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"The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and
look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them,
make them." - George Bernard Shaw
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A FOILED ASSASSINATION ATTEMPT SAVED SEVEN LIVES
by Dafna Yee
When someone manages to get away from a hideous situation, the story
is one-of-a-kind, no matter how many of the details are similar.
Nevertheless, sometimes even the details have bizarre twists that
make them stand out from the rest. My paternal grandmother managed to
escape from the hell on earth that had been created by Hitler and his
Nazis in a totally unforgettable and unique way.
This tale actually began long before anyone had even heard of Hitler;
even before the advent of WWI. In that period of time, it was an
admirable profession to be an army officer, and ambitious Jewish
girls from good families could work for German aristocrats before
they got married and settled down to raise families of their own.
I'm sure that there is no obvious connection between an army
officer and a Jewish girl of 18 in the city of Baden, Germany in the
summer of 1913. It's even less obvious how that situation could
determine, not only my grandmother's fate, but also her
husband's and children's (and therefore mine) more than 20
years later.
My Grandmother Theresa's job as a governess to two very well
brought up little boys was apparently not very strenuous. At any
event, she was free to walk in the beautifully sculptured formal
gardens every evening that the weather permitted. Very tall and thick
hedges bordered these gardens, and there were benches placed at
periodic intervals, surrounded by ordered beds of fragrant
and vary-colored flowers.
My grandmother told me that on one typical evening, just as it was
getting dark and the trees' shadows started casting strange
shapes, she overheard two men talking. They were speaking about a
well-known army officer. She was curious naturally and quite
intrigued, so she listened more closely, but when she started hearing
details about plans to assassinate the man, she was terrified.
As soon as she felt it was safe, she went to the police station to
make a report. Grandmother Theresa did remember being puzzled that,
although the police officers were polite to her, they didn't
appear to take her or her story very seriously. In fact, when she
returned later in the week, she was told that it had been a hoax, and
not to worry about it anymore. So she didn't. She even
occasionally joked about her gullibility.
Years passed, and the incident was forgotten. Grandmother Theresa
married a man from Warsaw. Since my grandmother's family was very
snobbish, very German, and very patriotic, her marriage to a Polish
Jew was very much against family wishes.
Luckily, he had money of his own, but her family's attitude
toward him was such that they did not settle down near her extended
family, who had lived on both sides of the Holland/German border
since the Spanish Inquisition. Instead, they moved to the beautiful
city of Cologne, where they settled down to run their textile
factories and have four children.
Here we jump ahead to the summer of 1938 in the desperate months
preceding the deportation of Polish Jews living in Germany. My
grandmother managed to gather together 10,000 DM (deutschmarks) to
bribe the German guards at Dachau to overlook my grandfather's
disappearance from the camp and to do the paper shuffling that would
cover up his escape.
My grandfather and thousands of others had originally immigrated to
Germany to escape the blatant anti-Semitism that was so prevalent in
Poland. By marrying a Polish Jew, my grandmother was forced to
realize that her long German heritage gave her no immunity from the
events occurring around her. Ironically, it was my grandfather's
threatened deportation that motivated her to make plans to leave
Germany. No one else in her family believed the truth in time. They
all perished, every one of them.
Through family connections (the Chief Rabbi of Cologne was
a distant cousin of my grandmother's), she managed to get visas
to Palestine. But she still had to get permission from the German
government to leave (there was some extra difficulty because the
factories that they had owned, even though they were confiscated, had
held army contracts).
So in the way of all bureaucracies, my grandmother had to go to
multiple offices and get many people to stamp loads of documents. And
she had to go to each place knowing that any one person in any
office, for any or no reason whatsoever, could stop her from leaving
Germany.
The summer heat grew more oppressive as Grandmother Theresa went from
office to office, standing in one line after another. In addition to
all her other worries, she was tending three young children
(including my very rambunctious father) and was five months
pregnant.
Several times she felt as if she would simply not be able
to make it for another minute. All around her, other mothers and
their children were adding to the noise and confusion and the air
seemed to grow hotter and more difficult to breathe with every
passing minute.
Finally, she reached the last office. She only had one more person to
see, but she needed this person to give the most important stamp of
all, the one dealing with their former government contracts for the
army.
When the factories were confiscated, many records were lost,
and there was simply no way to prove that all their contractual
obligations had been fulfilled. Certification of that fact had to be
made by a high-ranking army officer. All day she had been dreading
this moment, trying to think of some way to explain their lack of
necessary documentation and to prove their honesty.
When she was at last called into the office, a man in a starched and
pressed uniform heavy with medals rose up from his chair and walked
around his desk to stand in front of her.
Even if she had been tall enough to look directly at him (she was
only 4'10"), she would never have dared to do so. The officer
held the sheaf of documents in his hand and asked her if her maiden
name had been Arendt (her married name was "Meller"), to
which she worriedly answered,"Yes" (because this question was
out of the ordinary, and anything unusual was something to be
feared).
And, amazingly, he held out his hand and smilingly said, "I'm
glad to be able to thank you at last. I'd be proud to shake your
hand."
She took his hand in a daze, and he asked her if she remembered him.
When she replied that she didn't, he simply said, "I'm
the man whose life you saved 25 years ago in Baden."
My grandmother was totally speechless, and apparently he really
didn't expect her to say anything, because he just smiled again
and handed her the stamped and validated papers.
She left the office and went home to finish packing. The family left
Germany nine days later.
The assassination that never took place saved seven lives.
Dafna Yee
DafnaYee @ aol.net
Copyright © 2001 by Dafna Yee. All rights reserved.
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About the author: As a writer and teacher working out of my home in
Plano, TX, I often write about Jewish and Israeli issues, humorous
anecdotes, women's issues, animals, and stories about the unusual
people and events that I've come across in my life. I've been working
with people in various difficult situations for nearly 30 years, both
professionally and as a volunteer. I offer advice on subjects that
include, but are not limited to, domestic violence, sexual
relationships and problems, eating disorders, discrimination, and
ways of coping with chronic illnesses. I live with two wonderful
teenage daughters, Roma and Kathy, one great husband, Tom, one
playful dog, Loki, and one big and furry cat, Shadow. The cat's the
boss... :-) My favorite activity is talking with people.
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Find out how Roger Dean Kiser, Sr., is using his life to spell
success for orphans coast to coast! He's started the Sad Orphan
Foundation in hopes that other orphans may experience kindness. As
Roger said, it was acts of kindness, however small, that saved him.
For more information, please visit Roger's web site at
http://www.geocities.com/thesadorphanfoundation.
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FROM OUR FRIENDLY E-MAIL CARRIER
In regards to "Little Kindnesses" by Beth Shaw
(http://geocities.com/jenniferioliver2001/110502.htm)
Such a sweet story shared by Beth Shaw today! Imagine the
domino affect it would have in all of our lives if we passed on
all those acts of kindness. AND, with children, be sure to write
them immediately in those babybooks...we have a way of forgetting
when they no longer live at home and the years creep up. Thanks
for sharing those moments, Beth! Blessings, Diane Dean
White
Dear Beth, That was a lovely story. It's wonderful to think back on
the many acts of kindness in our lives. And remember, "what goes
around comes around". It's lovely to be able to pass it on.
Thanks
for reminding me. - Pat Lowe
Jennifer, I was afraid you'd catch that virus. I well remember having
to try to care for a tribe while battling misery. It seems your dear
ones did the best they could to help Mommy while she was so sick. It
seems there were many more people besides me who were praying for
T.J. God bless your boys for caring enough to make cards for him to
help him feel better after he got home from the hospital. It's so
good to hear he has recovered nicely. And God bless you too for
teaching your children to share their love. Hugs, Pat
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ON THE HOMEFRONT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my Dad! I was thinking of you on Veterans' Day,
the tours you've spent in Vietnam, how you were always my war hero.
I appreciate all you've done in the Army to guarantee freedom for
your family and everyone else in this great country of ours. Wish we
could be there to help you celebrate your big day...may all your
birthday wishes come true!
Yesterday four-year-old Matthew fawned in front of the mirror with
his Halloween mask on. He growled at his werewolf reflection,
clawing the air, practicing scary poses.
His father snuck up behind him and -- "BOO!"
"AAAGGGHH!"
I guess some boys just never grow up.
And speaking of which, many folks have inquired about the "heel-ing"
progress. Stephen's doctor has predicted he will need a special shoe
with a brace on his left leg for the rest of his life. For now, he
still wears a boot to enable him to be mobile, but at the end of the
day, once that boot is off, he still has to crawl on his hands and
knees.
However, the doctor is astounded at the amount of progress Stephen
has made in such a short time. It's been eight months since his 20-
foot fall when the scaffolding collapsed, but we're taking it one day
at a time.
We sure do appreciate your concern and prayers.
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LOVE,
JENNIFER I. OLIVER AND FAMILY
four_ears @ msn.com
"To live that in thy last long sleep, Smiles my be thine wile all
around thee weep." - Nellie L. Wallace, June 24, 1873
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