Friday December 12, 2003:
Holy cow stop the presses...it's two days in a row. Hahahaha!!!!! Okay let's get real...I need to blow off some stream. My BF's ex called here today. Before I go any further let me start from the beginning. My BF dated this DC (desperate cunt) for yrs, don't ask me why, he still can't answer that question. Anyway, when I met him he had already left her 3 yrs prior and living on his own. He still stayed in touch with her, more like she never lost her grip on getting him to do things for her and give her $$$ and shit like that. Well I came into the picture and life changed drastically for her. No more money, nor more favors, rides... in other words no more using and abusing my BF.
Well she didn't take kindly to that. And man did she raise hell. She'd call at all hours at his place, wake us up at 4am!!!! Boy did I curse her out. She'd leave 20 messages at least a day on his machine. Chase us down at his mother's, come by our place (I moved in next door to my BF, before he was my BF, it's how we met). She made him feel bad about being with me, lied to him telling him she say me with other men riding around town. And just in general tried to get us to fight each other all the time. Well as you see over 2 yrs later it didn't work.
Well last summer we had an incident where she called my apart. after he moved in (dumbie called her from my house and she has caller ID) to give her back stuff she had left storing in his mother's house that had just been sold. Well she thought she could call here. And she did, I decided one morning that I wasn't going to work and sure as anything she called. He answered the phone and I heard him saying your fucking crazy and hung up. I knew it was her, she called back. This time I answered the phone, cursed her out and told her never to call my house again. Well she did, I told her thank you for giving me the opportunity to report her to the police (which isn't the first time....earlier that summer we called the cops and an ambulance for me because of her). Wouldn't you know it but the DC called a fourth time in a row, and left a message pleading to speak with my BF. Well I went to the police and made a complaint, they called her to give her a one time warning that if she ever called again she would be arrested. Would you believe she went to his mother's house the next day looking to speak to him. Well he wasn't there, I happened to go by, she saw me and tried to flag me down, I took off. I had to, if I had stayed we would have gotten into a fight and I would have went to jail for beating the sh*t out of her (don't mean to boast but I can kick a**).
Well after that she went away. Well not really she still called and hung up. Mostly on his cell phone. She would leave messages too for him on his cell, which I would delete. Oh and I also answered his cell, he never used it so it stayed upstairs and since we were using it for business purposes I had to answer for clients. And before that she tried again Christmas last year and Valentine's Day this yr, now you know why I refer to her as a DC.
So now back to the present. We saw her at a diner 2 weeks ago. She didn't see me, I was across the street in my car waiting for my BF to turn his bike around. Well we took off before she could jump out, she was pissed because he didn't wait for her, so she had her friend call our house (her friend doesn't have our #, not to mention my BF never talked to her before). So I knew the calls would begin, but never did I believe she would have the balls to just outright call this house again. Well two days ago she called, her name came up on my caller ID, I decided to place the game, I answered nicely and she hung up. My BF and I laughed about it, and I was good, I could have called back and cursed her out but I didn't. So now today, two days later she tried again. I see her name and I went off (very politely though, like a classy lady) I told her "she was told never to call here again, she was told before by the police, and if she continued to call I will report her again to the police and let them arrest her this time." I hung up hearing her sounds of protests on the other end.
She probably doesn't know I'm unemployed, so she calls here on her lunch hour. She might think I'm still on my 1-2 pm lunch shift. It's pathetic how she has people keeping tabs on us here. My BF doesn't want me having her arrested, but I will. I think it's the only way to show her she's gotta stop. And if he tries to step up and help her, I will throw him out.
Okay well thats my story.....I could use some advice to how to keep my cool and not hit her, of how to finally get rid of her, other than murder (I am not going to jail for that loser). I'd appreciate any advice :). Ciao for now.
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