I Have Been Dating....
     Well, I now have a girlfriend.   We have being seeing each other for one month now, and I am not sure what to make of it.  For us its been quite an interesting first month....  because we haven't had a day where we haven't been together.  While this may be cool with some people....  I'm not sure how it relates to me, for the fact that I feel that things are moving extremely too fast.  In this first month that we have been together, we have spent basically everyday in each other's company, and its begining to take its toll on me.  My biggest thoughts are when first starting out, people in relationships need to take the time to grow accumstomed to each other, find and set bounderies, and most importantly establish an excellent communication base.  So far....  with this girl NONE of this has happened. 

       To take things a step further, she has basically closed herself off to me for establishing the communication.  Everything that I want to talk about concerning this relationship has some large negative sides to it.  She has told me almost from the get-go that she has severe confience issues about relationships.  Now, being the Nice Guy that I am, how am I to bring up the negative issues concerning our relationship without totally alienating her??  Hence, my troubles.....

       What I fear, is that one night after a wee bit of alcohol, I will let it all out, and end it all.....  but, I know I need to talk about it soon, because the longer I wait, the harder it will become as well, as when it does come up the distance it will put between us.

      I know I am going to have to sit down with her and establish some things, if I feel that this realationship can be taken further....  but that is the thing..... Am I too far past the talking part of what I need/want to talk about?  or just found someone that I can't talk to, and just let the time tick away and find out what happens.....

       Taking my own advice, I am going to sit down with her and establish the things I need and want out of this relationship, and just have to see if she wants to continue to see me afterwards.

       I hate being such a damn Nice Guy.
Why Me?





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