ts girls are not "customizable women".
I know that there are a lot of guys out there who think that, if they get involved in a relationship with a ts girl,
can get her to become exactly what they want her to be. Personally, I feel that when you decide to become
involved with someone, you should be interested in who they are rather then who you could make them into.
I got into this discussion with my girlfriend over the telephone, and I believe that she and I share this point of view.
As far as I'm concerned, what someone decides to do with their body is their decision, not someone else's.
I've had to re-educate a few of my friends on this one as well. Getting them to realize that one person should
not be attempting to control another person's life in this manner took a little effort (with a couple of them,
anyway) because they were also convinced that ts girls are not really women to begin with (more re-education
there...), but once I got a few simple facts throught to them it went easier. I will endeavor to do the same here
with you, the reader of this article, hopefully I will succeed.
As I said above, I have discussed this topic briefly with my girlfriend (Katrina), as she has a friend who seems
to think this way. She and I seem to agree on the fact that nobody should be able to control what someone else
does with their body, or their life. I know that I have already said this, but I believe that it cannot be said too much,
as it is the point of this article.
Honestly, if you think that you should be allowed to make a person be what you want them to be, then you are
thinking of that person in the same way you would think of a room that needs to be painted, and they really don't
mean any more to you then that room does. If this is the way you feel about someone, then you shouldn't be
getting involved with them in any serious way, as you are motivated in the wrong way. All I can do is express my
point of view here, though, and there certainly are others out there. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion,
no matter how wrong it may be.
Just remember this: there is someone in history that tried to control how everyone lived and looked, and that
didn't go very well at all - That person was Adolf Hitler.
I think that last little fact should help to make my point quite nicely.
Again I say it: ts girls are NOT "designer women" or something to be customized.
They are women, who deserve to be loved for who they are, the same as everyone else does.
Keep that in mind, and you will do just fine. Otherwise, forget it - nobody wants to give someone
else complete control over them.
That will do for now.
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