Right, I would like to get one thing straight here. If you have had a sexually intimate relationship with members of both sexes, maybe both at the same time, if you have 'no problem' 'getting it on' with a member of the same sex, or would consider having oral sex with a member of the same sex...maybe even ' played around a bit with a guy/girl in uni' then i say good on ya! You're an open minded, uninhibited sexy person..however you are not necessarily Bi-sexual. Being Bi-Sexual is having the ability to Love, Touch, Appreciate and Care for ANYONE regardless of gender. I think everyone, at one time or another in their lives has 'feelings' for a member of the same sex....but it's those of us who feel that way all our lives, most times from an early age that can truly be said to be Bi-sexual.
We can as easily fall in love with, have sexual feelings for and spend the rest of our lives with a female as we could a male. As a wise person once said 'its the person you fall in love with, not the gender.
If this sounds like you....good news! your probably Bi!!!
The Bad news is, being Bi-sexual can really hurt. You are unlikely to be fully accepted in either the gay or hetero scene. Youngsters are not taught about Bi-sexuality in schools, in teen mags, on the television and very rarely in the home. There are no Bi role models for you to look up to, ask for help from, or to explain what it is you're feeling. However Bi-sexuals are all around you, but because theres no real 'Bi-scene' they're hard to find. Being Bi-sexual is very different to being homosexual so you may find it hard to get the kinda support you need as a Bi-sexual from the gay communities
