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HOW TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN OTHERS Know the difference: Not everyone�s emotional needs are met in the same way; therefore it�s important to learn to speak others� love language. The five love languages are: words of affirmation, spending quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and a caring touch. Share your thought: If an encouraging thought comes to mind, share it promptly! It may not have the same effect if you wait. Who knows your simple thought might become an energy booster for another. Stand by others: When someone has failed and is discouraged, broken or hurting, offer specific practical help and assure him/her with a caring touch or with a hug and say, "I will stand by you." Write a note: Write to assure others that you accept them, love them and pray for them. Express how much they mean to you. Make celebration a more regular part of your relationships. Celebrate others� victories, large and small with a note. A caring touch: We could learn something from the way sportsmen freely pat, touch and boost each other while they play. Whether they are losing or winning they are there for each other. Touch is a powerful encouragement. A touch, a hand-shake and a hug can express more than words. Add words of praise and appreciation: When you introduce someone, add a few words of praise: about the person�s abilities, accomplishments and how he/she has helped you. It�s encouraging to be praised in front of others. Let them know, you are delighted to be in their company. Turn to �The Spring�: Spend time in the company of the Creator, and make it constant. It is impossible to live with one�s own strength, it�s also impossible to freely, unselfishly pour out encouragement without the help of the Almighty.
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