By Lara Kirby
There are many different things in life that I will probably never fully understand. One of these is how people can blatantly lead other people on and be so oblivious of what they are doing. It is something that most people do not enjoy. Is it just because the opposite sex is so bad at figuring out emotions? How difficult can it be?! If you do not want to commit to anything, then DON'T TOUCH! Don't touch, don't say flattering things that could be taken the wrong way... how about, let's make it simple, just don't make any advances. That should cover all the bases. I don't know about the males, but when the females have someone making advances on them, they assume that they are of interest to this person and that maybe this person wants to get together with them. And then the feelings get involved... and it becomes one giant mess of garbage! The girl asks the guy what's going on, the guy says, "I don't want a relationship right now." The girl gets pissed off and storms away with her feelings hurt. Not saying that it's only guys who do it... I am sure girls do it too. But, out of my experiences, I don't deal with female advances... it could be because I am one and am not attracted to the same gender...
So, this goes out to everyone, PLEASE DON'T LEAD PEOPLE ON! It makes for a big emotional mess for someone in the end.