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| Music of the month: Madonna: League of their own This used to be my playground Chorus:This used to be my playground (used to be) This used to be my childhood dream This used to be the place I ran to whenever I was in need of a friend Why did it have to end and why do they always say Don't look back Keep your head held high Don't ask them why because life is short and before you You're feeling old And before you know And your heart is breaking Don't hold on to the past Well that's too much to ask Chorus No regrets But I wish that you were here with me Well then there's hope yet I can see your face in our secret place You're not just a memory Say goodbye to yesterday (the dream) Those are words I'll never say (I'll never say) This used to be my playground (used to be) This used to be our pride and joy This used to be the place I ran to That no one in the world could dare destroy This used to be my playground (used to be) This used to be our childhood dream This used to be the place we ran to I wish you were standing here with me This used to be my playground (used to be) This used to be our childhood dream This used to be the place we ran to The best things in life are always free Wishing you were here with me |
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| Hear only what you want to hear Hear only what you want to hear. What does it mean? Either you want to hear the good or the bad. sometimes the truth may bring you tears, and you dislike people to hint, and when people nag you say we brag. We love to hear good things about ourself. When paople critiques or advise, we planted hatred and we feel so low. Answer this question: Do you understand yourself? Why do you want people to understand you and severe ties? People gave you an honest answer and resulted you into big blow. What do you understand by; I understand you. It just a sentence you want to hear. But what does it actually carry? When we are sad, does it really help when people say I understand how you feel. No it don't. You are the one experiencing the ordeal. sometimes you feel so sad and just wanted to be left alone. Worst come to worst, you may just want to give up hope. People may say they understand you, but how does it help you. You moan, you feel frustrated and life goes on. You may hate when people give you advised. But hey, it does not make them achieved any rewards. It gave you something to think about. You live your own life. When you achieve something, or when you fail. It does not affect others as much as it affected you. We are there to share your happiness. But actually you the one who have the glory. And when fail, its up to you to stand right back up. No matter how badly you feel, don't expect others to know. What you gone through each day are beyond, even though support are there. Humans are the worst creatures on earth. Believe it or not we always try to save ourselves first. It's true and good to maintain trust in people. But know this, even a teacher doesn't always impart all their knowledge, in case the students will outsmart them and cause them trouble. Remember to think wisely and believe in yourself. If you don't buck up and improve yourself, even sentence like I understand you won't mean a thing. Even if you make yourself miserable and suffer, it still doesn't help in anything. Don't expect people to say: I understand you. Sometimes you need time to think and its only fair. But its not the time for you to drain yourself into self- pity. Sometimes, advises that you don't want to hear are good to start you gear. It will let you straightened up your thoughts. You don't need the word; I understand how you feel. You need something to drive you back up and move on with your life. Don't ever say you have no choice. Choices are there for you to make. You may hear about people' experiences about things. But that mustn't let you be discourage. Make it lessons to be learnt and how you can improve on it. It's just part and parcels of life that they gone through. If they dislike it doesn't mean you have to dislike it too. You have your own interest and you can think for yourself. Remember you have your own thought, if you think its good then carry on. And if you think that it is wrong, share your thoughts. But don't force people to stick to it, it just give them some choices to think about it. Sometimes, if it not right it doesn't mean it's not right for the other person. In this world we are all there to make a world for ourselves. People live and some people die. We always feel the lost when others have taken it. We take things for granted. We have no time to ponder on bad experiences. Just like a good friend would say, we can't change things that happen. But we can make experiences out of it. There's no point to quarrel with others and make make them feel bad. Life is precious. Let them have their say. They aren't going to make any parts of our life. They are there for the same reason as you. They also live and they will also die one day. It just matters of time. The most valuable memories are that these people that you hated most are the people that you want to thank. They never say things that you want to hear. They will tell you things that you need to know. It's the most important thing in this world. So remember not to say this sentence: You don't understand me. For a change asks yourself: Do I understand myself? If not buck up and get a life. You make your own memories, if it turns out bad. You only got yourself to blame. No matter how bad life is. You can change it. Remember that you can change thing. Observe more and talk less. People intend to talk more and no action. Well sometimes it can't help. Especially for those who have keep mum for quite sometime. It doesn't require you to understand. it just meant for them to have his or her say. It may hurt but it may get things going. Don't think that people don't care about you. People wake up and see what you've been missing. In this world people make a living and got their own live to take care of. You have problems its only fair for you to fix it. People are there to help but not to make things better for you. The best accomplishment for yourself is to stand up again where you fall. People may say things which is meant not to hurt another person. They are just being polite. You know what is good for you and you don't need others opinion. When you have come to a point of asking others then that would strike you that you are not making the right choices. You know what is best for you. Sometimes when there are some delays in things. It mean that you are given a second chance to make things right. But sometimes we only think when its over. No time for regret but to prepare yourself for the future. Remember things happen for a reason. And how you are going to look at these experiences matter the most. My life has been difficult and I could just wish I had the ability to just vanish from this earth. But hey! I'm not going to make these people pull me down. I'm going to prove to myself that I can make it through. My only mistake is that I have drown myself into self pity. I have also nag and curse those who make me feel down and its only fair. What I'm thankful most is that I have friends who don't always say things that I want to hear but things that I need to know. It hurt and makes me depressed but thank God that I have given brain to think. Why make this people upset you when actually they are there to challenge us and improve ourselves even more better. Sometimes it's good for people to disagree with you at times. It makes you see a wider range of choices and make you see a bigger picture. Rather than to stick to one and there's no way back. On this earth I have learnt many things. Every each one of us have given brain to think. My job is to say what I have to say. You know what is right and what is wrong. No matter what choices you take family are always behind you no matter you like it or not. Sometimes, to hear advise from family point of view is better than friends. Remember friends are always there and you choose them but they aren't always there when you need them. You meet new friends along the way. Remember friends are there to say what you want to hear. I never say that don't have but it is rare to hear friends say what you what you need to know. But they are there to make your life pass by with beautiful memories. When you fall, don't worry; I will not say I told you so. I believe that people if they learnt from mistakes are much better. The message is clearer. It just let you think and learnt from it and never to make the same mistake. It just let you think and learnt from it and never to make the same mistake again. Sometimes, I rather wish that I'm wrong but hey, it's a fact. You must give your advice, if not you will regret for the rest of your life. Sometimes, I have totally rejected to think about tomorrow. I only think that today is important. If its not then you look forward for a better tomorrow. That's why I hate to plan. Written by: Kammy 18.10.2003 5pm-7.30pm |
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