Readers' Emails and Stories about
   Outdoor Sex or Sex in Public Areas

Here is some of the email I've received from readers. Thank you to those who have emailed me, and I hope this contributes to other couples getting ideas for enjoying the sexual aspect of their relationship.

Due to the subject matter, this page
contains some explicit language.

If you have some fun ideas or good stories about you and your partner enjoying sex outdoors or in public areas, please them to me at .

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My wife and I have a sex game that we like to play. We go out on the weekend and drive down the freeway. My wife wears a button up blouse and a skirt. She wears no bra or panties. As we drive down the freeway she will open her blouse, expose her breasts and play with her nipples. After awhile she will lift her skirt and masturbate to orgasm. (Occasionally she will wear loose fitting pants and pull them down to masturbate.) When she finishes we pull off onto the shoulder of the freeway where she performs oral sex on me. The cars rushing by just a few feet away is a real turn on. We always pull over only where there is a wide enough shoulder and there is at least a half mile of flat freeway behind us so that people are sure to see our car.

— Randy and Sara

[Jan 14, 2008]

 

I saw a couple once jump out of their car and have sex on the road, they could not wait to get going. I have had sex in a telephone box. Another good way is when my dancing partner goes to the toilet and comes back with his fly open, you wear your skirt with the no undies look, part the skirt, pull out his penis very gently place it in your vagina and slowly dance. The rythym can go on for a couple of hours if you want you kiss and cuddle but nobody expects you to be making love. I alo have had sex with my lover on a nudist beach, no big deal as everyone is doing it very discreetly.

— Eileen

[Dec 22, 2007]

 

Steve,

Great site and great idea!

My girlfriend, Eva, and I love this kind of stuff. One of our favorite places for enjoying the great outdoors was on a balcony at a little hotel across the street from the beach. We were in a little fishing village in South America and our hotel room was just above the sidewalk. Outside and across the street were 3 tables of guys playing checkers under the streetlight and just enjoying a nice cool evening.

So Eva and I were out on the balcony and going at it like wild monkeys and as I had her bent over the table I happened to look over at the checker team and I noticed a couple of them were trying to look up at our somewhat darkened balcony. I'm sure they thought they were imagining things. You think this stopped Eva? Hell no! It made her even wilder!!! Now balconies are one of our favorite places for "the greatest sport of kings and queens"!

Eva and I also enjoy buses, beaches, public bathrooms, dressing rooms in stores, cars. She's a real estate agent and I'm trying to convince her how much fun it'd be to bang away in homes she's trying to sell. I tell her she can tell her sellers that I'm a prospective buyer and we need about an hour to view the home. Great, huh?

I'm going crazy just writing this email. Gotta run.

Can't wait to see your site and see what you come up with.

Later, Adam and Eva

[Apr 28, 2007]

 

Hi Steve,

I stumbled onto your website, and wanted to answer your request for people to send in their own outdoor sex adventures and stories. Here are some of mine:

My wife and I were camping, and it had been over a week since we last had sex. She really loves camping, especially all the stuff that goes with it--cooking on a fire, making S'mores or popcorn at night, swimming in the lake your tent is next to... So, I guess she was in a real happy mood. We were the last ones to turn in one night, and she joined me in my sleeping bag. Luckily, I had a very large model. We didn't wake anyone else up, either in our tent (six people) or adjacent tents. As much as I enjoyed it, she really loved it, and I think that opened her up to more places than the bedroom or "other rooms of the house when nobody's home."

A few times our patio has been the scene of some nighttime play. I need to remember to turn off the motion sensing lights...it would be bad if one switched on due to a small animal or a tree branch swaying. Also, a night with no moon is better, because some neighbors' houses are close and others have a direct line of sight. Wearing robes is convenient...you can open a robe, but be able to close it if startled. Somehow, the robes get tossed off usually.

Another time, we'd had a few drinks while watching TV, and she dragged me out to the trampoline. In that case, I was the one who was a little more worried about being seen. The trampoline gave a nice bouncing action, and we sank in enough so I didn't feel like I was having sex on a public pedestal.

The last one I want to tell you about is when the neighbors had a pool party. The drinks were flowing liberally, and a few people joked about going skinny-dipping and maybe "doing more" in the pool. The hosts had to take their daughter to the airport (at 11:00 PM?), which would be at least a two-hour drive, but said that everyone could stay. People started drifting away, but a few of us stuck around for a half-hour or so. My wife and I went over to the neighbors of the hosts for another drink, then we left to go home. The last people to leave the pool must have turned the lights off, but my wife and I were able to get back to the pool for a little skinny dipping. We ended up having the most amazing sex ever. It might have been the weightlessness of our bodies in the water, and/or the semi-public nature. My wife still mentions every so often how awesome that night was.

— Rex

[Apr 1, 2006]

 

In the back of the movies theater while the movie is playing and people are in the bottom of the theater. But make sure the movie is very old.

— "cukeious"

[Mar 30, 2006]

 

hey there

... some weeks ago my wife and me read your outdoor tips on the web, and we got really excited...

we drove out to the country, found an open field, and got out of the car and took our clothes off...

here's a picture we took :-) [picture attached]

(just as feedback for an inspiring site)

— Del (near Zurich, Switzerland)

[Apr 12, 2005]

 

Hi There

I would love to tell you about the most exciting thing that has ever happened to me in my life.

I am a 24 yr old female. I have one 5 year old son. I have a boyfriend of 10 months, and we just seem to be drifting apart sexually and emotionally.

So on meeting an old friend that we both know through our showjumping careers, I decided to give him a call yesterday!

We text each other a few times during the day then we decided to meet up in the evening. We met in a local car park then i followed him in his car. We are quite lucky as we live out in the country. After about 10 minutes we pulled up into a country lane that was a dead end, and i got out of my car and got into his.

We chatted about old times, horses and eventually he touched my thighs (yes i was thinking) he was impressedthat I put a short skirt on. Then after 5 minutes we both got out of the car and he lent me against the boot on my car. He hitched my thong to one side and oh my god he made love to me so good. After he had finished my knees were trembling and he held me close to him I could feel his hot breathe against my cold neck.... then we kissed and it was quit e spectacular as the wind swept my hair gracefully....

We both then drove away seperatley we have texted today and can not wait for our next meet... sex outdoors is amazing and it opened up another realm for me.

— Joanna

[Jan 4, 2005]

 

Dear Steve,

I want you to know I enjoyed reading your site. I like the fact that your site is geared towards couples.

Thank you,
Dee

[Nov 30, 2004]

 

Found this article very interesting. It made a lot of very sensible and valid points.

— Ali

[Sep 28, 2004]

 

My wife and I occasionally enjoy finding a house that's under construction in a nearby neighborhood. We can go in late at night and "make ourselves at home"!

You can also take along a bottle of wine for that "special" evening.

— David

[Mar 17, 2004]

 

My husband and I LOVE outdoor sex. But we spend a lot more time FINDING places to do it, than actually doing it. It takes some advanced scouting, which is fun and is part of the excitement -- it's a sort of foreplay, if you will.

— Kathy

[Aug 24, 2003]

 

Hi,

I found your website on sex outdoors or in public places.

I'm more of a risk taker than my wife of 21 years (monogamous). Sex is part of the whole package -love, honour, respect and pleasure. She is very open to private area public sex as long as we don't get caught. With that in mind, I have a many observations and stories of how we've managed public sex over the years. Living in Nova Scotia, Canada we can participate in public sex anytime from late April to ealy November, and even a couple times in February.

To me, the sexiest part of outdoor sex is oral sex. It takes longer and is more exposing than full intercourse. And instead of working up a sweat, we get to focus on the world around us - birds, wind, animals, water, sun, etc... And I always, always make it a point that my wife lay back and enjoy while I do the work first. Only after her orgasm do I consider my own, and if she's too content, well then, I can wait...

1) Snow - sex in the snow is great, and you leave interesting prints - especially if you combine it with your path idea. (however sometimes you don't realize you are on the path until you hear voices) Just remember to bring a big warm jacket to lay on.

2) Tides - when you leave your clothes aside at a beach, make sure the tide isn't coming in....or at least you put the clothing above the tide line.

3) Tides - again - find a tidal river, have sex on the the tide flats at low tide and then come back 6 hours later for a high tide romp - note the difference in the area.

4) Clothes - when you decide to drop them off and go for a walk in the woods - remember where you left them... especially if the car keys are in your pocket.

5) Rocks - granite is hard and scrapes the back or knees.

6) One at a time - go for public sex, full nude for one and the other stays dressed. Oral sex all the way - my wife loves the sun on her breasts and tummy while I'm busy kissing down below. Don't get selfish, this is her time - mine will be another day. Let her relish in the freedom.

7) Walk partially undressed. My wife will go bottomless walking a secluded trail in front of me... how can I not follow that.

8) Pictures - my wife is not comfortable with photos... so I have a digital camera, shoot her in the woods, but no action photos... then we look at them and delete... part of sex is the give and take with what each one is comfortable with.

9) Almost exposed - have sex laying in front of an open door or a large bay window - while laying down nobody can see you - or position yourselves so that all a passerby sees is feet/legs. Or lay so that you can see out the door or window, but the view in is cut off mid chest... or perhaps standing against the inside door frame - all anyone can see is a bit of skin, or maybe part of a cheek.

10) Gardening - my wife wears a wrap around skirt - gets behind a bush from the front yard view and pretends to weed. I can fit in underneath, unseen and kiss away...or when really daring, we go all the way. From the street, she appears to be gardening. Or, when the vegetable garden is in full, there is ample space in the rows for a little tryst in your own backyard.

11) sunning - at the cottage - busy highway is 50 feet away. we have a bench that I can lay under and cannot be seen - and my penis fits through the slats. In a skirt, my wife will either lay out on her belly or sit up. In either case she fits me in though the slits in her skirt and while "reading" or sunning, she stays still while I indulge.

12) Bicycle - remember to put a small towel over the seat to catch moisture. On a secluded trail, I can sometimes get my wife to bike bottomless. I of course bike behind her. Keeping her top covered, since she is basically sitting, very few people we pass ever notice that she is naked from the waist down, and if they did - well we're moving so they don't get to stare... Later we find a small side trail and she gets her reward.

13) Skinny dipping - arrange one of those floating chairs so one of you floats, with the pubic area just above the water line. My wife has a special bathing suit, We've redesigned the crotch so that it is held in place by velcro. I sit my wife in the chair, push her out to neck deep water, undo the velcro and while she lays back, I comes between her legs and you both enjoy a round of oral sex - watch out for tidal waves - or at least flipping the chair. Can be done discretely at a public beach since from a distance, I'm hidden in the water. This also works with a rubber tube - my head goes in the hole, and her bottom is right there.

14) back steps - our back steps are designed so that my wife can stand on a lower step and lean into my groin, without being seen. The step railing is about 1 foot high and happens to be at the level of my groin. So sometimes, in summer, when I'm coming down and she's coimg in from the back yard - she'll stop, pull my penis out the side of the leg hole of my shorts and give me oral sex, wide open backyard but nobody can see a thing. Unless they watch for a while, we appear to be passing each other on the steps.

And that's about it for now... I hope you can glean some useful advise out of all this.

— Steve

[Jun 29, 2003]

 

Well I would like to tell an erotic and exciting adventure I went through not to long ago...

My boyfriend and I have been together almost three years, I am extreme voyeur, and love to have sex outdoors. So, one evening I put on one of my "hippy" skirts, and a tank top and told my boyfriend that I would like to walk to the park. It was late at night and he knew by looking at my clothing apparel what I had in mind. So we grabbed a blanket and began our journey to the PLAYGROUND. I have always wanted to try to have sex on a swing so I told him lets start on the swings!!!! He then, went and sat down on the swing, I walked over to him and began to unbutton his Levi's, his cock was lying there waiting to be devoured by my mouth. So, then I went down on him and his cock got harder than ever. Because I love sucking cock, I was wet and ready to get swingin'. I crawled on top of him and slipped his dick inside me. We started pumping and swinging higher and higher while his huge penis slid in and out of me. The moment on the swings got soo heated and we ended up on the sand below us. He began fucking me harder and harder, I was getting louder and louder, I could not control myself. Then we noticed a car coming down this street. Now get this in mind, we are in a residential park, surrounded by houses, and all the lights were on us at the playground. So we both jumped up and decided to find a dark shadow. The car pasted by and Jeff grabbed me and through me to the ground, and started to go down on me, my clit got so hard and I was pouring out my sweet juices from my pussy. I reached my hand down and started to finger fuck myself. His cock got erect again, and I started stroking it. He pulled off my top and began to suck and kiss my nipples, I could feel my pussy just throbbing for his cock.

Another car pulled up and the man in the car parked in front of his house. I saw him look over at us and I knew he was watching. He didn't get out of his car right away so I wanted to give him a live porno show. So I got up and ran over to a goal post, Jeff followed. The pole was lit up by the playground lights, so I knew the man in the car had a nice view. I grabbed the pole and Jeff came up behind me and began playing with my clit again, I was so turned on and wet. Out of the corner of my eye I could see the guy in the car watching ( and probably jacking off), I told Jeff to fuck me, so, he inserted his cock in me, he was so hard and turned on he almost came. I turned around, and went down on him. He was so hard, and turned on while I was giving him head. I pulled him down to the ground and began to ride him harder and harder. I was then sooooo turned on I took off all of our remaining clothes. We were butt-naked fucking in the park while a man in his car was masturbating and his wife was inside probably fucking herself with her vibrator. Anyway, everyone is about to get the big "O", I am moaning and fucking and rubbing my clit, I feel the adrenaline and excitement. Jeff's cock started tinglen' and I knew he was about to cum, that turned me on sooo much that I started to cum; Because my pussy started vibratin, and squeezin' Jeff came and I am sure the man in the car and his wife inside all reached an incredible orgasm. That was the end of that escapade but next time the other couple should join us!!!

Lots of love and love makin',
Danielle
North Denver, Colorado Voyeur

[Jun 1, 2003]

 

I thought that you may be interested in these places that myself and my wife have had outdoor sex over the years.

1) On a quiet(ish) beach near us during a very hot summer...the area where we were is overlooked by a road and a couple of houses..oh and a caravan park! Also we were having sex once and an R.A.F. jet flew over VERY low.

2) In the car at the side of a country road.

3) In our garden, it's a fairly secluded garden but is overlooked by a railway.

4) In the front room of my mother-in-laws...whilst she was in the next room!

5) In a lane whilst walking home from our local pub.

6) In a hotel room in Hastings...with two of our friends present. Eventually we ended up having a foursome but that is another story...

7) Over the boot of my car at a car show which we camped at with 10 or 12 friends.

8) In the front room of my parents house which has no curtains and is on a main road.

9) Have also had oral sex from my wife in the back of a friends car...whilst he was driving.

10) Have had hand jobs and blow jobs in the cinema.

I am sure that there have been other occasions but they've slipped my mind at the moment.

— Kev' & Leah

[Jan 5, 2003]

 

My partner and I sat down wrote out some ideas, but none of them were ideas that really got us going. We have the sex in the park one down, but were hoping you had some really exciting ideas we could work off of. We want to experiment. He and I both agreed that no sharing is allowed. So no sex with other people.

I love your site. We both want to enhance our sex lives, and reading your web site gives us quite a bit to go on!! Keep up the good work!

Thanks for reading my email.

— Emily and Jason

[Dec 27, 2002]

 

My wife and I have been "going at it" in the outdoors for ever. Our first time was behind the curtains on the stage at our high school, during lunch!!

One of the most memorable times was after we had returned from a cruise (prev. letter - on the railing overlooking the cruise ship pool). We docked at Port Canaverial in Fla., and had to drive down to Naples to pick up our kids who were staying at my wife's parents. As mentioned, the cruise had been a sex fest for us (we even had newleyweds in the cabin next to ours. With the paper thin walls, their several times daily events were very graphic and arousing as we could hear every sound and squish like they were right beside us!). Being very relaxed and horny, we were actually looking forward to the 5 hour drive south on the HOT sunny day. Once we got below Sebring, the divided highway goes straight through the deserted(off season for oranges) groves for a hundred miles.

We had stopped for lunch and after a couple drinks ,and with the hot sunny day, and being sexed up after our excellent cruise, and with my wife's very sheer sundress clinging to her body, we started making out and groaping heavily in the parking lot to the side of the TGI Fridays. After a few minutes of grab ass and tonsil hockey, her dress was unbuttened to her waist, her panties were in my hand, I had her against the passenger side door, she had my cock out and was working on rubbing herself with it and trying to fuck me. Fearing we were a bit too public, we cooled down a bit and I opened her car door for her. As she climbed in she swung her legs out the door, spread her legs, and started friggin herself like crazy. As she worked her pussy she unbuttened the rest of her sundress and eventually was sitting in the car with the door open, facing out, dress completely unbuttened and open, completely naked, mastrabating furiously, and screaming for me to let her suck on my cock!! Being a good husband I of course complied, stood beside the door, and let her suck to her hearts content. As she approached orgasm, she layed back on the seat, I kneeled on the door ledge, worked my cock in, and fucked her furiously for about a minute until she came hard. Just when she orgasmed a car door slammed about 3 spaces away bringing us back to reality. A SUV pulled out and two younger women drove past us grinning ear to ear as I hurridly got dressed and hopped into our car.

Back on the road a few minutes later my wife, really worked up now, taking advantage of the fairly deserted divided highway and not really caring who got to see her, ("..never see any of these people again anyway") stripped completely, climbed onto her seat, naked ass out her window, and again started sucking my cock. I was in heaven, driving down the highway getting a blow job by a naked wild woman, finger fucking her as well as I could. Warning her that we were coming up on an intersection and stop light didn't seem to bother her as she got even more wild with my dick and was reacting very well to my fingers. Stopping at the traffic light I was thankful no cars were beside us, but there were a couple of cars stopped coming the other way and an older man was filling up at the Shell station 50 feet away, watching me finger fucking my wife's sopping pussy and getting a blow job from a naked woman, up on all fours, at a stop light!! Wild!!

As we got a ways down the road, she stripped me as much as she could and tried to sit on my dick while I was trying to keep on the road. Not being able to fuck very well in the front seat, we began looking for a place to finish what we had started. Off to the side of the road was a little shop that sold and shipped oranges, with only two cars there. Doing a Bat Turn into the parking lot I pulled up past and beside the building, still visible in all directions to the highway but partially hidden from the orange shop, and still being mostly naked, we jumped out of the car, grabbed my shirt for a heat shield, and Lori jumped up on the hood of the car! I was right behind her, boner in hand, and plugged in to her. We fucked like wild for a few minutes, got honked at twice but couldn't have cared less. Just as I was about to come, she jumped down from the hood, squatted down beside her car door, and demanded I cum in her mouth. 10 seconds later there we were, completely naked except for sandals, in a very exposed parking lot not 30 feet off a divided 4 lane highway, and I was cumming all over my wife's face while she finger fucked herself to another orgasm. Too far gone to care, I was aware that probably 5 or 6 cars had just driven by and I'm sure they all got an eye-full. (No pun intended.)

As Lori finished taking care of her buisness I heard a semi comming up the road and convinced my still raging wife we better be moving on quickly as public sex and nudity are still very illegal in the state of Florida, no matter how hot and bothered she still was. While I didn't get to participate much more, we continued our drive south with my wife still naked and masturbating herself for about the next 45 minutes.

God I love Florida!!

— "DukieSato"

[Oct 24, 2002]

 

After buying a new car at the local dealership, we took advantage of a free 4 night cruise they were offering with every new car sale. Our origional skepticism (shuffleboard and crab races) proved to be very uncalled for as we found out what cruises are all about! Great food, lots of sex, sun, sex, drink, sex, etc.

True Story #1 - On our third day of the cruise my wife and I were on deck catching some rays in the middle of the afternoon. I can only lay around for so long and after we had downed our third or fourth rum and coke, I had to get up and walk around, take a pee, and grab another drink for my wife and myself. When I got to the on deck mens room I met a fellow passenger coming out who was red faced and grinning ear to ear." Be careful in there!" was all he said as he exited.

Entering tentatively I found out what he had referred to. There in stall #3, with the door wide open, was a bathing suit clad, appearently well built blonde, squatted down with her back to me, sucking as if her life depended on it on her husband/boyfriends dick!!! They payed absolutley no attention to me as I very slowly walked by them on the way to the urinal. Listening to her slurp and him moan not 10 feet from me gave me an almost instant woodie making it tough to piss. Walking slowly by as I left, they never missed a beat and still never acknowledged anyone was there. The hard part was then to get to the bar and back to where my wife was with a tent pole in my suit.

So I get back to my wife, give her the drink (which she really didn't need any more of) and told her about the last 5 minutes of my life. She was loving the story (I saw that gleam in her eye) made a few cute comments about how the sun, drink, and escapade had her charged up. Nobody was real close to us, so she rubs herself a little while she looks me in the eye and tells me to take her back to our room, "NOW". Cool!!!

As we were gathering up our towels, oil, and drinks, she glanced around real quick, clears her throat to get my attention, and pulls her suit to the side to flash me her pussy which she flicked and shoved her fingertip in real quick. Rubbing her finger on my lips she said "Follow Me" in her best Schwarzenegger voice.

Here it comes: As we were walking past the deck pool there was a relay race going on. (Put on shirt, swim to end, pull shirt off, put on next person, swim to end, so on.) Lots of people watching, yelling, so we went to the next deck up where the area over the pool was open with a railing around it to watch for a minute on the way back to our "Sex Suite".

As we kind of pushed our way in, Lori stepped up onto the 6" ledge that the railing was attached to. I snuggled in behind her hot, oily, body and suddenly found my half hard cock grinding into her ass. Well, a few minutes and a few "accidental" strokes of her tits, ass, and pussy later I was monster hard and trying to hide it in the crack of her ass. Remember, we were elbow to elbow with lots of people. Lori looks at me glassy eyed, grabs the oversized towel that's over her shoulder, throws it over my shoulders, and turns back to watch the pool race. Getting the hint, even in our half drunken state, I wrapped the towel (size of a small blanket) around both of us and made some comment about "Too much sun" The next thing I know she's shifted her stance, and I can tell she's pulling her suit bottom to the side for me!!!

My hand snaked around to her very wet pussy and I began to stroke her lips and clit without being real obvious. She reached behind her back and pumped my cock and was not being very coy about it. I had to grab her hand to stop her because it was obvious what she was doing, so what does she do but pull my dick out from my suit and stick her ass up higher by pretending to get a better look at the pool. In our own little world now with my heart pounding in my ears, people so close to us that our sweaty arms are touching, and hoping but not really caring at this point that the towel has us covered, I slide my dick into my wifes dripping, (DRIPPING!) pussy. I sank my cock in all the way to the bottom and waited for a minute to see if any of our neighbors responded, which they didn't. Knowing that a full blown fuck was not possible, we just kind of wiggled and shifted for a couple of minutes until, unfortunately, I came deep inside her before she really had a chance to work herself up to a cum.

A few minutes later we repackaged ourselves, and made a cautious exit, looking for reactions from our fellow rail standers. Nobody so much as gave us a wink. As we headed to our room for round 2 we laughed and "Oh my God, I can't believe we just did that" the whole way back. There were probably 20 people within a 10 foot radius of us while I played with my wife's pussy and fucked her to a climax. (OK, it was my climax and we really didn't fuck fuck, but the story is 100% true!)

Story #2 later. (Same vacation, driving down St. Rte 27 in S Fla.)

— "DukieSato"

[Aug 30, 2002]

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