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BACKSCRATCHER


When my wife and I separated and eventually divorced, she took a good
deal of our assets with her. Sure, I bemoaned the loss of the
television, VCR, microwave, an assortment of CDs. But the biggest
loss to me was her nails.

Yes, you heard right. Her fingernails.

They were not salon-styled nails. Just pink, unpolished nails that
she shaped into ovals with one of those ordinary, brown emory boards.
She filed them short enough for bouncing on the keyboard at work. And
kept them long enough for me.

The first time my wife ran her nails up and down my arms I swore I
heard angels sing. Or maybe it was a barbershop quartet. Whatever it
was, heaven had swallowed me whole, I was sure of it. She did this
thing where she used this circular motion with her fingertips to
bring goosebumps to the surface, and then she'd scratch them away.
She administered this exquisite torture to all parts of my body.

Lordy, Lordy, I'd say with my legs spasming from delight. Now I knew
what a dog felt like when its tummy was scratched.

Now me, I trim my nails with my teeth. Yep, I'm a bonafide nail-
biter. My inborn curse from watching my mother do the same to her
nails like they were a midday snack. So when I tried to return the
favor to my wife by scratching her back, she yelled like I'd poured
acid on her.

"This is what it feels like when you try to scratch my back," she
said. She took her knuckles and rubbed me raw. I think she was
exaggerating.

Still, I felt bad.

"You've got stubby nubs, not fingernails," she said.

Stubby nubs. Ouch.

So when I went to a flea market one Sunday afternoon, I shelled out a
couple of bucks for a plastic backscratcher. My wife was a happy
camper with my little investment after that. You better believe that
was one thing she did not inherit in the divorce-generated windfall.

I tell my kids, find someone with nails. Right up there on the
checklist of prerequisites for the ideal mate - following stable mind
and zest for life - one must have nails. Long enough for those lazy
afternoon sessions.

"Daddy, please scratch my back." Christopher was the only kid in our
family who constantly asked to have his back scratched. I always
complied with my green plastic backscratcher. It's one of those few
intimate moments I can share with my son as we talk about his school,
friends, and other things important to his world.

"I like the way Mom scratches my back," Christopher said, not meaning
to hurt my feelings.

"Yeah, I can see why, son."

I used the backscratcher myself many times. It was okay. But nothing
in this world compares to the love someone puts into scratching your
back. Nothing at all.


Mark Davis
ruidosodavis @ hotmail.com
Copyright © 2002 by Mark Davis. All rights reserved.
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About the author:  Hailing from Ruidoso, New Mexico, Mark Davis is a
single father of three awesome kids who challenge the depths of his
love daily.
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KIDS NEED LETTERS

     Within the next two weeks I will be visiting The Baptist
Children's Home (Orphanage) in Baxley, Georgia.  They have about
fifty children in their care.  I am trying to start a program
called "e-Doptions".  It will allow the children to receive snail-
mail letters from those living outside the orphanage.  People will
write to a specific child, giving them words of encouragement on a
monthly basis.
     This would mean so much to these kids.  It is hoped that this
will give these children a feeling of being part of something other
than just being part of an orphanage.
     To help please email your name and address, or visit The Sad
Orphan Foundation web page at:
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     Thank you.

      -- Roger Dean Kiser, Sr.
          trampolineone @ webtv.net

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FROM OUR FRIENDLY E-MAIL CARRIER

In regards to "Boating in Fish Lines" by Diane Dean White
(http://geocities.com/jenniferioliver2001/061802.htm)

loved this story. i felt as if i was right in that boat with you. it
was humorous and  heartwarming.  i could just picture the guys that
were fishin and grumpin!!!!i could also feel exactly how you felt in
the boat, embarrassed, confused and wanting to be any place but there.
thanks for sharing, brought back some childhood memories and emotions.
made my heart smile.  palma fasulo

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ON THE HOMEFRONT

I would imagine everyone is like us, still recuperating after
celebrating Independence Day!

My in-laws celebrated their 53rd anniversary on the same day.  Happy
Anniversary!

The day before Stephen and I celebrated the 15th anniversary of our
first date.  Thanks to his match-making sister, Karen, it was love at
first sight over pizza!

Yesterday our six-year-old, Ethan, lost his second tooth and was
compensated nicely by the Tooth Fairy.

And life goes on as we continue to count our blessings...

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LOVE,
JENNIFER I. OLIVER AND FAMILY
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around thee weep." - Nellie L. Wallace, June 24, 1873
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