Common misconceptions
First, let me begin by defining a few terms for you
"pre-op" refers to a transexual woman who has yet to have SRS.
"post-op" refers to a transexual woman who has had SRS.
"non-op" refers to a transexual woman who will not have SRS.
"SRS" is an acronym for Sexual Reassignment Surgery, the sex change operation.
"transexual" an individual born with the wrong physical gender, and is endeavoring to change that.
"GG or genetic girl" I'll give you three guesses on this one...
Misconception #1
A man who is attracted to a ts girl must be either gay or bi-sexual, right?
WRONG.
If you step back and take a look at the various reasons that a man might find himself attracted to a ts girl, then you
will realize that there is nothing about any of these [good] reasons that would make him either gay or bi-sexual in any way.
There are a great many reasons that any man might find himself attracted to a ts girl; her femininity, her laugh, her smile,
her mannerisms, etc. None of these reasons would be appealing to a gay man, so I have been told.
As they say on the TV show "myth busters", MYTH BUSTED.
Misconception #2
All ts girls are easy to get into bed.
WRONG.
Ther certainly are "easy" ts girls, just as there are "easy" GGs as well, but that doesn't mean that all
ts girls are the same way. If you are looking for a purely sexual experience, then I would suggest that you consider
looking for an escort in your area (just look in the back pages of your local paper).
If you are looking for a real relationship, then you should reconsider your motivations carefully.
MYTH BUSTED. (no big surprise)
Misconception #3
A ts girl and a homosexual are the same thing.
WRONG.
Being a transexual and being a homosexual are two completely different things. Being a homosexual means that
you are attracted to members of the same sex (men attracted to men, women attracted to women). Being a transexual
means that you were born with the wrong physical gender, put simply - born in the wrong shell. A ts girl is just like any other woman,
just that she has different plumbing then a GG, and has to go through a lot of pain and personal expense (not to mention
judgement from others) to make that right. There are several more distinctions between the two, I will be writing
an article on the subject in the near future.
MYTH BUSTED.
Misconception #4
A ts girl will understand anything a guy does, since she thinks like one.
WRONG.
Of all the ts girls I know, not one of them thinks like a guy, and not one of them agrees with that statement in any respect.
I know from speaking on this subject with my girlfriend that this statement is greatly resented in general. As she said
to me, "a lot of guys believe that we think like other guys, but we don't. We are not guys."
I agree completely with her statement. I will be writing an article that will go more in-depth on this subject, as I
believe that it is a very common misconception that needs to be addressed more completely then I can do here.
MYTH BUSTED.
Misconception #5
You can treat a ts girl more like one of your guy friends then a lady, it's ok.
WRONG.
If you are interested in starting a relationship of any kind with a ts girl, you DEFINITELY need to treat her like
a lady, she is NOT one of your guy friends. As far as I'm concerned, you should treat a ts girl just like
you should treat a genetic girl, the way your mother told you to when you were young. If you can do this, then you
are well on your way, just keep in mind what you have just read and you'll be fine. Just remember,
a ts girl is really no different from a genetic girl in all the ways that truly matter, and she will react in the same way to
your actions and statements as any other woman will.
MYTH BUSTED.
Misconception #6
ts girls are basically "designer women" because you can always get exactly what you want.
WRONG.
ts girls are going to be who they want to be, the same way as GGs are, and you are. As far as I'm concerned,
nobody can tell anyone else what they should do when it comes to their body, but there are many people out
there who would disagree with that; that's unfortunate for them. For a person to think that they can control
how another person is going to look is like saying that the other person is like a room to be painted. If all
you see when you look at someone is something to be customized to your liking, then you really don't want that
person for the right reasons - you simply want to control them. If your reason for wanting to become involved
with someone is that you think you can make them into exactly what you want, then you need to give your head
a shake and re-think the situation. If this is important to you, then the other person is not, it's that simple in my books.
MYTH BUSTED.
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