For Contemplation
When shall I love Thee, O infinite goodness! if not when I receive this sacred pledge of Thy love? Yes, O my God, I do love Thee, above all things, with my whole heart and soul. But, alas! how imperfect is my love! O Holy Ghost! Thou eternal love of the Father and the Son, come and fill my soul with Thy presence; kindle in it the pure fire of Thy love; elngithen it, purify it, adorn and beautify it; for "I seek Him whom my soul loveth." (from a catholic prayer)
Between the Great Commandments and the Ten Commandments, there is an ocean to cross and a boat to steer. The Great Commandments are like wind, filling sails and giving movement. But the rigging is complicated and reaching a destination requires a knowledgeable hand at the helm. The Ten Commandments, these are like a map from when the world was smaller: marking 'here be dragons' and the world's edge, beyond which there is only a perilous fall. Between departure point and these ultimate boundaries all else is unknown void. There is a myriad of detail to confront on the voyage. For the most part, good and bad come part and parcel, and realization of the commandments from theory requires fine discernment. When at sea, you are at sea -- all can look the same in every direction. How, then, to make your way? How to take your measure? The following sayings are bits of advice that, I think, can help us find our bearings. Sometimes they can turn the wildness of the oceans into the calmness of a stream, and form the stepping stones across.
Stand alone if you must.
Be gracious.
Never assume maliciousness for what stupidity
can explain.
We can't go around measuring our goodness by what we don't do, by what we deny ourselves, what we resist, and who we exclude...We've got to measure goodness by what we embrace, what we create, and who we include. (Pere Henri from the movie Chocolat)
Nature is cruel and kind. And no less
beautiful or good because of this.
Forgiving someone does not mean forgetting. It does not mean pretending they are perfect or allowing them into a position where they can hurt you again. It does not mean that what happened was acceptable. Forgiveness does not require you to be any less vigilant or any more unsafe. Forgiveness simply means moving on. It means that you've
chosen
There are no "shoulds." Sometimes its not that people wont
do as they should, Life owes you nothing.
An act of obligation has more merit than a thing freely done.
Love and do what you will. (St. Augustine)
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From Bridge & Broomstick by Goody Lamb / Musette Oleander