.
I will try to look at all my good decisions too. I will keep a
watchful eye for improvement, for overall progress, in my life.
I will go out and dance with the Moon again
With my roots planted in the earth
My arms will reach to embrace the Spirit
I will be whole again
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