Catching Up...
    Its been too long since I have written here.  There is so so so much that has happened since I last did.  In my last update, I was with a girl and debating what to do, because she skipped through all the short-term relationship stuff, and bounced on to the long-term relationship within a month.  The main thing was, the first day we started seeing each other, she more or less moved into my apartment.  At first it was kind of cool to be have someone, especially a girl, here with me all the time.  But that got old quick, because, she never really let me have time to go out with my friends.  The only reason it upset me was because it was a sudden change instead of a gradual one.  The big kicker that brought me to sit down and talk with her was the day I found the extra key to my apartment, not on its hook, but on her keyring.  She didn't ask for it, and didn't tell me she had it.  That was the day I told her that we needed to slow things down a bit, that we should still go out, but nothing like it was.

     Within a week, I had the key back and all my things she appropriated.  As well, all her things were out of my apartment, and she was moving in on some other guy.  Nothing lost....  nothing gained.


     Skip forward two weeks after that talk.....  it was Dec. 13th, 2002.  I had a party.  My parties are never all that big....  just about 15-20 people....  but to me, its almost unreal.  I get the people that just love to party, and its an amazing time.  Anyways, there was a girl at my party...  and things kinda snowballed from there.  We started dating, and things were okay.....  except that we worked together, and after a few months, it just wasn't working for me.  It was almost the same situation as the girl before...  the sudden abrupt change, to having no personal time.  We seperated, and the good thing, we had such a strong friendship before, that we still are friends, and good friends at that.

     I guess you can call me old fashioned to this point, because I strongly believe in a dating process for a meaningful relationship.  Or find someone that can fit in seamlessly into the life I have...  and not be a girl from the place I work.


     Since I have started this site...  I have had three girlfriends in two years.  The things I have learned in that time are...  confidence and personality will take anyone far in the dating world.





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