Co-Sleeping & Sleeping Habits

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Precautions
Sleeping Schedule
Sleeping Habits
Appropriate Bedtime

For many years, pediatricians adamantly discouraged co-sleeping, warning that co-sleeping can be hazardous to an infant.� Parents all over the world have been co-sleeping for thousands of years, and many families are choosing to return to this traditional "family bed" as a way to nurture their babies and themselves, encourage breastfeeding, and strengthen emotional bonds.

Co-sleeping is a part of attachment parenting, a relatively new movement led by pediatrician and author Dr. William Sears.
The Benefits being:
It is good for keeping babies happy and secure; good for breastfeeding; good for strengthening family emotional bonds; good for raising secure, self-confident, independent children and good for the entire family.

The Hazards being:
Suffocation associated with co-sleeping. Suffocation due to infants being trapped or wedged between the mattress and another object. Suffocation due to airway constriction when a baby is face down on a waterbed. Strangulation in rails or openings on beds that allow a baby's body to pass through while entrapping the head.

An average of 64 babies die every year in accidents linked to adult beds, 50 babies die every year in accidents linked to cribs.

Precautions
If you have choosen to sleep with your baby, please take these precautions:
--Pillows, blankets, and soft mattresses can suffocate a child. If you plan to sleep with your baby, sleep on a firm mattress and minimize the use of pillows and blankets.
--Consider the use of approved bed rails to keep the baby from falling off the bed.
--Make sure that the baby has his/her arms and legs free so he/she can wriggle around and alert you if necessary.
--Obese parents need to be very cautious (or, better yet, use a "side car" bassinet which attaches to the adult bed but allows the baby to sleep in his/her own space).
--Put the baby to sleep on his/her back, or on his/her side.

Your childs sleeping habits are one thing to consider, but how much sleep does YOUR baby really need?� Here is a chart to help you keep control.
Age Nighttime
sleep
Daytime
sleep
Total
sleep
1 month 8 1/2 7(3) 15 1/2
3 months 10 5(3) 15
6 months 11 3 1/4(2) 14 1/4
9 months 11 3(2) 14
12 months 11 1/4 2 1/2 (2) 13 3/4
18 months 11 1/4 2 1/4(1) 13 1/2
2 years 11 2(1) 13
3 years 10 1/2 1 1/2 (1) 12
parentheses = number of naps


Sleeping Habits
If a child has poor sleep habits or refuses to go to bed before 11 at night, her/his parents will think that he/she just doesn't need a lot of sleep. That's probably not true � in fact, it's likely that such a child is actually sleep-deprived. To see whether your child falls into that camp, ask yourself these questions:

Does your child fall asleep almost every time he/she's in a car?
Do you have to wake your child almost every morning? Does your child seem cranky, irritable, or overtired during the day?
On some nights, does your child seem to crash much earlier than his usual bedtime?


If you answered "yes" to any of these, your child may be getting less sleep than he needs. To change this pattern, you'll need to help him develop good sleep habits and set an appropriate bedtime.

An appropriate bedtime depends entirely on age.

Newborn to Three Months
Three to Six Months
Six to Nine Months
Nine to Twelve Months
Twelve to Eighteen Months

Now, because I MADE this page, i'm putting my OWN opinion down here. Personally I think co-sleeping is a bad idea, if you can't afford a crib or bassinet, then let him/her sleep in a dresser drawer at first, but there is no reason not to be able to at least get a playpen, it can be used as a bed. Co-sleeping is dangerous for young children, and is emotionally unhealthy for older children.

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