Ideas for Outdoor Sex
   or Sex in Public Areas

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Let These Ideas Get You Started

The purpose of the ideas discussed here is simply to give you and your partner ideas about playing sexually with each other in ways that you will enjoy and will find to be different, fun, adventurous, and exciting. Obviously, these are just some ideas to get you started. Please use your own imagination, and cooking things up with your partner is some added fun.

Being creative with your partner about something sexually adventurous is part of the turn-on. Further brainstorming is highly recommended! If you come up with some nice ideas that aren't mentioned here, you and your partner should go for it! If you think they might make a good addition to this page, please feel free to about them.

Just Use What You Think You Might Like

Nothing here is intended to persuade you to do anything you aren't interested in and wouldn't find enjoyable. If you think an idea is too risky, or is a bit too far out, or it just weirds you out, then skip it and forget about it. Use what you and your partner think you may enjoy. Forget the rest.

Only Do What's Safe

Above all, be safe. Nothing said here is intended to give you any ideas about doing anything unsafe. If while using these general ideas you think of a particular place that might be unsafe, then keep right on thinking of someplace else. Sex should be fun and beneficial for you and your partner, not dangerous. (I have thought of some places where I would thoroughly enjoy making love with my partner, but they just seem too unsafe, and I have not put them on this page.)

Au Naturel

The worst that should ever happen to you is that you and your partner might get arrested for indecent exposure — and wouldn't that be interesting and something to tell the grandkids about? Of course, we're not trying to break the law here. Two consenting adults making love to each other is not illegal. There is nothing here telling you to make love in public. What is here are ideas about having sex with your partner in what are normally public areas, but where there are no other people around (that you know of!) while you and your partner enjoy each other.

This is not intended to get you into an "indecent exposure." brush with the law. The intention is simply to give you and your partner some ideas about having some good fun with each other. You of course must judge how "risky" you want to be about the possibility of being seen by others while nude or partially nude, or while having sex. (One time, late at night in our backyard when we thought all of the neighbors were in bed asleep, while completely nude and totally into it with each other, my partner and I realized that we were being watched by some neighbors from a window. Since their observation wasn't an obvious thing, we just pretended that we didn't realize anyone was watching. We were enjoying each other too much to stop!)

The possibility of being discovered, and maybe watched surreptitiously, can add an element of excitement that you don't usually have, and this is part of the fun. But only you and your partner can best judge how risky you feel like being, any particular context, and whether possible consequences exceed the fun excitement factor. (Heck, some couples want to be discovered, say, by anyone who happens to look out of their 9th story hotel window at one o'clock in the morning and happens to look over at the top level of that nearby parking garage. ("Oh, what's that? What is that couple doing? Hmmm... Mmmm... Now, that looks fun!" Of course, if an accidental observer thinks there might be something not so consensual happening, then you might get a visit from the nearest police officer!)

If you accidentally encounter a couple enjoying themselves together au naturel, if they haven't noticed you (or if they have but are ignoring you!), please do them the courtesy of leaving them to their privacy. However, if your unexpected encounter is a rather blatant one, at least leave them feeling not too bad about it by saying something like, "Whoops! Sorry. Hey, no harm done! I would love to do something like this with my partner real soon!" then beat a hasty retreat, emphasis on hasty. Come up with some positive comment of your own. In other words, the Golden Rule applies here: Do them the favor you would want them to do for you.

Variety Is the Spice

Outdoor/public sex (note that this term is not referring to sex in public but is referring to sex in public areas) is often engaged in at night, but be sure to do this in the daytime as well. You just have to be more careful about being seen, since it's so much easier to see, especially for long distances. You still might try someplace on the golf course, but you and your partner probably wouldn't want to climax on the green! Also, though you might feel most comfortable doing things while keeping some degree of clothing on, for added excitement be sure to occasionally do things while completely nude — maybe even leave your clothes in the car and go for a little walk to get to your destination!

For example, you might tend to think about having sex with your partner on the playground equipment (late, late at night), but with some degree of clothing on. Instead, take it all off! Better yet, take it all off at least a hundred feet from the playground and walk slowly over to the playground equipment, arm in arm and skin to skin with hands in the appropriate places. There are all sorts of little games like this that you can come up with. Don't just pick a location and have sex (though that's certainly fun, too). Make a game out of it.

I'm sure you can quickly come up with dozens of desirably interesting locations. If you revisit a location that you like, change the game that you use when you go there. If you had some of your clothes on before, then take them all off this time, or vice versa. If you were at that location at night before, then go to it in the daytime this time. If you didn't use any "toys" before, then use some toys this time. Bring your favorite vibrator. Bring a lube tube. (Imagine what it's like if you oil our parner's body and there's a light rain!) Or food. Bring strawberries. (Yes, quite juicy. I'm talking about the strawberries!) Bring whip cream. Bring cucumbers. Bring some wine (maybe in a water bottle with a convenient stopper) and cheese. Bring binoculars and look at the moon, or the cityscape with each other, if the location is right. If it's daytime, bring a camera (with a delay and/or remote switch), or a video camera (and don't forget the film and the tripod).

The goal here is to do something different, to have fun, and to enjoy a little excitement. There's nothing like going to the beach (which isn't a nude beach) at one o'clock in the morning, finding a discreet parking location, stripping off all of your clothes in the car, and you and your partner going for a long enjoyable walk on the beach in the nude with the breeze against your skin, and with a most enjoyable interlude there in the middle somewhere. Don't forget the big beach towel!

Clearly, the season and the weather will influence your choices, but you and your partner would not by any means be the first couple to go for a walk in the woods in the middle of the winter, with 6 inches of snow on the ground, who strips down to nothing in the brisk, chill air and makes love propped against a tree, or on a sleeping bag on top of the snow. The rareness of the sensations themselves are a part of the differentness and the fun excitement that you and your partner can experience. This would be a distinctly interesting and memorable experience. Or how about complete nudity in 100 degrees in the afternoon sun in the middle of the desert? Don't forget your sunscreen! Is it raining, but it's 80 or 85 degrees out? A little wet never hurt anybody. Did somebody say "She's wet"?

Main Accessories

You'll probably want to make sure you have a good blanket for outdoor activities readily available. While you might not use a blanket if you're enjoying each other in the nude on a swing on the playground, in many or most other situations a blanket is a very useful accessory. If worse comes to worst, you might just need it to cover your naked bodies! Believe me, if you're on a sidewalk, a tennis court, or on the top level (open to the sky) of a parking garage, that blanket is a lot more comfortable than the cement! (For something like the beach or the dunes, one of those large beach blankets will do fine.)

While not absolutely necessary, you'll probably want to have a water bottle with you. All that exercise can make a body thirsty! (And, yes, of course, did somebody say "She's wet"?) If you're going out at night, there are times when you might want to take some kind of flashlight with you (maybe just a miniature one). My partner and I don't use a flashlight all the time, but do what best suits you. Also, my partner and I each have a black sweatsuit, and black sandals, the we sometimes use for nighttime outdoor excursions — unless we plan on stripping in the car! Obviously, if you have a little more in mind for this kind of date with your partner (food, toys, or other things), then you'll be preparing a little more for that particular excursion. But keep the designated blanket in the car. If you always keep a blanket in the car, this makes for good spontaneous outdoor/public sex!

Some Safety Don'ts

Here's a non-safety don't: One time I took my camera, and took some great erotic pictures of my partner, believe me. However, when I got to the end of the roll — or what should have been the end of the roll — the advance lever didn't stop as it should have, and I discovered that I'd forgotten to put film in the camera! All of those really great pictures I had just taken, gone forever! So if you take a camera, don't forget the film.

Tell Me About It

I would love to hear from you. Feel free to a good story about you and your partner's outdoor/public sex for this site. I may add it to give more good, fun ideas to other couples to consider. Obviously, this would be with complete anonymity. However, if you send me something, I do think it would be nice if you would please at least mention the city you where you live. If you live in a small town, and mentioning the name of the town is a little too un-anonymous for you, then by all means just mention something like "20 miles outside of Indianapolis" or "somewhere near Indianapolis." I'm just curious to see the areas where people who might use this outdoor/public sex page live. I've read polls that say something like 20% of couples enjoy sex outdoors on a regular basis. How much of this is just in the backyard, I don't know. (I have to admit that in my own excursions my partner and I have only seen one other couple on an outdoor sex adventure, who on that night happened to have chosen the same park that we did. Since they were about a hundred yards away, we didn't pay too much attention to them, other than we drew a little farther back into the shadows of the trees that were by us. My partner and I were much more interested in each other!)

Some Ideas for Places for Sex Outdoors
    or in Public Areas

First Level

1. Out in the woods somewhere.

2. Up in a tree, on some sturdy branches. (Don't let go of the branch you're hanging onto. No, not even then!)

3. Up on the roof of the house. Some of you can get there easily just going out a second-story window. (Of course, not if there's too much slope.)

4. In a public park (gives a new meaning to the term "parking"), on a tennis court (in this case, love is a good score), or on a golf course (a hole in one is probably a sure thing this time).

5. On the playground equipment of a playground, late at night. There aren't any kids at 2:00 in the morning! Heck, why not in the daytime, if you happen to find that you're in the park by yourselves. (There's one large park that has a nice playground, not too far from where I live. I take the whole family for a picnic. Sometime while we're there and the kids are having fun on the playground, my partner and I have occasionally taken an enjoyable... well, "stroll" by ourselves in the nearby woods. In this case, the kids have their playground, and my partner and I have ours!)

6. On a sports field (baseball, football, soccer, etc.). You get 100 extra points if the automatic sprinklers come on while you're in the act!

7. Field in the country (grass, corn, orchard, etc.).

8. In an outside hot tub. (Wet but warm, even in the winter.)

9. Parking structure (top level).

10. In a freeway median or intersection area. No, fields to the left and the right of the freeway don't count for this (those are in #7, already mentioned)! You may have to get out of the city for this, but there are some very nice, wide medians with small hills or sometimes plenty of trees between the opposite lanes of freeways. Even in the city, some freeways have some landscaped areas between the roads and the merge and exit lanes that provide good opportunities. (Gives a whole new meaning to "merge lane", doesn't it?) Be careful here! Don't use any unsafe area! Do not use any spot that a car might plough through if some sleepy driver lost control and went off the road.

11. On the grounds of an office building or office complex, late at night (watch out for surveillance cameras!). Some office buildings have some great landscaping. Take advantage of it!

A Little Riskier (Chance Of Being "Exposed")

1. On a public sidewalk.

2. On a pedestrian walkway overpass.

3. In your office where you work. (A cubicle? Now, that should be interesting! How about the conference room table!!!)

4. Somewhere in a large hotel in the city, but not in a hotel room!

5. On a hiking trail (yes, on the trail!). If you're on one of those rare trails that go behind a waterfall, so much the better!

Second Level (less accessible)

1. On the beach, or the dunes. You and your partner can make this one quite interesting by going at or after midnight, stripping completely, and walking the beach or dunes in the buff.

2. While canoeing down the river. Don't tip over while rocking the boat!

3. On a plane. Join the mile high club.

4. Rooftop of a public building. Don't do anything unsafe getting there — or being there! Some kinds of rooftops are no go's.

5. On the deck of a ship (for those who are on a cruise).

6. In a cave. Or try the boulder crevasses in the Pinnacles Park in California.

7. Dangling from mountain climbing ropes. No, don't take your harnesses off! Of course, you needn't be wearing anything else except your climbing shoes.

8. Underwater while scuba diving. Don't forget to breathe! Good sex and embolisms don't mix.

9. On the steps of a Mayan temple. Is that great touristing, or what?!

Just Some Unusual, and Some Really Unusual, Ideas

1. In that old used bookstore, way in the back between the shelves where almost no one ever goes.

2. At a lawn concert, somewhere back behind the crowd.

3. Somewhere near a railroad track during the passage of a train. Be safe. No, you don't have to be that close to the tracks to get the effect of the noise and rumble. Take it all off. Even if the view is not obstructed by brush and the engineer(s) happen to notice you when he goes by, day or night, so what? The train isn't about to stop.

4. In the zoo. I have no idea where you'd do this in the daytime. If you do this at night, be prepared to climb the fence. Watch out for security. If you make this a project, you can hang out after closing, but you'll definitely have to hide from security on this. Be prepared for a project like this (some food, water, whatever else). What happens to people who get caught doing this? Do they slap your hand, or what? (Your particular petting zoo will certainly be open for you and your partners exclusive enjoyment!)

5. On the grounds of church buildings. Plenty of churches have some great landscapes for your nighttime enjoyment. (This is not for anyone who considers church property to be sacred. We're not trying to inspire any guilt, here.)

6. Cemetery (day or night). If this one strikes your fancy, you could even make a list. As you can imagine, cemeteries tend to be rather quiet and peaceful. You don't necessarily have to be right in the cemetery, because many of them have some really nice places around their peripheries that you could use. You can try, but I doubt that you'll wake the dead!

Some Ideas for Sex Games
    Related to Outdoor/Public Sex

Random Location Game

Make a numbered list of specific locations (get ideas from above) for you and your partner to exploit each other. Now, how to get random? You could write them on pieces of paper and draw one out of your partner's underwear — while he or she is in them! That would be nice!

Here's a quick way to do it (describing this thoroughly makes it sound complicated, but it really isn't): Let's say you've written down 12 places. Pick one of you to be the "starter." You think of a number, and your partner thinks of a number, between 1 and 12 (12 being the number of places on your list). Now you both state your numbers aloud to each other at the same time. Starting with the starter's number you count forward (you must count forward, never backward, or the probability of getting any particular number will not be the same) to get the difference. For example, if you are the starter, you thought of 2 and your partner thought of 10, then counting forward the difference is 8. Thus, 8 is your randomly selected number. What if you thought of 7 and your partner came up with 4, which is less than 7? Doesn't matter, you still must count forward from 7 (the starter), and when you get to 12 you just "roll around" to 1, instead of 13, as the next number in your count. In this case, counting forward the difference would be 9, so 9 is your randomly selected number. If you each come up with the same number, then the difference, counting forward from the starter number, will simply be the highest number on your list (not zero).

You will, of course, use the random number that you arrive at to determine the list number of the location. Now go to that spot and have a good time!

Proximity Game

Come up with a "magic word" or "magic phrase." When driving down the road, if either partner "pulls the trigger" by saying this word or phrase, then you and your partner must find a spot somewhere, anywhere, within 1/2 mile of where you're at, get out of your vehicle, strip it all off, and play with each other to your hearts' content!

Midnight Rendezvous Game

Pick two or three months out of the best time of the year for you, climate-wise. Designate one night of the week as your Midnight Rendezvous night. As the name suggests, each outing is to take place late at night. You and your partner alternate on who picks the location each time. The first time you select a place, the second time your partner selects a place, and you keep alternating. Whoever selects the location does not tell his or her partner what the location is, so the location remains a surprise for the other partner.

In addition, the partner who selects the place is also responsible for "packing for the trip" by getting everything he or she wants for that particular midnight rendezvous, such as the standard blanket, the strawberries, the wine, the vibrators, the ropes(!), and whatever. (Of course, the partner whose turn it is can also choose to take absolutely nothing at all for a particular rendezvous.) This partner also sets the "rules of engagement" about what you do when you get there and how you do it (mostly clothed or stripped completely, hike from the car to the chosen place in the nude, etc.). (Some additional fun: Blindfold the partner who doesn't know where you're going! Even more fun: The blindfold is never to be removed for the entire outing!)

Send Your Stories or Further Suggestions to Me

Just call me . Please with your suggestions or stories. Please note that I will consider anything you write to me regarding the subject of this web page to be a potential addition to the web site, unless you explicitly state otherwise. Of course anything published on the web site will be completely anonymous, and I certainly don't expect any names from you, though I would like to know what area of the country (or world) you live in, so please let me know the city (or nearby city) and state (or city and non-USA country) you live in. To better narrate your story, it might be easier for you to use first names (which don't have to be your real names) in the story.

(For those of you who are little daring and exhibitionistic - like me - I also invite you to send some pictures of yourselves enjoying sex outdoors with each other, and I'll add them to the website. If you need me to edit your pictures I can do that for you, since I'm skilled with my picture editing program and I can blur out your faces nicely. If you happen to be single right now, but you're still enjoying yourself with some masturbation outdoors, feel free to send some fun pictures of this as well. Please give me some narration/description for your picture(s). Make them as explicit as you want to - maybe some of the pictures you see here on this page will give you some ideas!)

I hope you enjoy the ideas you see and read about here, and I hope you and your partner have a lot of fun!

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